Healthy Love In 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

"The first symptom of true love in a young man is timidity; in a young girl, boldness. This is surprising, yet nothing is more simple." - Les Miserables by Victor Hugo.

THE FORBIDDEN FLOWER ( 2022 - EP3/EP4)

you know you love me, XOXO, Gossip Girl.

stop being second choice

Start with your relationship with yourself. If you see yourself as second choice, others will see it too. Learn to love yourself and put yourself first in your own priorities.

Learn to love yourself. You can't expect another to fulfill all your affection needs if you're not already enough for yourself. Take time every day to pamper yourself and do the things that bring you happiness.

Dare to take your place and say no when someone asks you something you don't want or can't do. Your time and energy are valuable, don't waste them on others.

Believe in your own worth. Don't let anyone make you doubt your worth. Or you give the impression that you are not “good enough”. You deserve a relationship where you are respected and appreciated for who you are.

༝༚༝༚ océane

Before I leave, brush my teeth with a bottle of Jack

'Cause when I leave for the night, I ain't comin' back

how to start and maintain a successful girlblog

hey girlies!! here are a couple tips i wish i'd known when i was starting up my own girlblog :) enjoy!

FIND YOUR NICHE -

decide what you want your girlblog to focus on. it could be fashion, beauty, lifestyle, self-care, a combination of any of these, really anything that excites you!! having a clear niche will help you get a loyal audience.

CREATE A GOOD USERNAME -

your username should be memorable and reflect the vibe of your blog. try to keep it short and sweet, and personally try to avoid using too many numbers or special characters.

some username ideas

sugarplum

cupcake

glitter girl

dainty daisy

peachy

DESIGN A THEME -

choose a theme that matches your aesthetic/niche. spend some time customizing it with colors, fonts, and images that represent your style. a visually appealing blog will attract more followers and is just nice to look at :)

POST REGULARLY -

consistency is so important! try to post at least a few times a week to keep your audience engaged. i'm starting to use the scheduling tool to plan out my posts.

ENGAGE WITH YOUR FOLLOWERS -

respond to comments, messages, and reblogs. making a blog is about building a community, and your followers will appreciate the interaction!!

USE RELEVANT TAGS -

tag wisely to help people find your blog. research popular tags related to your niche and use them where relevant!

FEEL FREE TO REBLOG -

don't just post your own content – reblog posts from other girlblogs that inspire you. this helps you connect with other bloggers and keeps your blog diverse.

STAY INSPIRED -

follow other girlblogs, browse pinterest, and stay updated on the trends in your niche. keep yourself inspired!! it will reflect in your content and keep your blog fresh.

some of my favorites

@honeytonedhottie

@pinkpigtailsprincess

@girlbossagenda

@girljournal

@universalitgirlsblog2

DON'T BURN YOURSELF OUT -

if you feel burned out, please take a break!! i felt burnout for the last half of may, and it sucked because i felt like i couldn't produce any good content, and i was tired of posting!

hobbies to try out ♡

hobbies are such a great way to spend your time rather than being on technology all the time. It's great to have a skill, as skills can help you make friends, and can also open up new job opportunities!! here are some ideas, some are easy and simple and others are a little more advanced, there's (hopefully) something for everyone !!

O1 , painting / sketching

O2 , ballet (or dance in general)

O3 , sewing

O4 , reading

O5 , journalling

O6 , gardening

O7 , baking

O8 , photography

O9 , creative writing / songwriting / poem writing

1O , yoga

11 , learning an instrument (electric/acoustic guitar, drums, piano, violin etc)

12 , bracelet/jewellery making

13 , thrifting

14 , skateboarding

15 , hiking / exploring

16 , calligraphy

17 , pottery

18 , knitting / crochet

19 , pilates

2O , learning a language

21 , origami

22 , archery

23 , bird watching , herping , and animal/bug study in general

24 , mycology , plant observation/documentation

25 , start a podcast or amateur radio

26 , roller skating

27 , gymnastics / acrobatics

28 , cardistry

29 , terrarium making

30 , calisthenics

hope this helps!!!

BECOMING THE WOMAN YOU WANT

Imagine the woman you want to become. Envision her embracing a lifestyle woven with healthy habits that radiate positivity and well-being. Picture her waking up early, greeting the day with gratitude, and setting intentions that shape her mindset for success.

In her daily routine, she prioritizes self-care—nourishing her body with wholesome meals, staying hydrated, and indulging in regular exercise that she genuinely enjoys. Whether it's a morning yoga session, an evening run, or a dance class, physical activity is not a chore but a celebration of what her body can achieve.

This woman values the power of mindfulness. Picture her taking moments throughout the day to breathe deeply, practice meditation, or simply appreciate the present. It's in these mindful pauses that she finds clarity, resilience, and a profound connection with herself.

As she moves through her day, healthy habits extend into her work life. This woman is organized and efficient, using time management techniques to tackle tasks without feeling overwhelmed. Regular breaks and moments of reflection help her maintain focus and creativity.

Evenings are a sanctuary for winding down. She cherishes a good night's sleep, prioritizing rest as a cornerstone of her well-being. Unplugging from screens, engaging in calming activities, and maintaining a consistent sleep schedule contribute to the rejuvenation her body and mind need.

Remember, becoming her doesn't happen overnight. It's a gradual process, a collection of intentional choices and persistent efforts. Start incorporating these healthy habits, step by step, and watch as you evolve into the empowered, balanced woman you aspire to be. 🌿💪🌺🌟

Inside the charts of K-Pop It Girls

Water Venus

Venus rules over Beauty, Money, Art, Fashion and Magnetism.

To be an "It Girl" your beauty is really what sells people. I've noticed that everyone here has a water Venus (Suzy is a Scorpio, Jennie is a Pisces and Wonyoung is a Cancer).

Now you may ask, "why Water?". Well Water Venus's (especially in Pisces) gives such natives subtly magnetism. They don't have to try hard, they just attract people in. People flock to them just how water flows onto a beach shore. It gives these natives natural charisma and magnetism. Their like sirens, they don't have to do much but they charm people (especially men) to them.

Venus/Jupiter aspects

Wonyoung and Jennie have their sextile their Jupiter meanwhile Suzy has her Venus conjunct her Jupiter. What does Jupiter rule? Expansion, luck, growth, success, and prosperity. All of these three are brand queens (Suzy was literally called the commercial queen or something like that). Now Wonyoung and Jennie's can make rhem just as charismatic and alluring, but this can bring negative effects, as people can hate on them for their looks and their charming nature (ehem ehem, the pick me allegations).

Scorpio Placements

Jennie is a Scorpio Moon and Suzy has her Venus, Jupiter and Mercury in Scorpio. Scorpio is the planet that rules over magnetism and allure, but can bring hate or even obsessive people. People tend to hate on Scorpio placements alot. I'm not very familiar with Suzy, but I know Jennie goes through a massive amount of hate, especially from men (Scorpio rules over Mars=men).

Neptune conjunct Planets

Neptune rules over illusions, glamour, artistry, and more. People with Neptune conjunct their planets can make people assume a lot about them, people spread a lot of rumors against them and people have perceptions on how they act. Since models are supposed to be selling "illusions" of things, then the Neptune placement could be favorable? Jennie has her Sun conjunct Neptune, and Suzy's Uranus is conjunct Neptune. Jennie's affects her overoll personality, people tend to assume a lot of things about her, plus she's really good at curating an image for herself. Suzy's on the other hand makes people drawn to her, she creates trends and is a clear standout. "There's just something about her".

Asteroid "Fama" (408) conjunct Planets

Asteroid Fama shows someone's fame and how they'll be famous what what they'll be famous for. All three have their Fama conjunct their Planets. Jennie's is conjunct her Mars, Wonyoung's is conjunct her Mars and Suzy's is conjunct her Venus. You can interpret Jennie's and Wonyoung's differently. Now what does Mars rule over? Mars rules over action, drive but can also rule over sexuality. We all know that Jennie possesses a type of sensuality to her, with them being in Aquarius it means that hers can be a bit "unconventional" to K-pop standards. Meanwhile Wony's shows that she'll have people be saying "Wonyoung is a hard worker". People will be talking about how much of a perfectionist she is (as they are in Virgo). Suzy's doesn't need much explanation, the whole "Suzy smile" thing is enough for you to know hehe.

Lilith in Cancer

This is a placement shared by Wonyoung and Jennie. Lilith can represent an out casted woman, a woman shunned by people. If you know them even the smallest bit, you've defiantly seen many people (especially many woman) throw shade and hate their way. It's like women with this placement can intimidate other women. Men can fawn over them but some women can get jealous seeing them receiving this much attention.

Those who make their trauma a toy:

Moon Aquarius/Gemini/Sagittarius

Moon-Uranus aspects

Air element dominates