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Asymmetric Sex...

One of the most surprising aspects of a Female Led Relationship is how the asymmetric nature of sex evolves. Few conservatively raised women can imagine how different their sex life becomes when they assume a position of dominance in their relationship. In most intimate relationships, sex is essentially symmetric, or at least idealized as such. When one partner is in the mood, usually the male, he works to arouse his woman - but more commonly, he simply initiates sex. If he is in any way a gentleman, the expectation is of course mutual satisfaction. But Female Led Relationships are different… In a female led relationship, the lady controls all sexual activity. Either she allows her doting suitor to indicate an interest, to which she responds positively or negatively - or she reserves the initiation of any type of sex entirely to herself. In either case, the woman is the gate keeper of all sexual activity. When she does choose to engage in sexual activity, it is primarily focused on “her” satisfaction. She expects her venerating lover to properly bring her to orgasm at least once, perhaps more, before there is any possibility of his own pleasure. So every sexual encounter in a female led relationship arrives at a point where the woman has been completely satisfied, but the male of course has not! This makes sense because there is virtually no risk of a healthy man failing to orgasm during sexual intercourse, whereas there is considerable risk that he might before the lady does, thus depriving her and surely ending the intimacy.

The woman’s first orgasms, therefore, is usually achieved by means other than sexual intercourse or penile penetration… The possibilities are endless but usually involve manual or oral stimulation or the use of sex toys. But just as the lady decides when sex occurs, so does she also decide how far it proceeds. In particular, she decides whether sex proceeds beyond HER first orgasm. As a routine matter, the devotional male not only has no expectations about when or whether sex will happen, but, as well, how far it will proceed when it does. As part of the transformation of the healthy relationship, the lady may also be scaling back her Boy Toys Explosive Orgasms while at the same time, increasing the frequency her own. How far can this go? Well, let us suppose that you decide to “allow” your Virile Boy Toy an average of just one orgasm a week… At the same time, you might indulge yourself each night. That would result in a ratio of 7:1. But - you might allow your Stud Muffin as few as a couple of orgasms a month, while you enjoy a quickie in the morning, another after work, and a more intimate and prolonged encounter in the evening. In this scenario - That is a ratio approaching 50:1. These ratios, while interesting, are irrelevant… Once you pass beyond 5:1 there is really no longer any meaningful connection between your orgasms and his - they become entirely different matters: his are a strict matter of discipline (and what’s best for the relationship), the exact frequency that brings about optimal adoration and obedience, while your enjoying as many blissful climaxes as your heart desires. In fact, the more sexual intimacy, the better for the marriage. That might seem incredible, but for the fact that, as you become ever more proficient in exercising erotic power in your relationship, your devotional lover begins to derive greater and greater happiness from your satisfaction and fulfillment. He will crave giving you that morning quickie as much as you! Needless to say, this extreme asymmetry does not come about overnight. It develops naturally over time, so that, gradually, eventually, both of you come to regard your female-centered sex life as a normal aspect of your Feminine LED Relationship…