Unyielding

“I’m sorry this upsets you, but this is going to happen. There is nothing you can say or do to change my mind. Now go on. Try not to think about it if it upsets you. I’ll come and get you in the morning.”

When you break big news to your husband, which you should do on a somewhat regular but unpredictable basis to keep things interesting, there will be times when he may protest. This may occur when you inform him of your decision to not use condoms, or to allow your boyfriend to cum inside you for the first time, or to simply be alone with your boyfriend for the evening (or for an entire week). Encourage him to communicate his feelings. Listen carefully to his fears and concerns. In most cases his anxiety will revolve around fear of loss - that is, fear of losing you, losing privileges he once enjoyed, or losing his manhood. Reassure him that while he has indeed lost some privileges, you are not going to leave him. But also be firm when you explain to him that whatever you and your boyfriend have decided to do is going to happen. As he learns to cope with his powerlessness, he will also revel in the mental anguish it produces. That paradox is precisely what attracted him to the lifestyle - something he will remember that as he navigates the rollercoaster of emotions. You should be empathetic and compassionate. But be confident and unyielding. It is what you deserve. And it is ultimately what he wants.

Learning To Take Charge

I’m learning to be more assertive to my boyfriend before, during and after the “watch sessions”. I started off shy and didn’t say much unless I was prompted to, but not anymore.

Now, our dynamic is clear. I’m the one in charge. Not just of my own body, but of his. I tell him where to sit and what to do. I tell him when and if he can touch himself and he knows not to cum until he hears my command. I told him the first time he cums before I tell him to I’m going to cage his dick. He can sit there and leak all over himself, while he watches me leak all over a big black cock. If I still let him watch that is.

He knows that his job is to observe. To count my orgasms. To clean the other man’s fresh cum from my pussy and then cuddle and love me after. Pretty good deal if you ask me ;)

XoXo Jenny

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