If you talk the talk then you have to walk the walk. This means that your husband expects you to act like a hot-wife. Otherwise he will regret his decision to be in the lifestyle with you..
Sex with my cuckold husband is fine during times when i am not seeing other men. I keep the cuckold theme burning at all times. However, sex with my cuckold SLOWS down a lot whenever i am actively seeing other men (or a man).
To secure the psychological impact of my husband’s cuckold status, it’s important for us to establish that he is a secondary sexual provider when i am seeing others.
When other men are in the picture they’re and should be the primary source of my sexual satisfaction and not my (cuckold husband). When i have sex with my cuckold after another man, i always make sure to be VERY verbal, reminding him that i prefer the other man any day, anytime over him because (cuckold) doesn’t satisfy me at all (small dick, cums to fast, poor lover).
I let him know aloud how i need and desire men with bigger cocks and i can’t be satisfied with his tiny cock. I make it clear to him that he couldn’t possibly satisfy my needs.
I always compare his cock to my lovers or my ex and cuck loves it…Especially when i hold his little cock in my hand, giggle and remind him that i prefer men with “real cocks”.
Hotwives control their sex lives, their marriages and their husbands. We do it by using the power that comes from being a Hotwife.
I love when her cheating is actually cheating and she “forgets” to tell me what she’s up to.
[The two of you have talked about this for a while. And now she has a date with a man she knows from work – and her plan is to spend the night with him]
In response to her question about your feelings, you tell her “I…I guess I feel excited … and nervous … and a bit scared”.
“Mmm” she says. “And how about … jealous. Do you feel jealous that another man will be taking me out to dinner, that I’ll be touching him and kissing him and then going back to his apartment where I’ll make love with him – and then I’ll spend the night with him while you are home alone, and in the morning I’m sure we’ll make love again before he brings me back home sometime tomorrow?”
“Yes. Jealous.” you agree. “For sure. I just wish there was something I could do so that you didn’t feel that … you had to do this. But I can’t just make my cock bigger, and I know what a disappointment I’ve been, and I want you to be satisfied. You deserve to be satisfied. But yes … it hurts knowing that another man will be doing that with you. I…I guess this won’t be just a … one time thing?”
“No, of course not” your wife says with a laugh. “Your …uh … failure has not been a one-time thing, and we both know it won’t change in the future, so no – this is not a one-time thing. I will be dating him, and maybe other guys, quite regularly. OK – time for me to go get ready for him. Do you want to help me pick out the lingerie that I’ll wear tonight?”