Rules For A Loving Tease & Denial

Rules for a Loving Tease & Denial

Our “rules” for both for a loving tease and denial relationship.

For Her

1. Don’t feel guilty about telling him no to coming. He craves your control.

2. Don’t ask him if he wants to cum (unless you’re just teasing). It’s not up to him.

3. Don’t feel guilty about calling an end to sex play. He’s going to still be horny since you didn’t let him come, so it’s up to you to say it’s time for play to end and for you to rest.

4. There is no “just right” schedule for how often or how long to deny him an orgasm. If you don’t feel like denying him at all, or you want to make him wait an hour or a month, it doesn’t matter to him. He’s happy all the same that it’s up to you.

For Him

1. When she tells you no coming, make sure she knows you’re happy and thankful for the attention and teasing, and the denied orgasm would have been just icing on the cake.

2. Don’t send mixed signals. When she tells you not to come, no pouting, begging, or getting mad. It’s negative and confusing. No means no.

3. At some point you need to let her rest. Just because you’re still horny and ready to go, doesn’t mean she is. She’s not the one who didn’t get to come.

4. Don’t be peanut-butter-and-jealous. Men and women are inherently different. She has a pussy and he has a cock. She has breasts and he doesn’t. He has a refractory period and she doesn’t. She’s usually will come and he usually will not. Accept these differences without angst, move on, and be happy.