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You know that chastity device makes you toss and turn far too much when you’re in bed at night baby.  I’ve decided we’re going to have to do something about it, it’s ruining my beauty sleep.

No, don’t be ridiculous, of course I’m not going to take it off you at night.  You’re in that tight little prison for the long term my sweet little husband…  

Another day at uni: Part II.

This series is being tagged #college to help you find related posts.

Have you ever met a woman who likes Sph?

You mean, smoothed-particle hydrodynamics (SPH) the famous computational method used for simulating the mechanics of continuum media? 

Absolutely, chicks get wet just at the very mention of it, trust me. 😂 

Unless, of course, you mean “small penis humiliation” in which case I regret to inform you: no, I never had met a woman into that (at least not that I know), but maybe it’s because I never tried that before or even informed myself much about it until now. I guess, technically, I’m kinda relieved, in fact, that that has never come up to me in the past 😂

Okay, jokes aside here’s my view on it: it’s hard to find someone (regardless of their gender) who is already into the exact same kinks you are, especially if you have a specific fantasy or a particular fetish. Try instead to build a solid safe atmosphere between you and the person where you both feel comfortable and capable of being honest with each other about your particular turn-ons. Even if the person you are with doesn’t quite share your kink, she might want to give it a try, for you. And, who knows?, she might end up having fun with it! In exchange, you could also try one of her kinks even if it’s not something you like so much, originally. Maybe you also end up finding something different and fun. 

Regarding “SPH,” it doesn’t seem to be so hard perhaps to find someone who’d be into it or, at least, willing to explore that with you. Let’s be practical after all: it’s not as if your partner would have to do something physically challenging for her, or even prepare anything too elaborate, or put herself in a dangerous or painful situation of any sorts, so I think it shouldn’t be that bad. 

In fact, I thought (wrongly) that the limiting factor would have to do with the man more than the woman: that is, that it would be conditioned by his “size” before anything else. I was under the impression, perhaps because of what porn industry sells, that the guy in an SPH scenario would have to be naturally “small,” but it turns out that that is a misconception. 

So, ironically, size doesn’t matter when it comes to liking the kink: men of all sizes (including bigger than average) can enjoy small penis humiliation. And that makes sense, because like many other humiliation-kinks, quite often the biggest kick comes from the mental stimulation. So, I get it now. And with that in mind, I imagine that the likelihood of you finding someone who might be into that can also be higher than you’d normally expect because it seems that different women like this kink for different reasons: some might use it as tease and a way to make you hard, others might rejoice with the fact that you can’t get hard or that you aren’t big enough.

In 2015 Cosmo magazine did a piece on this kink. They interviewed three men who had this fetish to talk more about their personal experiences, likes etc, and their encounters with it were quite different. One of them actually got into SPH because of his last girlfriend - she was the one who brought it up to him, - so as you can see, anon, there are clearly women out there who like this fetish! I’m going to copy some extracts of the interviews here, and hopefully, there will be  something useful (at least as an inspiration) for you there:

[extract from interview] “My last girlfriend got me into SPH while we were together. We had been in a full time sub/dom relationship for about three months, myself being the sub, when she mentioned SPH. I had zero idea what it was, but I was eager to please her so I looked into it. I was confused at first, asking why she wanted to try it since I was clearly above average. She laughed and said, “Well … you’re really small when you’re soft and it’s kinda cute.” I instantly got hard. I still can’t explain why but her saying that got me really horny. I was a little scared that my body was reacting this way but I still wanted to please her so I went with it. I’m quite glad I did.” (Cosmopolitan, Nov. 2015)

[extract from another interviewed person on the same article] “The thrill, the excitement, it pumps more blood to my penis. Isn’t it ironic that being made fun of for my small size gives me the hardest erection? It triggers the competitiveness in me. It pushes me to sexually perform better at other areas (oral, fingering). SPH gives me the biggest orgasms I ever had.” (Cosmopolitan, Nov. 2015)

This was a very long answer, I know, anon. 

Sometimes I like to use asks as a way to write longer posts about things that I normally wouldn’t, or that might serve as useful references or a starting point to others. I surely ended up learning quite a bit with your ask, so I have to thank you, indirectly for the research opportunity. 

And if you were referring to the smoothed-particle hydrodynamics all along, then try to flirt with someone in the Computational Sciences Building at the closest university. That’s my best advice. 

Either way, good luck. And let the dicklet-love be in the air.

To all the men and women out there into SPH and similar things, feel free to reblog this so you can find others. 

Have fun! 💌

8 years ago my husband told me he wanted to try chastity. I thought ‘that’s a little weird” but it also turned me on a bit. Once I got over my hang ups, I learned I loved locking him up! Why?

1) more frequent orgasms - every weekday morning after the gym and a shower, I have my husband give me an orgasm using his mouth, hand or vibrator. This has really kept me motivated going to the gym and that’s just my morning workday routine!

2) a faux dick - my husband has a strap on to wear when I’m in the mood to get fucked but I’m not ready to unlock him. The desperate effort he puts into those hips when he fucks me while caged is intense & the orgasms are unreal! One tip for the strap on, put the dildo in hot water first to get it to around 98.7 degrees for a more natural feel.

3) sex - when I unlock him and we make love he knows that he cannot cum before I do. Our love making is passionate and raw. After I orgasm, he will ask me if he can cum when he’s close. If he’s been really good, I’ll let him. Other times I’ll say ‘no’ and tell him to go lock back up. It’s so sexy to have him melting in my hands and lusting with desire for me after I deny him an orgasm.

4) handjobs - I love to unlock him and blindfold him so he’s not looking at me. I’ll grab the oil and rub his dick. I start slow with gentle strokes then move to faster, firmer strokes. I love listening to his breathing and watching his body moving with pleasure. I also love how hard his cock feels as I’m stroking him. When he tells me he is getting close, I remove my hands and let that feeling of about to cum go away. Then I’ll start again to bring him to the edge 2 or 3 more times. Many times I will stop before he cums and snuggle up to him, laying on his chest, listening to his breathing become less heavy and watching his erection go away. Then I’ll tell him to go lock up. The sexual power of doing this without an ejaculation keeps his hands all over me for days and days. I love that sexual control over him.

5) Rules - a popular question I have been asked on my Tumblr deleted account is if guys are allowed to ask be unlocked or to ask to cum? Some wives will say, ‘no’ they can’t ask and will extend the time to be locked. Others will say ‘yes’ because they want to hear him beg and they may or not release him. The rules should be clear. My husband has only asked to be released 2 times. Both went like this. Him: can you unlock me? It’s been so long. Me: [sad face] No. Sorry. [smirk] But now you’ll be locked up for 2 more weeks for asking.” I think I made myself clear - I decide. Another rule for my hubby is that he has to go to the gym at least 4 days a week for me to consider unlocking him, otherwise I will add more time. He’s lost just over 10 pounds and his starter 6-pack abs really contrast with his steel cage! Make sure he knows your rules and expectations either by your words or actions.

6) don’t let it get stale (teasing & denial) - if you have your man caged, you already love being in control. Do you know the most effective way to fuck with a man after locking him up? A constant effort to make his dick hard in the cage. That means teasing and it melts their f-ing minds! Wear revealing things. Brush your ass against his cage when you walk by. Tell him things you would do to him if he wasn’t locked. Grab his cage and tease him that his dick can’t get hard. The more you tease, the more rewards you get in the form of attention!

7) blurred edges - Do you have some chores that need to be done? Are there some habits you’d like for him to break? Is there a kink that you want to try out? You would be very surprised at what your husband is willing to do for you once he’s been locked up for a while, you just need to ask or tell!!

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