Obsessed With This Video

So I had a funny dream the other night.

It involved a very gay witch.

The thing that gets me about the "Dude" discourse is that it feels like a simple question of respect?

I don't like getting called dude or bro. Most transfems I know don't like getting called dude or bro.

It doesn't really matter if it's intended to be used in a gender neutral way, cause that's often not the effect that it is having.

And not calling someone dude or bro or anything like that is super easy.

And if you mess up, you can just say "my bad" and move on.

Tumblr is a website where the least punk thing you can do is listen to punk, where the queerest game is Dungeons & Dragons because it lets you play as anyone, including a straight man, and where the presence of cishet men is seen as an indicator of the health of a queer community.

I can be shaped by more than the things that hurt me

trying to do sexy pain-based powerplay dynamics with a girl who's quitting smoking so instead of burning me with the cherry while she fucks me she just has to throw her nicotine-free vape battery at my head as hard as possible

did you know you could stay up all night with your girlfriend cuddling naked and watching ManlyBadassHero letsplays did you know that did you did you

did you know lesbians are awesome and cuddly and love you and will hear you out on almost any stupid idea did you know that did you did you did you

did you know when you yawn and its late at night your girlfriend will say "awwh, well someone sounds tired" and you can go "nyouu im nyot tireeeedd :<" and then they'll pet you did you know that

did you know she'll stay up all night with you while you slowly drift asleep and take cute selfies of the two of you while you struggle to keep your little eyes open did you know that did you know??????

"you don't have to perform around me" sweetheart i have to perform in front of myself

Sometimes I think about what kind of wild beauty standards we would have come up with if human skin was transparent.

There’d be TikToks about the shape of people’s lungs and the girth of their ribs and shit like that.

This comic makes me so stupid emotional. She might have never known.

To my uk trans people and allies out there.