this is highly specific but that lil trend of alt characters getting a makeover to look more appropriate socially (clean outfit, modest make up, etc) and appear happier kinda fucking sucks sorry.
>"i report palestinian fundraisers that i decide look 'fishy'"
>go to their blog
>pinned post is selling astrology readings
black Tumblr needs to come back i think I'm mentally going insane from you crackers.
“there are femboys who are cis men” there are femboys who say they are cis men girl 😭 don’t be dense you know the difference. did you have male privilege when you were trapped in the closet? or is there some magic soul difference between you and all the “cis men” who haven’t come out as trans yet? be for real. stop appealing to magic soul gender. gender analysis has to be material: crossdressers are TMA. crossdressers crossdress for “sex” or for “performance” or for “fetish” or a million different other reasons because it is socially unacceptable to express it in their public lives, even partially, even if they don’t come out as trans women. do you think Eddie Izzard was immune to transmisogyny before a few years ago? Do you think that didn’t affect job opportunities etc?
whether you want to classify these people as victims or perpetrators (or somewhere in between) the fact is that there is a very real social and legal incentive for sissies and crossdressers and femboys and drag queens to draw a line and say "i am still a cis man, i am not one of those trans women" in not so many words. And they benefit from that and sell it and tme people celebrate it in a way they do not when that line is crossed.
this isn't some "magic soul difference" or whatever bad faith argument you're assuming of me; this is just the clear and simple statement that people view and treat feminine AMAB people differently once they say "i am not a man", once we demand to be respected as women.
you know even if a homeless person or a starving person is in that position because of their own "bad decisions" i don't care. it doesn't matter. no supposed financial misstep is enough to condemn someone to homelessness or poverty.
>censors all existing data on trans healthcare
>orders a study
I'm sure this will be completely unbiased
I've come to realize that a healthier way to cope with bad shit piling on is to avoid self-sabotaging thoughts like, 'What did I do to deserve this?' and instead shift my mindset to, 'What lesson is the universe trying to teach me?'" It’s the best way to make something out of circumstances you can’t control and endure.
not having the courtesy to send rejection letters should count against your reputation as a company and i’m so serious about that
genuinely how it feels trying not to be mean to people who leave stupid shit on my posts