Every time I see someone who is dealing with an issue with abuse come up on the news, I am bombarded with the simple reality that the society I live in will always perpetuate abuse, and reward abusers.
The social response to the #MeToo & BLM movements are the easiest (for me) to point at, but are definitely not the only ones. Victims of abuse are the unwanted voices in the social sphere. We break the belief that the world is just. We must be brought in line. Discredited, muted, obscured.
"It was just a joke. You're overreacting."
"Well, you did drink too much that night."
"I mean, you did do weed / cheat / drink / shoplift when you were younger."
"You wore that? No wonder."
"Well not all christians -"
"You can't call them narcissistic / an abuser / a rapist / a racist -"
"I've met them and they were lovely, you must have done something / be lying."
"They never beat you or anything, right? You should just forgive them. They're human, after all - we all make mistakes!"
It is an odd thing. Piling onto abuse, to preserve an illusion that there is none.
it's always so fascinating and heartbreaking when a character in a story is simultaneously idolized and abused. a chosen prophet destined for martyrdom. a child prodigy forced to grow up too fast. a powerful warrior raised as nothing but a weapon. there's just something so uniquely messed up about singing someone's praises whilst destroying them.
Being in a cult is like having this huge plant take root in your mind, and the longer it’s inner the bigger and more complex the root system.
Finally realizing it’s all a lie and getting out is like yanking the entire plant out of your brain, it’s tough and annoying until you take one massive tug and it’s out. And it fucking hurts.
And now there are holes where the roots used to be. But if you leave them empty the structural integrity of your mind will be damaged. You have to find something else to fill them with. Preferably something healthy.
And if the roots were complex enough, the one tug that pulled the plant out won’t have been enough to free all the roots. A lot of them are still in there, that’s all the toxic internalized ideas you still have stuck in your head. Unlearning them is like pulling those root fragments out, it’s slow and complicated and painful.
Tumblr is so fun. Like obviously incredibly cursed but it feels comfy. Unlike Twitter it seems like people just want to enjoy things in peace now.
*kill bill sirens*
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Yeah so this is about to become one of safe spaces on the internet to just be myself. Expect venting, fan art reblogs, and maybe a joke once in a while.
Yep
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Humans pretend to be good in small ways for social clout but underneath where it counts, very definitely all selfish and bad.
am done behaving i want gay things to happen now
Honestly, Rick Rolling is the best practical joke ever. Like, there’s nothing offensive or mean spirited about it. It’s just like “Oops you thought there would be something else here but it’s ‘Never Gonna Give You Up’.” which isn’t even a bad song. It’s fairly enjoyable to listen to. There’s no jumpscares, no screaming, no ill will. Just Rick Astley telling you he’s never going to give you up. I think that’s great. “You fell into my trap! Here, listen to this completely benign song that will have no negative effect on you.”
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