I get to decorate our house the way I want to(my husband has left that to me in its entirety+it helps we have similar aesthetic tastes)
I don't have to bicker and nag him about doing the chores in an "imperfect" way
I can create my own schedule and switch around chores, hobbies and rest
I can volunteer and learn new things in a more relaxed manner than I would if I had a day job
I can put more effort into my appearance and demeanor and inculcate a sweet attitude as most of my worries are quite minor
I can give my husband an organised lifestyle and more detailed care and affection
I can host dinner parties or entertain family or friends on his behalf and help him maintain good societal relations
I can care for his family members when he's not around so he doesn't have to worry about them as well as they don't feel neglected by their son
Traditional femininity is empowering. There is strength in being soft, beauty in being kind, and peace in being soft spoken and humble.
Feminine women add to the world by building up a sense of community and fostering safe and comfortable homes in those communities.
It’s not humiliating to be a traditionally feminine woman.
Howl's Moving Castle dir. Hayao Miyazaki | 2004
I love how people automatically assume that being a homemaker is a decision that doesn’t account for the wants or needs of the woman + her family. Or that our husbands see us as not human- like where on Earth is this logic coming from????
''A woman should submit"
Are you a dog? A child? A servant? You are your own person with your own opinions, wants and needs. You are smart enough to know what's best for you. You deserve to be treated as an equal not as lesser. Being a homemaker isn't what you think it is. You're young; go travel, have fun, get a job you love, study, live your potential and have new experiences instead of daydreaming about erasing who you are and dedicating your entire life for someone who doesn't see you as a person.
You are very respectful and I appreciate that about you so I’m gonna make this nice short and sweet
1. This is my blog full of my opinions
2. My life (which you probably don’t know about)
3. I’m an adult
4. I am capable of understanding the difference being guided and being abused
5. If you are so bothered by me choosing the way I think and how I would like to live my life you are more then welcome to ignore me or leave
Being traditional doesn’t mean I can’t study or travel or do anything cause I marry a traditional man and want a traditional relationship
When traditional women chose the right man for us more often then not these desires are fulfilled even more then anyone can imagine
A husband isn’t meant to hold you back but be your biggest friend and supporter
A husband should be able enhance a woman’s life not downgrade it
I get it not everyone is for tradlife and that’s okay you live your life and I’ll live mine
Thank you very much for your question and I hope you have a wonderful day you wonderful person
𝓕𝓮𝓫𝓻𝓾𝓪𝓻𝔂 𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮 -`♡´-
“[insert aspect of Christian holiday] has PAGAN ROOTS 😱”
yeah and St. Paul had killing-Christians-roots lol. we baptized him, we baptized your pagan traditions, we’ll baptize you too
Heaven knows I keep falling into some of these traps… 😥
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