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Wife Sharing Trying To Convince Your Wife To Have An MFM? Show Her This Article The Hotwife Phenomena - The New Threesome By: Dr. Sherry Lee, Ph. D. From: Psychology Today (Dr. Lee has lectured and published in the area of analytical psychology, and she developed one of the first electronic systems for the quantitative analysis human behavior. She started her counseling work by leading gestalt therapy groups. Apart from this, her several decades of professional experience has been largely limited to urban, affluent, female subjects.) What Has Spurred the whole Hotwife Phenomena? Although motivations for the Hotwife phenomena actually cover a wide spectrum, here we’ll cover a few of the most common. First let’s get this out of the way. The Menage a’ Trois is out, it’s yesterday’s news, and most women are glad to see it go. Why? Because for at least the last hundred years or so we women have had to indulge this male fantasy (usually with our best girlfriends as the second woman) and frankly guys, we’ve had enough. No, we don’t really like to perform oral sex on our best friends just because you think it’s hot, sorry. We’re not lesbians and even though it looks like we like it in every porno you’ve ever seen, the last thing that turns us on is watching you, our boyfriends/husbands screw another woman right in front of us. We just aren’t wired to like that. It’s biologically programed into us not to like seeing our mates mating with other females. On the other hand, we women know that a lot of you men out there DO like the idea of watching us, your girlfriends and wives, get it on with another male while you either watch or better still, join in. Surprised? You shouldn’t be. Polls show that more and more women, especially those in their late thirties and older, who are passed or passing their child bearing years, say that the threesome they do find extremely exciting is the kind of threesome so called “Hot Wives” are having and that’s the MFM or Male-Female-Male threesome. These women are hitting their sexual prime during their late thirties and early forties and many of them like getting attention from younger males. These women don’t want to cheat on the men they love, they want to have their boyfriends and husbands to let them be the sexual creatures at the peak of their sexual powers that the media has falsely convinced men happens when women are in their twenties. It’s just not true. While many males my be suffering from a drop in their testosterone levels in their forties and feel like their sexual peak is a distant memory, the women in their lives are just getting warmed up, maybe even hot! What is a Cuckold? A husband who is a cuckold is aware of his spouse’s activity, most likely actively encouraging it and derives sexual pleasure from it. Biologist Robin Baker speculates in his book “Sperm Wars” that the excitement and stimulation of the cuckolding fetish emerges from the biology of sexuality and the effects of sexual arousal on the brain. Baker believes that when a man thinks that his female mate may have been sexual with another man, the man is prompted by biological urges to copulate with the female in an effort to “compete” with the other man’s sperm. While this is just a theory it may help explain the desire by many men to have their wives sleep with other men. He may value the relationship and not want her to jeopardize things because of the deceit and secrecy that normally accompany affairs. In short, he wants to know about and approve any extramarital sex, and even have some control over it. The cuckold husband wants his wife’s sexual encounters with men to be for sex only, with no marriage-threatening emotional entanglements. The mass media often cast beautiful and desirable women as both sexy and prone to sexual liaisons. Whereas this type of woman used to be considered a “fallen woman” or even a “whore,” in some minds she now seems to represent an enticing new standard. Some women used to brag about how they could avoid marital sex, and despite the views of some radical feminists, such women are now suspected as being man-haters, latent lesbians, or simply having personal problems. Now, many women find a certain excitement in being viewed as sexually liberated. For some, especially some older women, there may be a certain ego gratification in still being viewed as being sexually desirable — even discretely promiscuous. While holding to the security of her primary relationship, she may revel in experiencing sexual freedom. At the same time, some cuckold husbands want their wives to appear ladylike on the surface (in public.). But, among the majority of these men, they want they wives to be known as “hot”, “sexy”, and “not hung up about sex,” or even “great lays.” Although this type of wife was once considered a threat to husbands — and it still is to most — the more psychologically secure males believe that a healthy and well-adjusted (and desirable) woman enjoys sex, and has the right to be just as open about it as men. Also, the husbands involved often pride themselves in being secure enough to handle a hotwife. He may even brag to another man about how his wife loves sex and can’t get enough (which, not coincidentally, may be very much in contrast to the attitude of that man’s wife). Implicit in the comment is that the husband has no problem with this, and that, in fact, he thinks his wife is very “hot.” In most cases sex within a Hotwife marriage is just that. Hot. Women in the Hotwife lifestyle report having higher than average self esteem, they report far fewer incidences of infidelity on the part of their husbands, an above average libido, and overall feelings of being attractive, especially to younger males. Many women realize that other women regularly enjoy “good sex,” and although many wives have grown ambivalent about sex within their marriages and are reluctant to try new things, these barriers frequently fall with the expectations of new sexual partners. With new men there appears to be unspoken desire to “not disappoint” and “to be good in bed.” Even though she may have started to have doubts about her sexual desirability, as a hotwife she will find that men are again interested in her. For some women this can constitute a kind of new “sexual awakening.” This transformation can be quite disturbing for a husband who isn’t prepared to handle it. But for those men who have always thought that their wives were not only devoted to them but should be admired, even lusted after by other men, it is a dream come true. Contrary to the most commonly held belief that all cuckold husbands are by default the submissive type with a small penis inferiority complex, most of these men are actually extremely confident in their masculinity and their “manhood”. They also report having no desire to have sex with other women. Their hotwife is almost always the sole focus of all their sexual fantasy and activity. In my experience, this may be the only class of men who can actually be believed when reporting this. In some circles a woman may wear a bold ankle bracelet on her right ankle to tell men “in the know” that she’s a hotwife. (At the same time, most women who wear ankle bracelets do so without realizing the possible significance.) Once seen as a hotwife, she may flirt with select men, making it clear that she’s available for sex. Women As Sex Objects? Many women feel that being a hotwife turns a woman into a sex object. This seems to be primarily based on the premise that enjoying sex is a masculine prerogative. However, more and more women are finding that this is not so. Most women have lived their lives trying to act “like proper women” and shunning men “who have one thing on their minds.” Now, according to one woman, “I let guys know I like sex.” Thus, she may soon get beyond, “what other people will think” and concentrate on the pleasures of the sexual experience — in particular, experiencing regular orgasms. This is often bolstered by the excitement that surrounds the culturally taboo aspects of a married women having sex with other men. Usually it’s the Husband’s Idea All of this notwithstanding, the cuckold husband/hotwife phenomena is typically the idea of the husband who not only knows about the high number of female affairs, but is even sexually excited by visualizing another man having sex with his wife. According to one husband, “I had to really change my view about how a wife is supposed to be, especially with guys finding out she’s ‘available’ even though she’s married to me. But now I really get off on having a woman that guys think is hot and who they want to have sex with. Fact is, instead of being embarrassed or defensive, I brag about how she loves sex, and then I casually mention that this sure makes her a lot different than most wives. In a very good way.” According to another husband, “…as far back as I can remember in our marriage, I’ve always been turned on and excited by the idea of encouraging her to let guys give her all the sexual attention she can handle. …She and I feel closer and more attracted to each other because of all the attention she gets from men. Especially the younger guys. They all think she is hot and they’re right! My wife feels that as long as we are together when she’s with another guy, everything is OK. It’s a huge turn on for both of us.” From her husband’s perspective, he has long ago ridded himself of the “fallen woman baggage” that pervades most of our culture, the fact that his wife is pursued by men, makes herself available to men, and sometimes has sex with other men, introduces a bit of competition for her. This can strengthen the husband’s resolve to “treat her right” although most husbands with hot wives already have a sort of “wife worship” fetish you might call it. They tend to buy their wives pretty clothes, take them out, and tell them how attractive they think they are and make them feel that they are attractive to other men. He may fantasize about a powerful (safe) man sexually awakening and dominating her, and forcing her to break free of sexual inhibitions. Some husbands know how exciting a new sexual partner and experience can be, and want to offer some other men this experience with their wives. A husband may also fantasize about having a wife that is, to a degree, driven by both a physical and a psychological need for sex. Visualizing or seeing first-hand other men meeting this need in her —but only with his permission— may excite him. The Woman’s Perspective Women have a different perspective on being a hotwife, of course. According to one woman, “I’ve got a sense of freedom in enjoying the company of men and not being paranoid about a jealous husband, or even being worried about what people will think. If I want to have sex with a guy I find attractive, all I have to do is tell my husband and I have the freedom to do it. For me, having my husband there is a huge part of the turn on. Knowing it excites him makes it more exciting for me. Of course I’m excited that a younger, good looking guy wants me and thinks I’m hot, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t. But just sleeping with another guy without my husband feels more like cheating than a turn on. Some women go on dates without their husbands and a lot of husbands are OK with that. For me, I want my husband with me. I want him to see me being taken by another man. It’s really hot, for both of us.” At the same time, the hotwife does not want jealousy or resentment to ruin her marriage or threaten the unusual freedom she enjoys, a freedom she knows that very few husbands would be willing to grant. Therefore, she needs to be careful to be totally open and honest to her husband about her lovers. This means that there will be no secret conversations or secret meetings with men. It may also mean that the husband may want to approve of the men she has sex with. The cuckold husband may want his wife to announce her sexuality by wearing revealing clothes. For example, he may accompany her to a night spot in a distant city and have her dress in ultra-revealing clothes or tell her to go out without wearing any panties. This can serve to get them both used to the resulting male attention. Rather than being jealous, having a wife that is seen by other men as sexually “hot” may provide him with an ego boost. (Dare we suggest that for some men hot wives are replacing hot cars as a source of pride.) Thus, while the male and female motivations might be quite different in the cuckold husband-hotwife phenomena, the ultimate goal can be the same. The husband will have to deal with meeting men who have had or want to have sex with his wife. To compensate for any suspected loss of his virility, the husband may remind others of his own previous sexual escapades. At the same time to prove his lack of jealousy, he may freely admit to men that his wife regularly enjoys sex with different men, and he may even subtly offer her to select men. According to one man, “I like to set things in motion like that just to see what happens.” The Quintessential Issue What may seem desirable for the husband or wife while under the influence of testosterone, libido or fantasy, may later seem like a huge mistake. The result may be regret and marital estrangement. Clearly, the cuckold husband/hotwife idea is at odds with cultural conditioning and human tendencies toward jealousy and possessiveness. Although these traits may not be desirable, they are the norm and must be recognized. Even assuming that both partners are okay with going in this direction, most of society isn’t. With most people there is still a sigma associated with a promiscuous wife and a husband that lets his wife have extramarital sex. Most people who find out about this will respond negatively toward both partners. This can be a problem in a work environment where “character” is a part of job performance and promotion considerations. (A common male chauvinistic attitude with roots in the “wife as the husband’s property” notion says that a husband should keep his wife “under control,” and if she has affairs she definitely isn’t “under control.”) While many couples are able to keep their sexual activities private, they may live with the fear that they may be found out. At the same time, self-employed people who live in large urban areas, or people who work around like-minded individuals probably won’t have this concern. All this being said, given the ever-increasing number of affairs, and the emerging attitudes about condoned affairs in countries such as Japan, one wonders if somewhere down the road to cultural enlightenment U.S. society won’t be ready to accept open relationships. We seem to be in the early stages of that now. Although the transition will certainly be bumpy, if we are able to shift our emphasis to love and commitment to hold relationships together, rather than the refutable doctrines about sexual exclusivity which simply cater to jealousies and insecurities, it would not only eliminate much heartache, but it would remove many of the “justifications” for dissolving relationships and an ever increasing divorce rate. Links: http://ccucksm.blogspot.com/ http://hotwifeblog.com http://www.ourhotwives.org

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Locktober was torture already. 31 days of lock up, watching my drop dead gorgeous wife pleasuring herself, eating her out to countless orgasms. The mere sight of some skin had my caged dick crying at times.

But she had promised she would fuck me on November 1st.

Last night she teased me mercilessly, telling me how badly she wanted me to fuck her. To let me take her like an animal like she needed. During the day she was more subtle, I was so unbelievably fucking horny.

It was finally evening. I made her cum three times already. My balls had turned purple, the ache was beyond what I ever experienced. She ended up tying me to bed first. After grabbing something I couldn't see, she got onto the bed.

She sat herself down on my legs, her body alone was enough to make any man drool. The way we clicked was just magic.

She took the key off her neck and brought it to my cage. My heart started beating faster.

"Someone's excited." She teased rubbing her fingers over the bars. I groaned a little.

"Please Sydney... Haven't you tortured me enough?" I pleaded.

She smirked, wiggling her hips.

"I could keep you like this forever." She joked.

I threw my head back. "Ooh God, no." I groaned. She giggled.

"I did promise you could fuck me." She purred as she slid the key into the lock.

"Mmm.. yes. yes.. thank you, baby." I moaned. She was finally going to take the cage off.

She giggled again, reaching behind she grabbed something. She shuffled back and got her face real close to my cock. She just kept the teasing going, slowly turning the lock, then sliding it out. Immediately my cock pushed the cage upwards.

Sydney pulled the cage off tossing it off the bed, then quickly pulled out a very flat looking cage.

"W.wait.. what.. no, no, no..." I begged, I started squirming and she started giggling harder as she pushed the new flag cage into my dick as it just been freed it wasn't hard yet so she managed to push it back down.

"Ooh. God.. no.. please Sydney, no.. fuck.. fuck." I kept pleading watching her victorious smile as she slid the lock back into the slot, turned it and pulled out the key.

I was whining and squirming. Pulling on the restraints. My cock started to ache so badly. I wanted so fucking bad to be out.

"You promised.." I kept whining.

She cupped my aching balls. "Baby.. I only promised you'd be allowed to fuck me. I never promised a release from chastity." She replied so gentle and calm, her hands cupping my balls.

My body trembled. "Ooohh.. fuck...."

"I'm sorry you misunderstood. Let me show you what special toy I got for you." She said, whilst leaning back again. I pulled myself together a little and looked at her.

The flat cage was indeed... flat. I couldn't even see it poke up anymore. Another little whine escaped my lips. Then Sydney turned back and had a dildo in her hand.

"This.. is a special little tool that, if I like it, you'll be allowed to use a lot more to fuck me." She continued. I stayed quiet. Then she leaned forwards a little. My eyes opened wide when she twisted the dildo onto an apparent slot on top of the flag cage. With a few turns the dildo was attached securely to the cage.

She grabbed a bottle of lube that rested against my waist and poured it on the top of the dildo. It was quite surreal. It was right where my dick would be. When she started stroking it, my cock started pulsing. A light pleasure built up in my body when every stroke she made, but of course, I didn't feel anything on my cock except its fruitless attempts to push up against the flat cage.

"Mmm.. does that feel good, having me stroke you new dick?" She teased.

She crawled over my body, her breasts caressing my chest. One by one she freed my hands.

"There you go." She purred as she climbed up. "You are all ready to fuck me again after 31 days in chastity."

I felt so conflicted. She looked so fucking sexy, my 'new' dick nestled against her body, her perfectly smooth shaven pussy hidden by its length. I was soo ready to cum inside her again. I was so ready to fuck her hard today. Which I could still do, I suppose. But I was still locked, I was not going to cum inside her pussy as I've been dreaming off for most of last month.

"Ready, baby? I'm so happy to feel you inside me again." She purred. She talked as if that was my actual cock. I watched her raise her hips before I watched her pussy spread open and swallow up that dildo.

My dick started throbbing like crazy when she took every inch of it, her body resting on mine. Instinctively, my hands placed themselves onto her waist.

She smiled as and slowly started riding me. Her sweet sultry moans quickly echoed through the room. I was enthralled by the sight of her.

In that moment she truly looked like a Goddess to me. The sensual way she was able to move herself. My cock was aching, throbbing in the tight confines, but a part of main brain told my body she was riding my actual dick.

Soft, gentle waves of pleasure started to pulse throughout my body as I watched her ride me faster and faster. I started to use my hips to thrust inside her.

"Aah.. yes, baby! fuck me!" She moaned, happy that I was starting to 'enjoy' my new cock.

More and more I took over, fucking. I was free to do as I pleased. Soon I lost myself to my desire to take her. I had her on her back as I fucked her hard.

I could only grunt as it felt so dull, yet the pleasure slowly grew inside me. The denial lack of pleasure only spurred me to go harder and deeper. Make her cum hard.

She was screaming with pleasure, she'd already cum once when I took charge and another powerful orgasm coming for her.

Her arms wrapped around my neck as I hovered above her, occasionally dipping down to suckle and kiss her large breasts.

"Oh baby.. I want you to cum with me! Ohh fuck.. you're amazing.... yes, yes, yes.. oh God.. I'm going to cum... I'm..." She moaned before her mouth opened wide, screaming in silence as our eyes locked.

I watched every little detail of her face as her orgasm took over her body once again. It was too much for my brain. A loud moan escaped my lips and my whole body started tingling and shuddering.

It didn't match the explosiveness of a usual orgasm, or a caged one. I wanted to keep going, I needed more.

"S.stop.. baby stop... its too sensitive!" Sydney shouted along a slightly pained moan.

I groaned and stopped moving before slowly pulling out. When I looked down I saw the telltale sign of my cum at the base of the tower. I shivered again as I kept looking, more cum oozing out.

Sydney saw me looking down and propped herself up to see. Her giggle sent more shivers down my spine as she saw the unsatisfying mess I was making.

"Well now.. that counts as your release for completing Locktober. Happy No Nut November baby." She teased before pulling me down for a kiss.

My body was still very much on the edge...

For Christ sake... this woman might actually give me a heart attack at this rate.

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