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Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

To either sex

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The boobs you made for your cosplay. What material are they made out of ?

MATERIALS:- Regular Craft Foam - Masking Tape- Pen- scissors1. Cut out a generic LARGE tear drop shape. You’re going to have to make numerous DARTS in the foam to get the cup shape tocover your own boobs. Cut one (1) slit and position the craft foam so that the ends overlap eachother then temporarily tape it down using some masking tape. Do this a couple times with more slits of various lengths until you get arudimentary curved looking 3D foam shape.

You can mark off with a pen or pencil where you should cut out thedarts, then take off all the tape and cut the pieces.

MATERIALS:

- Rubber Cement (orcontact cement)- Hot Glue

2. After that I usedrubber cement (you can find it at any stationary/craft store) to cement thedarts. It’s still kind of fragile that way, so I took my hot glue gun andsmeared hot glue along the seams on the INSIDE to make them hold better.

3. Try the finishedcraft foam cups on and see that they cover your full breast (sides and all). Also,if the cleavage type you need is different, the shape I made is not necessary.You might make the top a bit different shape. The reason I chose to cutthe fake boobs this way is because I needed a v-neck plunge, so the tops ofmine are pointy.

MATERIALS:- Yellow Upholstery Foam- Hot Glue4. After you have those craft foam pieces, you need to use yellow upholsteryfoam. This type of foam is important because I tried to use softer stuff and itcollapses so easily. Get this foam (usually comes in 1/2” thickness) fromstores that have an upholstery or drapery section.

(Photo from spana298 original Japanese tutorial. Also see crunchyroll link here)

5. Stretch thefoam onto the shape. DO NOT rip it or cut darts. Foam is pliable so see howAltiera spana used clips to hold it on?? You can do the same, I just used hairclips.

Once it’s stretchedout a bit (give it a couple minutes), you can use glue to just glue it on. Hotglue will warp craft foam though, and hot glue stays hot for a long time onyellow foam, so be VERY careful not to burn yourself if you use hot glue!

6. Trim and shave yourfoam down at the EDGES so you have a nice smooth shape (not blocky).

MATERIALS:- stretch knit fabric

7. Find a stretch knitfabric. I found a beige stretch knit in the activewear/lycra section ofFabricland. I generally prefer stretch knit to 100% synthetic spandex or lycrabecause it takes to hot glue really well, whereas the other stuff just seems todry flaky.

8. Stretch the fabricover and use some pins or clips to hold it in place (careful to not rip yourfoam). Hot glue the fabric edges to the inside of the cups.

Once that is done, you get to this stage:

MATERIALS:- Liquid Latex (flesh tone)- Popsicle sticks- Baby powder

9. To make the breatsmore realistic, you can add liquid latex (flesh tone). I used BEN NYE brandfrom an 8oz container. This stuff goes a long way, so you won’t need the entire8oz (you can probably use 4oz as more than enough). I first did a test on ascrap piece of knit fabric to see how many layers I needed before I got askin-like texture.

I got a bag ofPopsicle sticks and dipped one in the liquid latex then used the stick tosmooth it onto the fabric. One layer soaked up a lot so it became very roughlooking. Once it dried, I brushed on a layer of baby powder. Liquidlatex needs to be brushed with powder after every coat. I added a second coatof liquid latex using the popsicle sticks. (Throw out the popsicle sticks afterevery use, and use lots. If latex dries on it, it won’t spread smoothly, sojust use more. It gets smoother than a sponge and is much cheaper than brushes).

For the THIRD coat (Ihad tested on a small patch previously and figured 3 coats would look good), Idid NOT use popsicle sticks. I set the boob on a paint bottle to prop it UP andAWAY from the table. I then lightly POURED liquid latex directly from thebottle onto the boob and manipulated the boob around so that the entire thing gotcoated this way. I let the excess DRIP off and onto the work board underneath.

If a few air bubblesget in it that’s ok, it actually helps to add realistic look to the ‘skin’.Once it’s dry, brush with baby powder. Do both boobs this way.

10. Trim offany dried drips of liquid latex that collected on the edges of your boobs.

11. To match perfectlyyour skin tone, I AIRBRUSHED my false boobs using an Airbrush and Airbrushpaints. SEE THIS VIDEO OF MY PAINTING HERE.

You can probably usemake-up to paint the latex as an alternative to airbrushing. There are plentyof latex painting tutorials on the web!

12. To add straps, youcan simply sew some on to the excess fabric that was glued into the inside ofthe boob cups. Reinforce your sewing stitches with hot glue. You can add asmall piece of fabric in between the breasts as well to help hold them together.

That’s it!!

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