just want to check in; girls with heavy eyebags and deep, sunken dead eyes are still hot right? does that make me cute?
Y'all are so cool
lesbianism and feminism include trans women DO NOTTTT try me. for serious
i keep meeting transfems whose personalities are like, gaping wounds. girls who've been stomped on over and over until they start thinking they're uniquely evil and they deserve it. people shouldn't be allowed to treat us like this.
one consequence of transmisogyny (but not unique to it) is that it makes you into a paranoiac. take the example of the "degendering they" or like the "backhanded compliment," relatively minor interpersonal interactions that trans women increasingly feel hypervigilant about. it's probably counterproductive to assume everyone who gives you a compliment or refers to you as "they" or "this person" (<- phrase that actually revolts me a little now in this context) is doing so condescendingly, in a malicious or even just incidentally diminishing way. but also, everything about your life as a trans woman encourages you to be on alert for these kinds of cues, because if you're not paying attention to them then when the hammer drops it will hit that much harder.
lesbians love and support our trans sisters ๐๐
Here's the thing though. No amount of posturing and blaming what caused Harris to lose really means anything. We live in a racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic, extremely bigoted and selfish country. We need to reckon with that, not the minutia of the campaign.
I've noticed a lot of transfem sapphics & lesbians get really worried and nervous in lesbian & sapphic spaces because they think they "don't belong" or that people won't be into them. I'm here to say that you're WRONG and I'm personally giving every tgirl a kiss on the lips. I love women
what if this humanization of an animal or object was a skinny white woman that is my original idea
reminder to people that cripplepunk isnt just โpunk aesthetic but disabledโ
cripplepunk is a disability movement
cripplepunk has its own principals and tenets
its more than just patches, pins, and plaid