It-Girling 101 :
you have to be confident
you are beautiful, smart, talented and so much more. there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that and being proud of that. if you don’t hype yourself up, who will? take those selfies, say your self love affirmations in the mirror, wear your cutest clothes that make you feel prettiest! you are the sh!t , don’t let anyone make you feel less than, ever
be proud of everything you do, even the “small things” because everything you achieve is an accomplishment, nothing goes unnoticed
speak up for yourself! if you don’t like something or how something is going then let it be known! don’t let anyone take your voice from you
stand strong on your beliefs and don’t let anyone sway you
you have to respect yourself
learn how to say ‘no’ to things that don’t feel right to you, even if it may hurt someone else’s feelings
prioritize your needs and wants! you deserve to be happy, comfortable and have the things you desire
set healthy boundaries and stick to them! have a mindset of, people will respect me and my limits or they won’t be in my life at all, period!
don’t just date or be friends with anyone. surround yourself with people who treat you right, who don’t call you out of your name, who are kind to you, who are gentle with you, who care about your hopes and dreams, who won’t put their hands on you, ever! people who don’t make you feel bad about yourself, people who love you unconditionally, someone who will never treat you like garbage, someone who won’t belittle you
treat your body like a temple and only be with someone romantically because you really want to and have feelings for them and not because you feel pressured to or you think you deserve less than
you have to treat yourself like a prize because you are a prize! don’t forget, the way you treat yourself is how other people will treat you. so walk with pride and make sure your standards are high always 💓
don‘t disturb!!!!!
✨How to become a it girl✨
🎀 Take care of your health
Avoid junk food. Poor diet tragically affects your skin, body, health, sleep and your well-being. Replace junk food with fruits, vegetables. Beef and pork replace with chicken and fish. Sodas replace with water. Healthy diet has positive influence on your hole body and mind. It increases focus and energy during the day.
🎀 Mental health
Spend less time on social media. In the stressful situations stay optimistic and do things which calms you down. Read, spend time with yourself, meditate, write in your dairy, take a deep breaths, do yoga. This things will help you clear your mind and increase positive energy.
🎀 Beauty
Take care of your beauty. Do a skincare, haircare. Wear clothes in which you feel confident. The same with your make up. This things help you incease your self-confidence and make you feel comfortable.
🎀 Take care of your body
Do sport. Yoga, pilates, gym, walks any kind of physical activity will give you a boost of positive energy. Sport will incease your dopamine levels and it will lower cortisol level so it help with stress and lower mood. Also it will make your self esteem go higher.
🎀 Personality
Be kind. Treat others like you want to be treated. Smile often and spread love and positivity. Good personality attracts people even more then looks do. Also be kind to yourself. Its good to make a misstakes, do not put to much pressure on your self it isn’t good for your mental health
XOXO
PS. Sorry for any language misstake. I’m from Poland and my english is not very good 😔
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Some of my recent thinspo saves 🌸
Venus in 1st: 1st house is generally the time you begin something. You may find love when you become independent. You may find love at 22 and at 25 which is the maturation age of Venus.
Venus in 2nd: 2nd house is when you are financially settled. So you may find love around 27-28 when you have had 5 to 6 years of career and considerable savings.
Venus in 3rd: 3rd house is your high school years. So you may find love around 14-18 years of age.
Venus in 4th: 4th house is when you are ready to invest in properties. This is ideally around 30-35.
Venus in 5th: 5th house is when you are really young as a child. So you may find love around 10-15 or when you are a bachelor and having fun i.e. 25 to 28.
Venus in 6th: 6th house is when you have started working. So you may find love around 22-25.
Venus in 7th: 7th house is when you are ready to marry. So you may find love around 27-30.
Venus in 8th: 8th house is when you have had some difficult events in life. So you may find love even in late 30's or early 40's (after you had a divorce or breakup or end of 1st marriage etc).
Venus in 9th: 9th house is your college/university years. So you may find love around 18-21. 9th house is also masters and Phd. So you may find around 24-26 and around PhD 30-32.
Venus in 10th: 10th house is your career. You may find love around 25-32.
Venus in 11th: 11th house is your friends in high school. So you may find love in late teens like 16-19.
Venus in 12th: 12th house has no specific timelines. I have found ages 12,24 sometimes introduces the spouse. When you travel abroad after your first salary around 23-24.
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Gut Types (9-8-1)
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/714684054949298176/understanding-type-9?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/713776928726958080/understanding-type-8?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/715329872464150528/understanding-type-1?source=share
Head Types (7-6-5)
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/713157696877199360/understanding-type-7?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/712508568147984384/understanding-type-6?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/712065601858895872/understanding-type-5?source=share
Heart Types (4-3-2)
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/710605851536326656/understanding-type-4-pt-1?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/711239964250324992/introduction-this-is-a-rantinformative-post-on?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/710152882517884928/understanding-type-3?source=share
https://www.tumblr.com/blueopinions49/708805690950565888/understanding-type-2?source=share
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