i dont consider myself a 'fashion guru' by any means but one thing i will say is guys you dont need to know the specific brand an item you like is - you need to know what the item is called. very rarely does a brand matter, but knowing that pair of pants is called 'cargo' vs 'boot cut' or the names of dress styles is going to help you find clothes you like WAAAYYYY faster than brand shopping
Hey fun fact you can bite girls and they like it
inaction fans when they find out making no choice is a choice in and of itself
if they ignore your safeword, they are abusing you. if they punish you for safewording, they are abusing you. if they tell you you can't have a safeword, they are abusing you. you have the right to withdraw consent whenever you want, and face no repercussions for it, no matter what anyone else tries to sell you.
the treatment of black trans women on this site from the shithead racist transmisogynistic harassment campaigns to the erasure of black women's literal existence in transmisogynists' condemnations of transfeminism & transfemininity as inherently white to the overtly and proudly fucking bigoted staff siding with mass reporters and erasing the presence and archives of women who have done Nothing Whatsoever to violate TOS is completely unforgivable
You have to keep transitioning until you discover that you actually do love dancing and sex. Please.
*gets bodychecked while playing women's lacrosse and breaks my nose* this is perfectly normal if the person who did this to me was born with the Moon Goddess Innocence Genitals but misogynistic violence if the person who did this to me was born with the Violent Penetration Genitals
i saw the tv glow said to come out you have to kill a part of yourself, the version of yourself you've created to protect yourself, the imaginary vision of yourself that was fed to you
she's dying
white t girl i love you. and also do not forget that you are not the modern martyr for the oppressed voice. that's still black girls. it's always been black girls. stories of black martyrdom simply don't make it into the news cycle until the unrest caused by its reporting can be packaged as a "riot" segment between traffic reports. i know you suffer, but whatever you're experiencing, i beg you, when interacting with your community and building nuanced understandings of each other and the system which binds us, to not forget that a black tgirl has felt it 100 times worse before positioning yourself as an authority on all systems of oppression for having suffered unjustly at all. because you have suffered unjustly, but suffering unjustly as a white person means something so much different.
i would rather hang out with a thousand feedists and fat "fetishists" than even one so-called ally wailing and gnashing their teeth about the evils of *checks notes* finding fat people hot.