🔫 Give Me Ur Thigh To Hump And No One Gets Hurt

As a result of the poll we ran here and on Fetlife last week (Shock Collar vs Motorbuny), you sadists chose shock collar! I added a bit of a twist to it though, as this was not a full session: I made Roxy pick a card and that's how many shocks she had to endure, while holding two full glasses of water at arm's length. We will run another poll this week and give you two more options to torment Roxy

is it too on the nose to fuck myself with the mouthpiece of my bong?

don’t like that

so... hey, i get that these new tag bans suck for content creators and in general, but can we focus for a sec on how it's going to obliterate desperately needed and sometimes lifesaving support networks for victims of assault and csa, those of us with ptsd and c-ptsd, and also appears to be targeting neurodivergent people (stimming is included on the list i saw), people with disabilities, and the lgbt+ community, among others.

antisemitism, racism, misogyny, and homophobia were also on the list i saw and those tags are, from what i've seen, largely used by people in opposition to prejudice.

trigger warnings are also on the banned list.

this is targeted censorship.

When You're Non-Verbal

Sometimes Good Girls become non-verbal and it's just hard to find your words. This can be because you're too little, too tired, too stimulated or lots of other things. Here are some things that can help when words just aren't coming:

One for yes, two for no. Your partner can ask yes or no questions for essential things.

Hand squeeze means "I love you and I need you." A good way to let your partner know that you need to be held.

Signs for common things like "drink" or "sleep" or "space." Practice beforehand and your partner can be ready to give what you need.

Having ways to communicate when words fail is important for meeting your needs. Don't wait until you're in need to practice these strategies. Partners should be patient and ready to listen so they can still be helpful and supportive when the words aren't coming. Besides, it's nice that you need us. We just want to take good care of you.

Clicker training is such a fun way of dehumanizing someone. It's nearly impossible to resist becoming conditioned to it - especially when those clicks are the only time you get any kind of affection, or even any food for the stubborn new pets. Hating yourself for the excitement and strange pride you feel when you hear the click and get a treat. You don't mean to be so obedient, you just unthinkingly follow commands now. The part of your brain that knows you're really just a submissive pet in need of an owner wants treats and love and to be my good pet. More and more, you won't be sure where that part ends and you begin. That's alright though, because you just heard a click and there's a treat being pressed into your mouth and a hand petting your hair and that's all that really matters anymore.

Please Reblog is Your Blog is Safe for Non-Binary People.

If my mutuals can’t rb this then we can’t be mutuals

recently i’ve been wearing ribbons in my hair a lot and it’s been making me feel so cute and ditzy.