I am convinced RM would immediately fall in love with literally anyone who shakes his hand at this point
kids are fucking fragile, ok? when you have no life experience you have nothing to compare your troubles to and many things ARE, in fact, the worst thing to ever happen to you.
i’m 20. and i had a rough week this week. and one of the reasons it wasn’t as rough as it could have been is because i have had worse. i have been in more pain than this before and it was really helpful to be able to say to myself, yes, ok, i’m feeling like a massive pile of shit right now, but i remember how i felt when thing x happened y years ago and that was objectively more horrible and if i got through that then i’m going to survive this.
when i was 16 i couldn’t do that because thing x was in fact the worst thing to ever happen to me. because when you haven’t lived very long some of the things that happen WILL be the worst things to ever happen to you and you’re fucking allowed to be angry and upset and so on. there is no age you have to reach before you’re allowed to feel bad. i can’t believe this discourse tbh.
kids are fragile and they’re dismissed all the time for having feelings because shitty ass adults are so selfish that they can’t wrap their minds around the idea that MAYBE their feelings aren’t more important than a child’s. seriously fuck off maybe if someone had taken me seriously as a kid i’d be a functional adult
100%
Are fedoras really that bad?
YES YES THEY ARE
Yo this isnt about it or stranger things so ignore it if you want but… Why are Armys and Exols constantly fighting, like am an army and an exol and people on my other account ( @bts-taehyungsuga ) people were sending me anons saying i must have been hacked because theres no way i like “that garbage” and I think this whole fanwar thing is bullshit. The groups get along why cant we, imma include a nice lil pic of Taehyung (BTS) And Baekhyun (EXO) Havin a jolly ol time.
today i went to a college physics lab for a science competition and they had this thing that was like two disks on opposite sides of a very large room and if you whispered into one of them someone with their ear near the other would be able to hear you as if you were speaking in a normal voice right next to them and i wanted to see what would happen if someone just yelled into one of them so i told my friend to put his ear on the other one and he was like ok and went to do it and when he got there Ii yelled moderately loud into it and it echoed through the whole room of like 200+ people and everyone got silent and we got in trouble
I just want everyone to see how unrealistic some expectations are.
yo being black and depressed is hard as fuck. being black with anxiety is hard as fuck. being black with a chronic illness or disability is hard a fuck. everybody expects you to be ‘strong’ at all times and no one sees black people as complex or nuanced enough to be capable of suffering. no one ever thinks we could possibly need help. and if you’re a black woman, the moment you stop thinking about others and try to tend to yourself you’re a selfish lazy ungrateful bitch.
support black people, esp women, who need help. don’t just call us strong or tell us we’ll get through it, help us. protect us. uplift us. allow us to be beings capable of suffering. give us the same space you’d give white women to express our pain and be there for us like you would for anyone else.