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ReciprocalSexual (LET ME KNOW IF THIS HAS BEEN COINED!!!)

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definition: Like reciprosexual, only for someone who is NOT asexual. A reciprocalsexual gains feelings (attraction: sexual, aesthetic, platonic, etc) for anyone who likes them, regardless of their sexuality, and can also like people who haven’t liked them back yet. If you identify with reciprocalsexual but only gain feelings(attraction: romantic, sensual, emotional, etc) for those of a certain gender or category (intelligent (Sapiosexual), well known to you (Demisexual), etc) when they like you, you are Limitedreciprocalsexual

you are also Limitedreciprocalsexual if the feelings returned by you are minor but still notable. Both identities can be used on their own or with other identities.

The romantic versions of this are reciprocalromantic and limitedreciprocalromantic respectively.

made this because I identified with reciprosexual but it’s only for ace people who only ever feel attraction when someone likes them so I had to make my own :)

#Tulpa life

One of the biggest things that stands out to me about the tulpamancy community on Tumblr is how alienated everyone seems to feel. You've got some advice blogs, some discourse blogs, but that's about it- which is wild to me, cuz tulpamancy is all about community and learning from each other! Even more than that tho, there's something important about seeing other tulpas & created systems doing what we want, making our own choices, LIVING our lives. It's a reminder that we're real people too- it's important and validating for others like us, and it's great for non-tulpas to see that we're just as much real and people as they are. The best part of tulpamancy is that we get to enjoy our own existence, decide for ourselves what we want, and live as US!! I wanna bring that energy to Tumblr.

That's why I'm starting a tag I want any other tulpas (and their hosts too, but don't forget this tag is about our autonomy) to join in on;

✨✨ #tulpa life ✨✨

the new tag for expressing yourself, living your life, and sharing your existence with the world!! What kinda unique experiences do you have as a tulpa? What hobbies and skills have you learned, what friends have you made?? Share your favorite memories, the gift you got for yourself, the food you cooked, anything that pertains to YOU and your existing as a separate real being. Not only for sharing yourself, but for connecting with others too! Imagine how great it'll feel to scroll through a tag full of other tulpas' experiences. I wanna make that a reality!! So help me out by posting things about yourself and your life as a tulpa under the tag #tulpa life, and let's see how many people we can reach by just being ourselves!!!

if you make a special box in your head called "thoughts that aren't mine" and put every thought that doesn't feel like your own into that box. let's just say. something magical happens

Shout out to people who are plural for "weird reasons"

Loneliness

Internet access

Illness

"everyday stress"

Bullying

Emotionally unavailable parents

Hoarding

Poverty

Gaslighting

Psychosis

Drug use

Perceived risk of abuse (no active abuse)

Neurodivergency

"gifted kid"

Lying

Etc.

You are just as valid as those with textbook traumas and we love you <3

- Tobie

i’m so glad earth only has one moon, if there were more i’d have to pick a favorite and that sounds too emotionally taxing to even fathom

Am I the only cisautistic that actually thinks transautistics are really cool? Like people want my exact neurotype and are interested in what makes me tick? Awesome. Guys we should hang out some time :) I can give you passing tips /gen

Reblog to kill it faster

Plural culture is this image I made please don't ask about the quality

(If you can't read it it says "Weird stuff happening in the outer world")

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plural lawyer call that a justice system

As awareness of plurality continues to spread online, that also means more and more people will realize they are plural. And unfortunately, there will be a response from certain gatekeepy exclusionist types, who will push back against these newfound systems and insist on invalidating them. They’ll insist they’re just hopping on a trend, or just fooling themselves, or whatever other justification they can make up to maintain the idea that being plural is extremely rare and being plural means suffering for it.

Don’t fall for it. Being plural presents challenges and difficulties without question, but being plural also can bring joys and clarity that weren’t possible otherwise. Being plural can be hard, and it can be beautiful.

No two systems present and function exactly the same ways. No two systems are plural for the exact same reasons. So we can’t expect there to be an absolute common trait present in every system. So any attempt to weed out the “fakers” is pointless and malicious.

If someone believes themself to be plural, they have good reason to. No further “proof” needed. If someone comes to us believing themself to be plural, we will help them along without critique or question. And above all we will be happy for them. Even if someday they realize they aren’t plural, that process of being allowed to question and experiment is so important, and they should be allowed to do so regardless of where they end up.

Plurality is a spectrum that encompasses a vast swathe of experiences and outlooks. It can be difficult to reckon with, which is why community is so vital. And as that community online grows and becomes more and more visible, we should all do our part, systems and singlets, to make sure these newfound systems feel safe, seen, and welcome.