Asexuals And Aromantics Are An Important Part Of The Community.

DNI

If-

MAP/A supporter of MAPS

Racist/Anti-BLM

NSFW

DDLG

Queerphobe ( that means asexuals, transgender, and aromantics as well)

Exclusionist of Any Kind

TERF

A Trumpie/Support Trump

Anti-MOGAI

Don't Like the Use of Queer (not saying you are horrible for feeling uncomfortable, this is just a warning, I do use it a lot.)

Can we please stop with the “being bi is liking all women and three men” stereotypes? You guys try so hard to emphasize that bisexuality isn’t JUST 50/50 but create posts that are just as harmful. As a bisexual who prefers guys, seeing posts like that makes me doubt my sexuality and sends me down another loop of “what if I’m straight and I’m faking it for attention”. Altough I usually come back to bi, the period of questioning because of an instagram post is really stressful for me, and I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels like this.

I’d like to anonymously coin the term Hydrangeaflux, it’s definition is: Having multiple masculine, masculine aligned, and or nonaligned genders all at once but how prevalent each one is fluctuates! I also made a flag for it! Which I'll submit in a second but if you have any suggestions about changes to make to it (especially if it looks too much like another flag!) that's cool ^w^

I love it !!!

No, because a sandwitch is bread on top- meat- condiments- bread on bottom, not bread on side- pig guts- bread on side.

The only real discourse that we should be having in the LGBTQ+ community is whether or not a hot dog is a sandwich.

So I post this to interupt your scroll through the discourse tags with an actually important question:

Is a hotdog a sandwich?

Genderfluid people? Amazing Genderflux people? Incredible Demifluid people? Lovely Demiflux people? Gorgeous Girlflux people? Stunning Boyflux people? Beautiful Genderfae people? Astounding Genderflor people? Precious Genderfaun people? Great Fluidflux people? Irreplaceable All people with a fluid gender identity? Fucking effervencent babeyy

teachers will get more mad at students saying ‘shut up’ than at students who are blatantly racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, and so forth. 

💙💖🤍💖💙

Just in case any of you were wondering what an m-spec lesbian was

what’s an mspec lesbian

I'm glad you asked,dear anon. An m-spec lesbian is any sapphic that identifies with both an m-spec label and the lesbian label. (M-spec means multispectrum,so any orientation attracted to more than one gender.) So they may be romantically attracted to multiple genders,but sexually attracted to women and feminine genders. Or they are attracted to all genders excluding men. They could be reclaiming the label lesbian, as it used mean any woman who had relationships with women,no matter the sexuality. This ended in the lesbian separatist movement of th 1970's. Finally, you have those that use it to show they prioritize their attraction to women, for whatever reason.

Honestly I think the exclusion of cis heterosexual aromantic people and cis heteroromantic asexual people gives off biphobic vibes

A biphobic argument for why bi people should be excluded (drop the B) is that we’re “basically straight”, “half straight”, “spicy straight” or “straight passing”, especially if we are binary people who prefer (or have exclusively dated) the other binary gender. The argument ignores that our sexuality is complete as it is and not half or part of something else and the struggles we specifically face for being bi and not straight (or gay).

And then I then turn around and see asexual and aromantic people having their complete orientation and specific struggles erased because they’re “basically straight”, “half straight”, “special straight” or “straight passing”... especially when many aros and aces mistook their orientation for bi or pan because they felt the same about everyone? That doesn’t sit right with me! At all!

Bi (or omni/pan/ply/abro/etc) and a-spec people what do you think about this?? I personally think we need to work on some fucking solidarity because this erasure of our sexualities isn’t okay, we have so much in common and sometimes have thought we are the other orientation or we’re a mix of both.

Don’t clown on this post if you’re a biphobe or aphobe, learn better

Demigirl

so this is more for myself-

i'm curious to see how much my gender changes (I'm genderfluid) and what it changes to so I'll probably repeatedly reblog this with my gender shshhs