It’s Sooooo Embarrassing How My Lips Part Open Like Automatically Whenever You Put Your Fingers Near

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how i should be treated rn

Sometimes, when we’re laying in bed together, I pull his hand up to my throat. He knows what I’m asking and will grab my throat and squeeze, disrupting my ability to breathe easily and letting pressure build in my chest. It’s never hard enough to make me worry or safeword but builds gradually to just enough to serve as a casual reminder that I’m his to hurt and torment.

Sometimes, I just need that reassurance. It makes me feel safe.

I like your fixation on a cozy little pet cage - ever been ‘owned’ in reality before?

hello! thanks for the ask!

i had a long distance relationship with a dominant who i met up with occasionally but that ended a few years ago. i would consider that relationship one where he ‘owned’ me. however, it’s been a while since i have been in a d/s dynamic.

on the bucket list of things i want done to me 💓💓

I got fucked with the blade of a knife today and i think something broke in my brain. Cannot go back to normal sex after this experience, the fear was so hot but i couldn't buck my hips without hurting myself and my partner went so slow. Just had to lay as still as possible, trust them and take it 💕

Hitting it Raw.

“nice blog”

thank you im really good at clicking reblog

When You're Non-Verbal

Sometimes Good Girls become non-verbal and it's just hard to find your words. This can be because you're too little, too tired, too stimulated or lots of other things. Here are some things that can help when words just aren't coming:

One for yes, two for no. Your partner can ask yes or no questions for essential things.

Hand squeeze means "I love you and I need you." A good way to let your partner know that you need to be held.

Signs for common things like "drink" or "sleep" or "space." Practice beforehand and your partner can be ready to give what you need.

Having ways to communicate when words fail is important for meeting your needs. Don't wait until you're in need to practice these strategies. Partners should be patient and ready to listen so they can still be helpful and supportive when the words aren't coming. Besides, it's nice that you need us. We just want to take good care of you.

I hope everyone is doing ok.. there's a lot of trauma in the air lately, and I know many of us use Tumblr as a coping mechanism. But please stay safe, take care of yourself, drink some water, take a deep breath, and know that you are loved.. it's a tough world out there ❤️

use your words is underrated as a humiliation tactic. of course i know what you want baby. thats my job. i just wanna hear you say it in explicit, nasty detail. want to see you get so embarrassed you’re about ready to cry. every time you manage to choke some more of your sick fantasy out, ill touch you just a little. tip you over the edge until i hear all of your perverted desires. i have to hear you say everything. just to be sure. gotta use your words or its no fun