Find A Man Who Understands That Being Faithful Is Required If He Wants To Be In A Relationship With You.

Find a man who understands that being faithful is required if he wants to be in a relationship with you. There are millions of men who don’t cheat and it’s not hard to find someone who will respect the time and effort you put into your relationships with the men you’ve loved before and who wants you to be happy.

Find a man who wasn’t raised with unfettered access to pornography and who’s able to take rejection without feeling the need to coerce you. If he grew up on porn and has unrealistic views of how women should look or how they should act in bed then he’s no man…he’s still a boy and should be treated as such.

Find a man you’re sexually compatible with and who’s able to listen to your verbal feedback and understand your nonverbal feedback without letting his ego get in the way of your pleasure. Life is far too short to be with someone who refuses to give you pleasure or let you experience sex at its most beautiful; if he’s selfish in bed then the selfishness won’t end there. Dump him.

Find a man who you’re able to communicate with without feeling like you have to cut yourself short or hide your feelings to spare his, find someone who lets you talk and vent to him, and find someone who you’re not afraid of talking to no matter the circumstances.

Find a man who supports you, listens to your weird interests, talks to you, and is happy to participate in your life without feeling insecure and bringing you down or treating you like you’re an idiot. There is a man out there who will be your biggest cheerleader, no need to stay with men who don’t want to see you at your happiest and who don’t support your passions.

Find a man who loves the fact that you make time for him and who would never let you down. There are men who plan dates far in advance and keep them, there are men who take off work to see you, and there are men who are easily able to keep their promises. Why stay with someone who’s okay with letting you down?

Find a man who you’re attracted to and who takes care of himself. You’re young and happy! Why spend the best years of your life playing mommy to a man who doesn’t bother keeping himself clean or looking good for you? There are men who need a little help with styling and then there are losers who can’t take care of themselves and expect women to. Stay away from the losers and stick to the ones who need stylists!

Find a man who actively takes you out and introduces you to his family, his friends, and the people in his life. If you’re in an established relationship and you’ve been together for a while but he’s neglected to introduce you to any of the people he loves, you’re probably the second lady in his life. Find a man who’s proud of you and dying to show you off, they’re out there.

Find a man who knows how to treat a woman and who doesn’t struggle with the way you choose to express yourself or exhibit your femininity. For every man out there who wants to control you, there’s a man who’ll view whatever you do as beautiful. There’s no need to mess around with men who’ll waste your life, suck all the happiness out of you, and steal your confidence.

Find a man who would be more than willing to spend his life pursuing you from friends to dating to marriage and beyond. There are men out there who view being active partners as a given, who would do anything to love and care for you, who want to be known as your guy, who would be happy to be seen anywhere with you, and who would treat you like an absolute darling.

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thecreatorqt

1 year ago

Just wanted to let you know that with your self concept tape I manifested my desired hair length in seconds!?

I said in my last review that it grew like a cm or 2 but I wanted it longer like WAYYY longer. So I woke up today and just said "fuck it I want my beautiful hair back 😭" (I cut it off recently due to it being split and dead...)

So I just kept repeating to myself that I was in control so I can get whatever tf I want.

A little later I got my hair taken out and with the Gods as my witnesses my hair was long and FLOWINGGG. It was at my ears before now it's below the shoulders.

My hair was so easy to detangle and it's so light, fluffy and healthy!! 😫

Being a black girl my hair is my biggest pride, its my crown. So for it to be so...WOW.

Is just amazing, I'm so happy tysm for your service you're a blessing 🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏾❤️

Oh my..... You are very welcome + Thank you enjoy baby 😭🫶🏻

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thecreatorqt

1 year ago

Have u ever entered the void state?

Yes you enter it everyday but unaware, BUT they were sometimes I would wake up in it but be so damn tired that I genuinely just get out of it unconsciously I don’t know how to explain it but i gain consciousness sometimes but at the worst times probably.. 😭

my understanding of "the state of the wish fulfilled":

you completely accept that you already have what you want in your imagination (4d).

you have absolute faith/trust in your 4d, so much that you stick to it like glue.

you'll be so damn confident in yourself (the inner man) that nothing can literally shake you. and when i say nothing, nothing. not even the 3d; circumstances, logic, time, or intrusive thoughts.

you literally don't falter at all because of the absolute faith you put into your imagination. when you see the 3d you go like "uhm ok whatever, it's not final anyway lmao it will bend and shift according to my imagination (4d)" basically you're unbothered, literally.

you may even be so engrossed in your imagination because of how good it feels that you don't even care about what you see in the 3d anymore.

naturally, negative or intrusive thoughts will disappear because you already have everything you want. it doesn't make "sense" for you to question something that you already possess??

also if you are "trying" to manifest your desires right now, i believe in you. you got this. you can do this! i know that circumstances can be hard and that it's annoying because it's in your face. but to that i say, what do you have to lose when you can simply look inwards to your imagination and fulfil yourself there?

i highly recommend reading jani's post here on the state of the wish fulfilled if you're still doubting yourself!

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thecreatorqt

1 year ago

Motivation to enter the void state for me and everyone.

Abdullah to Neville said:

You are in Barbados.

So:

YOU ARE IN THE VOID STATE. YES, YOU ARE IN THE VOID STATE. HOW? IN YOUR IMAGINATION. THINK OF YOUR DESIRES. YOU ARE IN THE VOID STATE.

“But I haven’t entered the-“

WHO SAID THAT? YOU ALREADY ARE IN THE VOID STATE.

-slams the door-

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thecreatorqt

1 year ago

Happy Diwali to all my lovely friends 🪔✨

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thecreatorqt

1 year ago

People in my lucid dream be mean ASF damn 😟

I ENTERED THE VOID

Through a lucid dream 🎀 !!

HOLY MOLY...shit ??

Okay so, I would like to start off by saying a big THANKYOU to Aura :)

Aura? Do you have any idea how powerful your lucid dreaming sub is ?? 😭 You sub literally gave me the vividest ( idk if that's a word or not lmao ) lucid dream I ever had.

I slept with your sub playing in the background when I woke up, o relized I was in a dream, A LUCID DREAM?!? 😭 It was surreal. It was so freaking vivid like it was more real than the real world 💀 In the past I have tried countless methods like WILD, WBTB, MILD etc. and never had such vivid dream that your sub gave me.. I'm literally being honest here 😭<3

Okay so after that, Without wasting a literal second I fell down so that I would end up in the void, but unfortunately it didn't work idk why, maybe I did it wrong or something but then I asked a stranger in my dream to take me to the void. They literally pushed me so hard and I fell into a dark place, YEAHhhhHh IT WAS THE VOID.

It truly felt like heaven !

Gonna mention few things that I affirmed for :

- IMMORTALITY

- GOOD HEALTH AND PHYSICAL PRESENTATION

- GOOD IMMUNE SYSTEM AND NATURAL DEFENSES

- NO DISEASE FOR LIFETIME

- POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND MOOD DESPITE THE CHALLENGES

- ENERGY, JOY AND VIBRANCY

- FEELING OF INVINCIBILITY AND PEACE OF MIND

- DESIRED PHONE, JOB, HOME, FRIENDS, DF, DB, WARDROBE, WHOLE APPERANCE

- TRAVEL AND ADVENTURE

- RELATIONSHIP

- MONEY

- PRINCESS TREATMENT

- LIL CLUMSY

- FEW CUTE HABITS

- ALL THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE WORLD

- EVERYONE'S CRUSH

- CHANGED BIRTHDAY, NAME, AGE

A piece of motivation for y'all :

It's not over until you win and yes, you could fail but you are not giving up GOT that? You will succeed and that's it PERIOD

And lastly "BE STRONGER THAN YOUR EXCUSES"

Just gonna deactivate now, and live my life. 🎀

SUCCESS STORY ♡

I am so very happy and proud of you. And yes, I designed the sub to be as powerful as possible, although I did tone it down a little bit because I was actually afraid I may make it too powerful in a way.

Your experience sounds incredible and I'm happy to know that I was a part of your journey.

I love your list !! ENJOY YOUR LIFE with those manifestations of yours <3

And I loving the energy, motivation and positivity from this message, I believe the last part of your ask will motivate a lot of people.

I also want you all to know that just be sure to always continue and never give up. Remember that your power is far greater than any circumstance or challenge you may be facing. You are a winner, a victor, and you are living your ideal life no matter what. You are always living the life you wish for, the question you have left to answer is whether or not you are aware of that fact. You can and will do it, there is no other possibility ! 🤍

Here's the LUCID DREAMING SUB they used

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thecreatorqt

1 year ago

It’s crazy how I always wake up in the void, like the minute I sleep I’m in, when I want I’m in even when I don’t want I’m still I’m. How cool this is to have such cool abilities like it’s so cool to be a master of the void I enter it in less then 5 minutes with just some affirmations thrown around and boom I’m in how easy is it.