I'll be careful baby.
Well. We have a few friends in our life whom are close enough to us that we have let them know about our lifestyle. The 1st question that always comes up (once they wrap their heads around what we have just told them), is "how did you guys get into all of this?".
Well, the answer to that is both pretty short, and also pretty long.... (give me a minute, it will make sense)...
I have always been pretty open minded and adventurous. I also firmly happen to believe that sex and love can be 2 very separate things! But the reality of it is, it came down to 1 event to throw us into the lifestyle, in a much different way than I originally anticipated.... The long and short of it, I was an asshole, and I cheated on my wife (then fiancee) just about 10 years ago. It took us time, and lots of open communication, and lots of trust building again on my part, all of which I was more than happy to do. I truly knew I fucked up, I made the biggest mistake of my life, and I was prepared to do whatever I had to do to show my wife that I wanted to be with her. (This is usually the part where people think we got into this as my way of trying to kiss up to her, or as some kind of redemption, but that definitely was not the case. What this event did though was to open the door to the absolute honest and truthful "everything on the table" communication that I think all successful marriages have/need.)
Through the open dialogue we were having, we discussed my feelings about how sex and love could be 2 very different things, and I told her that one of my biggest fantasies would be to know that she was giving herself over in every way she wanted to another man and his cock, and also knowing that when that time was over, she would be coming home to me. She was sceptical at first (for quite a while), but through regular conversation, and through lots of fantasy talk while we would be having sex, she began to accept and really open up to the idea...
About 6 months after our first conversation about the lifestyle, we began talking to and flirting with people online, video chatting with other people, men and woman, and couples. We would chat, flirt, and generally be as sexually deviant as you can imagine, while also still only talking to and seeing this person via video. Then about a year after that, we moved to the other side of the country, where I was working at the time. The opportunity this new home afforded us that our last place didnt was, anonymity. There was no concern of searching for people online and then meeting someone accidentally who knew us, or our family. This, is when I finally felt like this is something we are actually going to do. Then, within the first 3 months of us bei g in our new home, we found, totally "by accident" a couple whom was interested in "playing", and also through one of our many searches (craigslist was very helpful), we found who would be our first bull....
--sorry that this one feels pretty cold and straight forward, but it is more along the line of "this is how it happened", it's not the most sexy story, but they will get there... long for my next post coming soon.
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