Trauma dumping becoming a popularized term is just so fucking sad idk that’s one of the worst ones used casually obv there will always be people who say and ask too much from people who cant and don’t know how to handle it but it becoming some sort of pop psychology criminal offense is insane. like someone constantly oversharing is a huge sign something is very wrong you just need to understand that sometimes you’re not the one to fix it and can walk away if need be. Not talk massive shit and play victim ruining someone’s life because they told you too much about their childhood or something just keep it moving
judith jamison photographed performing in alvin ailey’s cry by fred fehl
Pink Velvet Cake
Seeing yourself as capable and being able to make decisions calmly and on your own terms is a bigger life upgrade than any job or life opportunity itself could validate or offer
I have to get in my journal and put a lot of thoughts down soon I have to get a needle to sew up my old journals I have to go through them first to make sure there’s nothing I want to bring to the new one there’s so much to work out on paper today and I am so beyond excited
May goals:
- job or otherwise figure out what the fuck I’m doing
- no fast food all these companies are disgusting and bad for my health
- try to let my hair grow back where I’ve been pulling it out
- yoga
- um idk . Slow down read more shut up more