Pure Wisedon For Husbands

Interesting note

How come u guys don't get jealous? When I truly love and value someone I don't want to share them. And it'd offend me if my lover didn't love me enough to feel the same way.

Unfortunately that’s a hard question to answer. If you’re not a swinger it’s hard to explain how it feels. We were the same. People would tell us that it brought you closer together and made you love each other more. That was incomprehensible to us how watching someone else with your partner could possibly be a good thing. But we eventually found ourselves in that situation and they were right! Our bond got stronger! Our sex was better! It was a turn on watching each other give and receive pleasure! It’s progressed to a stage now that we swap partners and sleep with them in separate rooms for the night. Then we swap stories the next day and have amazing sex!

Great post, you were very patient and got your reward. Thanks for sharing your experience and your amazing wife ;-) congrats man.

How did you get her to start fucking other guys. Did you start with swapping first or threesomes? Did it take long to convince her and was she keen to continue after the first. Did she want the same guy or to try others? Sorry for all the questions but am very interested and envious of you.

It took a very long time.  For years I talked about the fantasy of watching her fuck other guys- threesomes, gangbangs, etc.  She would always get very hot in bed with these fantasies.  Slowly talked her into swinging, which led to MFM threesomes, and then her just fucking guys while I was there, and then her fucking guys when I wasn’t there.  It was a progression and it took about a decade to get where we are now.  She did love fucking other guys, and at times she craves new cock, and other times her religious upbringing makes her feel guilty, so it comes and goes.  She does prefer to have one guy at a time, that is a regular fuckbuddy, but she is open to having multiple play partners.  Hope this helps.

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This deserve to be readen

I like all of the "kinks" you explore on your blog and tend to agree with you about how they are natural and evolutionary advantageous. I would love my wife to partake in bareback with some else than me, group sex, multiple partners, threesome, and double vaginal-however, there are also evolutionary reasons why culture has developed to limit these tendencies-STDs-viruses, bacteria, & other microorganisms! An argument can be made that prudish cultural norms took hold to limit our cheating urges.

Real talk for a minute. You should be getting tested, and verifying that the partners you hook up are tested too. 

Most clinics have an online portal so you really just need to go in, pee in a cup, and let them draw some blood. It’s not expensive and you can screenshot the results to prove you’re clean. Women can often just request these tests when they go in for their pap smear.

If your future fuck buddy doesn’t want to get tested then they are either dirty, broke, or lazy. 

Bareback is better, but I don’t play roulette with my health.

#get tested or GTFO

Who Knew “Just Watching” Could Be So Much Fun?

To Those Men Who Want To Watch Or Enjoy Watching Their Wife With Someone Else:

Until recently it’s been the prevailing opinion that the desire to want your wife to be fucked by someone else makes you a weak man…a pathetic & effeminate loser who lets his wife do whatever she wants to him.

But we know now that’s not true, is it?

Thanks to pioneers like @stagnationhw , @hotwivesandgames, @allaboutthehotwifelife, @oursexyexploration, and many others—we know now that there exists throngs of other men who have the desire of wanting to share their wives, sans any humiliation*. These other men are strong, independent, masculine, & secure. 

*no judgment or shade towards men who do like humiliation

We know for them that it’s not about letting your wife walk all over you because she can and because you’re too “weak” to control her, no…

Rather it’s about giving your assent, your consent, your “permission”, your encouragement and support to her so she can embrace her inner naughty side… the “darker” or “sluttier” shades of her sexuality, so to speak.

It’s about being secure enough in yourself and who you are, in your relationship with your wife and with what the two of you share so that you can identify and embrace and explore this desire you have.

For you, it’s not about weakness. It’s about strength.

It’s not about getting walked on; it’s about not being afraid to walk on the path less trodden.

It’s not about a lack of choice; it’s about a willing decision.

You’re a Stag, a Stag Cuckold, a Hotwife Husband. You are what you choose to call yourself. 

But what’s more is that you’re more of a man than those who criticize and judge your desires and choices because of their own fears and insecurities.

I say fuck closemindedness, and fuck the outdated Puritanical constraints society tries to impose upon you and shackle down your desires.

I say embrace them, because that’s what being strong is all about!

Muy buen relato de como se puede descubrir este tipo de placeres. Gracias por compartirlo.

Como empezó mi fantasía parte 1

Hola a todos los que nos siguen, como muchos saben somos una pareja de México de 28 y 27 años y hoy quiero empezar a contarles como empeze con está fantasía de que otro hombre se cogiera a mi esposa.

Pues déjenme decirles que fue algo raro ya que yo era una persona muy celosa pero todo cambió el día que descubrí que mi esposa tenía contacto con sus amigos y pues como dicen la curiosidad mato al gato, así que revise su celular y pues encontré que charlaba con un compañero en un plan algo cariñoso más no sexoso debo decirles. Hablaban del hermano de el y mi esposa decía que era su cuñado y el amigo le seguía la corriente diciéndole que si.

Sentí coraje pero fue entonces donde noté que también estaba muy excitado y eso que no hablaban nada de sexo. Poco después descubrí una conversación entre el hermano del amigo de mi esposa y ella donde el le proponía un acostón pero mi esposa lo rechazaba pero no por mi si no porque ella le decía que si algún día ella le diera las nalgas sería a su hermano, esto me enfureció pero se me paro la Verga de inmediato y mi mente empezó a imaginar a mi esposa cojiendo con otro y casi me vengo. Unos días después le reclame pudimos arreglar las cosas y aunque me pidió perdón la idea ya se me había quedado en la cabeza.

Si les gustó el relato haganmelo saber para subir la siguiente parte prometo que irá mejorando y les aseguro que es 100% real

Great and usefull one

Great advice

We're young, and I really do think she's the one, but that makes me worried I'd ruin things by being open about wanting to see her fuck someone else. I know it's kind of contradictory, like if we are meant to be our relationship should be fine after experimenting with sharing, but it's still tough getting the balls to admit it to her.

Most hotwife blogs will tell you not to go through with it given those feelings, but this is not a hotwife blog. I think a little bit of jealousy is hot. And when two dudes are grunting away like a couple of cavemen to satisfy one vixen, I think it’s arousing.

So you don’t want to look weak right? Trust me, if you say something like,

“I think it would be hot competing for you against other alpha males. I would love to prove to you why you married me over and over again. I like the thought of putting you on a pedestal and I feel a flutter of excitement and jealousy when I catch guys looking at you.”

Now stop being a pussy and go eat your wife’s.

#want to share her

Great post.

If you may ever ask if there is an undelying reason for hotwifing.

Why do I find slutty women so attractive?

This was from an email that was submitted here.

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I was wondering if you met anyone like me. I am in my 20′s and single and only attracted to hotwives or promiscusous “bad girls.” I have no intention of settling down but I definitely don’t want a monogamous girl when I do. 

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Dear anon,

Have I met other guys who only like promiscuous women? 

Yes.

It’s actually pretty common. I’ll post my sources below.

Males will often produce more testosterone when competing for a non-monogamous female than they would with traditionally monogamous females.

In fact, non-monogamous women are often more desired due to the pheromones they emit. The “slut pheromone” phenomena is not a myth.

Semen produces chemicals that will hunt out and kill other semen. 

And since semen can stay alive for up to 10 days, there is a good chance that semen from multiple males are all battling inside one female.

Just knowing your seed is in a death battle with other males is enough to trigger this chemical release in your body.

Conclusion. Wanting to compete for promiscuous women is normal. It actually boosts your testosterone levels significantly and evolved to produce the best offspring possible. 

You’ll never see animals “slut shaming” 

They are either fighting for that ass, or actually getting it.

Sources

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sperm_competition

http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022519310000317

https://www.zmescience.com/medicine/genetic/promiscuous-female-mice-sexy-offspring-432432/

http://journals.plos.org/plosgenetics/article?id=10.1371/journal.pgen.0010035

Interesting article It shows hotwifing as a growing tendence. Plus now it is something apearing in mainstream media.

Gracias dir the advice, the bar part is so true

Hello, do you currently live in Italy? I was wondering if you could give us some advice. We're Americans travelling to Rome in a few months and the wife wants to find a guy for a night of NSA fun. Basically we're looking for a third for MFM threesome. Are Italian men open to this sort of arrangement? Any suggestions on where to find someone other than a bar?

HiDifficult to answer. I think most of the guys you can find in a bar will be open to have a ride with the wife, but perhaps not that open to a threesome with another man they never met.Even more important, if you rely on this kind of casual encounters you won’t be able to filter the guys, and you won’t know who you end up with.

I’d say it’s better if you get registered on a local swingers/cuckold/hotwife site, creating a couple’s profile; that will give you the opportunity to look for an experienced man (and you’ll be able to choose the one you like the most, too) and to set up a date for when you’ll be in Rome.

Have a look for example on www.thecuckold.com (it should have an English version too, and it’s basically free), or www.annunci69.it .The second one is far bigger, probably the biggest website of this kind in Italy, but the first one sometime is better.In case you might need it, Rome is in a region called Lazio (Italy is divided into regions, similar to US states even though on a smaller scale of course). It might be useful to look for singles and bull coming from this region, if not only Rome.Good luck ;)