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Ladies I have another question for you....

What’s one thing you wish guy did while he was going down ?

8 years ago my husband told me he wanted to try chastity. I thought ‘that’s a little weird” but it also turned me on a bit. Once I got over my hang ups, I learned I loved locking him up! Why?

1) more frequent orgasms - every weekday morning after the gym and a shower, I have my husband give me an orgasm using his mouth, hand or vibrator. This has really kept me motivated going to the gym and that’s just my morning workday routine!

2) a faux dick - my husband has a strap on to wear when I’m in the mood to get fucked but I’m not ready to unlock him. The desperate effort he puts into those hips when he fucks me while caged is intense & the orgasms are unreal! One tip for the strap on, put the dildo in hot water first to get it to around 98.7 degrees for a more natural feel.

3) sex - when I unlock him and we make love he knows that he cannot cum before I do. Our love making is passionate and raw. After I orgasm, he will ask me if he can cum when he’s close. If he’s been really good, I’ll let him. Other times I’ll say ‘no’ and tell him to go lock back up. It’s so sexy to have him melting in my hands and lusting with desire for me after I deny him an orgasm.

4) handjobs - I love to unlock him and blindfold him so he’s not looking at me. I’ll grab the oil and rub his dick. I start slow with gentle strokes then move to faster, firmer strokes. I love listening to his breathing and watching his body moving with pleasure. I also love how hard his cock feels as I’m stroking him. When he tells me he is getting close, I remove my hands and let that feeling of about to cum go away. Then I’ll start again to bring him to the edge 2 or 3 more times. Many times I will stop before he cums and snuggle up to him, laying on his chest, listening to his breathing become less heavy and watching his erection go away. Then I’ll tell him to go lock up. The sexual power of doing this without an ejaculation keeps his hands all over me for days and days. I love that sexual control over him.

5) Rules - a popular question I have been asked on my Tumblr deleted account is if guys are allowed to ask be unlocked or to ask to cum? Some wives will say, ‘no’ they can’t ask and will extend the time to be locked. Others will say ‘yes’ because they want to hear him beg and they may or not release him. The rules should be clear. My husband has only asked to be released 2 times. Both went like this. Him: can you unlock me? It’s been so long. Me: [sad face] No. Sorry. [smirk] But now you’ll be locked up for 2 more weeks for asking.” I think I made myself clear - I decide. Another rule for my hubby is that he has to go to the gym at least 4 days a week for me to consider unlocking him, otherwise I will add more time. He’s lost just over 10 pounds and his starter 6-pack abs really contrast with his steel cage! Make sure he knows your rules and expectations either by your words or actions.

6) don’t let it get stale (teasing & denial) - if you have your man caged, you already love being in control. Do you know the most effective way to fuck with a man after locking him up? A constant effort to make his dick hard in the cage. That means teasing and it melts their f-ing minds! Wear revealing things. Brush your ass against his cage when you walk by. Tell him things you would do to him if he wasn’t locked. Grab his cage and tease him that his dick can’t get hard. The more you tease, the more rewards you get in the form of attention!

7) blurred edges - Do you have some chores that need to be done? Are there some habits you’d like for him to break? Is there a kink that you want to try out? You would be very surprised at what your husband is willing to do for you once he’s been locked up for a while, you just need to ask or tell!!

Coin flip update?

Coin-flip rules are posted here.

Ok. I know the last update on the coin-flip log was April15, and today is June 5th, but my dominant hand is still in a cast.Even still, I’m supposed to start doing to light exercises with it, so it’stime to get some typing done and catch the coin-flip log up. My in-box is blowing up with requests for updates, so here it goes. Most of it will bejust me copying my notes into Tumblr.

April 16 Tails.

April 17  No actiontoday.

April 18 Heads.

April 19 Heads.

April 20 Heads.He cashed in his three heads in a row for a ruined orgasm. For this ruined orgasm,I used a cat-o-nine tails on his genitals, and just kept patiently whipping hisballs and penis. It stung them all pink and inflamed, and he leaked precum,desperate to cum, for quite a while, but eventually even the sting was too muchpleasure. As soon as I saw the first real dry throb, I stopped, and waited.After a couple more dry bobs of his penis, some cum managed to find its way out,and then he had a nice generous spurt from deep within his blue (and now alsopink) balls. He deserved that. I got him some Vaseline and ice for his stinginggenitals, and we went to bed.

April 21 Whilemoving a heavy cement pot on a wagon, it started to tip. I tried to catch it soit wouldn’t break, and ended up breaking it and my hand. Needless to say, noaction this day.

April 22 Husbandwas pampering me all day, and I came twice. H and H. Tough break for husband,too. This was five heads in a row. He cashed in three of them earlier for a stingingruined orgasm, when he could have held out for pussy, and would have earned ittoo.

April 23 No action.

April 24 T and H

April 25 H

April 26 No action. Doctor visits, and a new cast.

April 27 H He passed on a ruined orgasm to hold out forpussy.

April 28 H He passed on a satisfying orgasm to hold out forpussy.

April 29 Tails. Another tough break for my husband.

April 30 H

May 1 H

May 2 H He passed on a ruined orgasm to hold out for pussy.

May 3 T

May 4 H

May 5 H

May 6 H He passed on a ruined orgasm to hold out for pussy.

May 7 T

May 8 H

May 9 Myhusband woke me up early this am to tell me had just had a wet dream while sleepinglocked in his chastity. This turned me on like you can’t imagine, so Istraddled his wet cum-marked thigh, and started to rub my sex on the slipperyspot, while asking him to tell me all about his wet dream. He told me he wasdreaming that I was fucking a dick cow-girl style. I asked him whose dick itwas, and he said it was just a dick. I told him that if he was watching me fuckit cow-girl style, it couldn’t have been his. He stared deep into my eyes whenI said this, because I know this thought turns him on. I humped myself on his cum-slickedthigh while kissing my horny husband, and moaning in his ear. I told him that hisdream means he wants me to make him a cuckold, and that he wants to watch megetting fucked. I prodded him, asking “Isn’t that true.” He defended himselfsaying, “I didn’t say that,” but I told him I know that this is what he wants,and that I could do it if I wanted to. This is true, because in our weddingvows, we purposely left out “faithful” from my vows, even though his includedit. Just knowing I have that right is enough to tease him with it. I told him Iget to fuck and cum all I want, because I have the pussy. I told him I keep himlocked up in chastity and don’t let him cum, because he promised this right tome, and his desperation makes me wet. I told him it’s selfish of me, but heloves me for it. He loves all his bottled up cum even more when I’m coming inhis face, enjoying everything, and sharing none of it with him. All this dirtytalk was making us both so aroused, and I came on his thigh with my foreheadpressed against his, and my thigh pressing against his chastity. Even though Idid all the work, it was his thigh, so he earned a coin flip for the day. Whichturned out to be a tails. After I was done coming on his thigh, I told him Iwasn’t even going to unlock him to tease him at all. I told him I was going toleave him locked in his sticky chastity, with his cum and mine mixed togetheron his thigh, and go back to sleep, and I did. Looking back, May was full ofleg humping after this. I just found it so sexy being able to look so deeplyinto my husband’s eyes while I’m coming. When he eats me out, we can still makeeye contact, but from several feet apart, and our mouths aren’t lockedtogether. It’s sexy to be cheek to cheek and cum, and see up close the yearningin his eyes to enjoy what I’m enjoying. Just typing this and thinking about it isturning me on. I’m calling my husband over to start eating me out while I type,to motivate me, and let me enjoy this memory. I have more of this log to catchup. Today, the day I’m typing to catch up the log, is June 5th, andI’ve only copied the log onto Tumblr up to May 9th so far. With my husbandlicking my sexy parts, catching up the rest of this log should be moreenjoyable.

May 10 T

May 11 T and T

May 12 T

May 13 H

May 14 H and T

May 15 No Action.

May 16 No Action.

May 17 T

May 18 H

May 19 H

May 20 T

May 21 H and H

May 22 T

May 23 T

May 24 H

May 25 No Action.

May 26 T

May 27 T

May 28 H

May 29 H and T

May 30 T

May 31 H Wow.An entire month went by without me giving my husband even a single ruinedorgasm. I really didn’t expect this game to result in such low orgasm countsfor my husband, but despite this fact, we both still agree this coin-flip gamefor 2016 is one of the best. Besides, it’s more his fault than mine that he’snot coming so much, because he keeps passing up opportunities to cum hoping forpussy. Perfection is the enemy of good enough.

June 1 T

June 2 H

June 3 T

June 4 T

June 5  Whew. I’ve caught the log up, and my husbandwas licking me while I did it. He loves his poor aching blue balls. Ijust know he does. After I came from his devoted attention between my legs, hehad a sweet bead of precum waiting for me on the tip of his cock, so I know hewas enjoying my pleasure. I licked it off, and teased him some more with mymouth until I was sure he would cum if I continued. I asked him just now whatwould be more fun, if I let him cum, or if I kept edging and teasing him untilhis blue balls could take no more pressure. He only just said, “Oh my God.” Iknow him so well. I’m going to leave the log here. I have teasing to do.