The Fear Is Real.

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Have your date send this to hubby. He’ll be jerking off all night while you’re having hot sex over and over.

#nrhart #sapiosexual

I love getting reader feedback, especially the shy ones who read and never post on Tumblr. I got a message from a woman yesterday that I want to share, because of the frank honesty and the minor twist on things. Edited for brevity, but the backstory is that the woman describes herself as a “conservative, Christian mother, married for 21 years, three kids, 44 years old.” 

“About a year ago my husband and I were discussing this, we found your blog and used it as a great conversation piece. He encouraged me to explore this kind of sexual relationship, but unlike you guys we decided to make it purely between me and the other guy. Meaning this: my husband told me that if I did it, he’d prefer to know that I am in fact having an extra sexual relationship, but he didn’t want to know who it is or when I do it–just that it is happening. We of course agreed about steps for safety, him knowing where I am and all that, and about discretion. I think he maybe thought it was a dare and didn’t think I’d actually go through with it. However, it only took two weeks on a dating site to find the perfect “boyfriend”. 

“A few posts of yours ago, you reposted something about this kind of relationship kindling a “productive jealousy” with the husband. I’m here to tell you that, for us at least, that is like 1 million times percent true. We had hit kind of a rut in our marriage, having sex 3-4 times a month maybe. Now? Ever since this started, it’s like 5 times A WEEK. It is way, way better too–more passionate, he is going down on me regularly, and the attention he’s giving me is way more than before. And seriously, I’m only having sex with my “side guy” about once or twice a month. That sex is off-the-charts too. I think you posted something some time ago about a wife just needing a hard dick and rough sex every now and then. Yeah. True. Now that there’s trust in the other guy and safety is no issue, I usually don’t tell my husband when I see my BF. Sometimes he doesn’t know, sometimes he does know-he can smell it or just intuit that I’ve been with another man. It’s weirdly primal, and unweirdly a turn on. I check in with him often–as in, ‘are you ok with me doing this?’. His answer is always enthusiastically yes–as I know it will be. But still it’s a cautionary example, because I’d encourage everyone to regularly do a check-in with your spouse. This type of sexual relationship can be insanely rewarding on many levels, but it also deserves a lot of communication and affirmation.”

So fucking horny. Just want to sit on someone’s face and have them lick me while I grind against them until I cum