Do Not Punish The Behaviour You Want To See

Do not punish the behaviour you want to see

I mean, it seems pretty obvious when you put it like that, right?

But how many families, when an introvert sibling or child makes an effort to socialize,  snarkily say, “So, you’ve decided to join us”?

Or when someone does something they’ve had trouble doing, say, “Why can’t you do that all the time?” (Happened to me, too often.)

Or any sentence containing the word “finally”. 

If someone makes a step, a small step, in a direction you want to encourage, encourage it. Don’t complain about how it’s not enough. Don’t bring up previous stuff. Encourage it.

Because I swear to fucking god there is nothing more soul-killing, more motivation-crushing, than struggling to succeed and finding out that success and failure are both punished.

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4 months ago

Hello everyone,

I'm Jasenta from a refugee camp in Africa but the situation in the camp is not easy for me with my kittens.

When I reached here I found people hate pets and killing them day night💔 and I rescued 5 kittens😿 but 2 died because of hung now I have 3 and the problem I have with them they don't feed on rice they like to eat meat, fish and milk and I don't have a job to earn so that I can feed them with what they prefer to eat and they have taken 2days they don't have meat or food to feed on and they are meowing since they last ate, they are much disturbing because of the hung

Am kindly requesting for help because one of them escaped due to hung and people attacked her, she got an injury After being beaten by people and I took her to the hospital but now she is well, so in this I don't wish not to see one of the remaining kittens getting injuries so i decided to make a face around my home so that they can't escape when am not around and when am around they can be outside they can play . Am in need of 600$ dollars so that I can contract the fance and also to pay for their monthly meat and milk.

Am kindly requesting for support through using worldremit +254111302735 or you can donate on my gofundme https://gofund.me/4b7d0709

Thanks to all the helping hearts, grea

Hello Everyone,
Hello Everyone,
Hello Everyone,
3 weeks ago

no one appreciates that i could be a million times worse

3 months ago

CB COMMUNITY I KNOW I'M LATE ONCE AGAIN BUT I HAVE A PEACE OFFERING

BEHOLD

my valentine's day fanart!!!

CB COMMUNITY I KNOW I'M LATE ONCE AGAIN BUT I HAVE A PEACE OFFERING

Sooo remember that art trend with this sort of style? I thought it fit really well and wanted to try it with Chase and Buddy!! Watcha think? Did I do okay?

(I did the entire background from scratch and it absolutely killed me... T v T)

Oh! Also, if any of you want to use this as a poster in your own home or anything, you are free to do so! And that goes for all of my previous fanarts aswell! (Does this make me sound arrogant and overconfident? I sure hope not ;w;)

Anyways, I'll go back to hiding in my bird nest until another idea pops into my brain


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3 months ago
Abolish Tesla.

Abolish Tesla.

4 months ago

AHHHHH ITS SO CUTE I LOVE IT!!!!!!!

Help I Love Them So Much 😭❤️

Help I love them so much 😭❤️

3 months ago
I Don’t Just Want More Buddy With His Hair Pushed Back, I Need More Buddy With His Hair Pushed Back.

i don’t just want more buddy with his hair pushed back, i need more buddy with his hair pushed back.


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2 months ago

does the school you go/went to have a separate wikipedia page? (I'm curious)

- yes

- no

- not sure

- it used to, but not anymore

- didn't go to school/see results

3 months ago

when I discover a tumblr account I have never seen before but is dedicated to CB, I would scroll through almost their entire blog and like every CB related post. All at once. And then I’d follow them.

Then I got an own taste of my medicine when someone did the same to me and it appears like a whole freaking row of notifications on my activity page. Now, I imagine a random person open their tumblr and the first thing they see is: “Dr truffles liked your post” a hundred times specifically on their CB posts.


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toothlessisthebest - IS IT CASUAL NOW!?!
IS IT CASUAL NOW!?!

♤Hi, I'm Rogue♤♡I'm Bi and go by she/her♡◇I'm into a lot of fandoms, but my current obsession is CB◇♧I like crocheting , drawing, COFFEE, jewelry, and more♧☆Please keep in mind that I'm a minor☆

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