“its Been A Long Week” Me On A Tuesday

“its been a long week” me on a Tuesday

More Posts from Unhealthy-obsesionss and Others

6 months ago

MILD MOANA 2 SPOILERS AHEAD

I saw Moana 2 as a Polynesian person. I thought it was INCREDIBLE. I know many people already don't really like it, but I think it's because THIS specific movie, they went harder on the Polynesian culture.

The music is even more Polynesian, and written pretty much solely by Polynesian people. The culture is even more included in it's narrative and in the details, they show more tattoos, the Kava ceremony, speaking more of the Pacific Islander native languages, even some the humor is very Polynesian humor.

I personally really enjoyed the storyline, and I liked that it introduced a "morally gray" character to help guide Moana into realizing that you have to just embrace what's given to you. It's a great representation of what the ocean is. It's sometimes not as reliable and friendly as Moana expects it to be, and has grown accustomed to. So when she asks for the ocean's help and receives no answer, she's better prepared to face it as it comes, and adapt, and embrace it.

Not only that, but in terms of Polynesian deities, there isn't just one "good" or "bad". There are complicated morally gray deities. Pele, for instance, is a goddess known for volcanoes and destruction, but she is also known as creation and rebirth. The Earth is scorched by the flames and lava to make way for new land and healthier vegetation.

The songs aren't as "memorable" to those who aren't fully embracing the culture. For me, I got chills hearing the music. It felt authentic and from the heart and soul of the Polynesian people who sang it. Sure, many outside of the culture can't "sing along" to it, but that doesn't make it inherently bad, just because it's not marketable TO YOU.

For someone who's waited forever to have representation, and grew up with Lilo and Stitch being the only one (which wasn't that much in terms of representation.) To then seeing Moana come out when I was 16, and cried then. For then Moana 2 to come out tonight, and I cried AGAIN at 24 years old. My inner child was so excited to hear and FEEL what that representation sounds like, looks like, and means.

The original Moana was tippy-toeing into Polynesian culture, where it could still be marketable so everyone could enjoy it. Because they didn't want it to flop. It feels the same as a Polynesian person having to cater to tourists who only see the Polynesian culture as something they can exploit and be entertained by.

That doesn't mean that it was bad, it was moving tides in that time, and I would take that representation over the crumbs we've had before.

But this movie? Moana 2? This was for US. This was for the Polynesian cultures. This felt like a love letter to us, as a culture, to unite and know that we have community, and to feel seen, in all of our glory, and not a watered-down version to be "marketable" to others outside of our culture.

So, I expect people to not like it. But I also expect it to be because it's coming from a place where they don't understand how it feels to experience, love, embrace, learn, and educate others about Polynesian culture.

I love my culture, and I love my Polynesian siblings as a Kanaka Hawaiian. I love my Maori, Samoan, Tahitian, Tongan, etc. siblings. I love seeing a mix of all of our cultures come together and be represented.

For those who aren't a part of our culture, truly listen to our history and our struggles and successes. Educate yourself on how to be a better ally and find cultural appreciation (not appropriation) for our culture. We are real people with real stories. Not some fictional character (or Halloween costume/party favor/etc.) you can write off and only look at as "entertainment" and can only hold value when we're catering to you. That includes our music, our language, our dances, and our stories.

That's all for now. ❤️ I'll be willing to have adult, civil, conversations with others about differences in why you didn't enjoy it as much, but hate will be deleted and blocked. ❤️

2 months ago

It’s Time to Defend Taylor from Win or Lose (2025)

I don’t normally voice my disagreements with how people ingest media in a public manner. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. HOWEVER…too many people are coming after Taylor from Pixar’s Win or Lose (2025) and ion like that so…

With TV/film suppressing so much Black Girl representation, seeing Taylor, Kai, and Rochelle as a part of the main cast was exciting! This rant will be about how viewers have reacted to just Taylor though, concerning episodes 5 and 6.

Get cozy because there’s a lot to unpack here. Here’s your SPOILER ALERT!

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

I thought Taylor and Yuwen made a very cute couple. I love how they depicted what it’s like falling in love during your awkward years. Yuwen was very sweet with Taylor and it was clear Taylor brought out the best in Yuwen (as confirmed by Kai).

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Of course, their relationship comes to a rocky patch when Yuwen becomes jealous and insecure when he sees Taylor and Tom interacting. For these interactions, keep in mind that they are portrayed from Yuwen’s perspective. Taylor eventually calls things off when Yuwen purposely catches Taylor off-guard to pitch the ball, which causes Taylor to miss and the other team to make a run.

On social media I have seen the cutest edits to this imaginary couple. I’ve also seen some sad ones. In almost every sad one, Taylor is casted as the villain. The comments are even worse! Many place the fault on Taylor for hurting Yuwen, or worse, cast her off as “the worst girlfriend AND big sister”. They have massacred my poor Shayla despite her getting just as hurt, if not more.

Let’s break it down:

1. In episode 6, we are introduced to the “real” Yuwen. The Yuwen we see is outwardly very cocky, self-assured and sometimes aloof. Yuwen deals with social anxiety and insecurity by hiding behind a “Class clown” persona. He relies on humor and positive attention to thrive among his peers. We also see his inner child, who is very sweet and portrays Yuwen’s real feelings.

2. Episode 5 and 6 give a more detailed look into Taylor. She is a great softball player and gets along well with her teammates. It’s shown that Tom and Taylor are good friends. Pre-relationship, Taylor and Yuwen can be seen sharing easy banter with each other. I think it’s important to note that Taylor never instigates such banter and only participates at Yuwen’s insistance. Taylor is also held responsible for her younger brother, Ira, during the games (More on this later).

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

3. Taylor is well aware of this from the jump. On their first date to the movies, she explicitly assures Yuwen to just be himself. And he does — as best as he can, anyhow.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Yuwen eventually opens up to Taylor and reveals his “inner child”. A very touched Taylor reveals her “inner child” in return. In doing so, they both share a personal secret: Yuwen shares he is very insecure, while Taylor shares that she gets nauseous when nervous.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Claim #1: It’s Taylor’s fault for hurting Yuwen, he’s obviously insecure and she knows this!

Aht aht! Wait a min… let’s refute this ridiculous opinion (because it’s important to realize that these comments are JUST OPINIONS)

Obviously they are just kids, but let’s give a little bit of credit here. Kids can go through amazing growth in interpersonality and emotional intelligence. Yuwen is shown to struggle with letting his guard down, but he made an active decision to do so with Taylor. Taylor recognizes this and returns the favor. It’s a hugesign of mutual trust. To keep that trust, you’ve got to work at it. 

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

The first incident that lead to their breakup occurs at school. Tom hands Taylor her dropped cell phone and the two engage in a conversation. While Yuwen is shown to be initially irritated, it quickly turns to crushing insecurity and leads to Taylor pushing him away after he butts into the conversation with an ill-timed joke. If you pay close attention to Taylor’s expression, tone, and what is being said to Tom, it is clear she is concerned for Tom. During the conversation it is revealed that something might be wrong with Tom’s brother and it is somehow related to Tom’s academic troubles (which eventually leads into Rochelle’s storyline). 

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Now, Taylor doesn’t yell at Yuwen, she doesn’t scream or accuse him of being a jerk. All she asks for is that Yuwen can be serious at times. Which is fair. It’s clear that Tom’s brother is a sensitive topic, and even though Yuwen isn’t aware of the situation, he unfortunately chose to give into his insecurities and push the clown narrative, despite Taylor’s initial warning (the push away).

After a dramatic, emotional montage of inner child Yuwen and inner child Taylor fighting and crying, it jumps to the night of the championships. From Yuwen’s perspective, Taylor angrily brushes past him on the way to the field, leaving Yuwen hurt.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

However, in the episode prior, Ira’s perspective shows that Taylor in fact reaches out to Yuwen in an attempt to understand why Yuwen is being aloof and clearly upset. Yuwen, retreating to his humor shield, mockingly repeats Taylor’s request to “use your words”. Taylor tells him he is being rude, and he shoots back that Taylor is being rude, still upset over her reaction at his jokes towards Tom at school. Yuwen is then shown to be the one walking away from Taylor as she confronts her brother. Yuwen is shutting Taylor out.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

But before yall come and say it’s because Taylor hurt his feelings, remember that Taylor was just as hurt after their argument. She is literally crying in the car on the way to the game. Leave my poor girl alone, she has feelings too!

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Now to the actual game.

Earlier in the episode, Taylor enlists Yuwen’s help in practicing her catches, as she’d like to be catcher one day. Yuwen initially doesn’t take Taylor seriously (out of concern of course), but when Taylor get’s upset and expresses frustration, he finally gets with the program.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

While in the pit, the team notice the animosity between the couple and Tom decides to spill the tea Taylor told him and announce that Yuwen’s acting the way he is because he is insecure. Okay a few things to unpack here. First, Taylor is sitting with her headphones on, so she doesn’t know Tom has announced this. Second, remember Taylor and Tom are close (platonically), I assume this was a private conversation (perhaps as a way to apologize to Tom on Yuwen’s behalf) that went down after Taylor and Yuwen’s argument. 

Yuwen takes the slight very hard and retaliates by sharing to the whole team that Taylor wants to take Rochelle’s place as catcher, but he voices doubt that Taylor is no where near as good as Rochelle for it to be feasible. Taylor hears (since Yuwen is speaking with an increased volume) and takes off her headphones to fix him a glare (but doesn’t say anything). But before, she is sitting there looking heartbroken.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

So, when the coach asks for a temporary fill-in for Rochelle (she is absent atm), Taylor volunteers. The coach decides he wants to be stupid and asks if Taylor thinks she’s a better catcher than Rochelle (despite NOBODY wanting to volunteer for the catcher positon except Taylor). He dismisses the dumb comment at Taylor’s pointed expression. This hits hard since now that is TWO people instilling or voicing disbelief in Taylor’s catching capabilities, despite the hard work and success that’s being put in! 

Yuwen’s not done though. In another insecure attack, he picks fun at Taylor and discretely reveals her secret by “encouraging” her not to puke if she gets nervous in front of the whole team. It backfires though and the whole team regard Yuwen coldly. Taylor, always forced into being the bigger person, just tells Yuwen “I’ll see you on the field”. On the field, Yuwen refuses to listen to Taylor’s pitch signs, which leads to the eventual missed catch. 

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Taylor is through. Rightfully so. She’s visibly upset and frustrated towards Yuwen’s behavior towards her because Yuwen is refusing to communicate and show nothing but animosity (plus, he’s broken her trust by intentionally sharing her secret to the whole team) So, she ends things, and walks off the field.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Claim #2: Taylor is the worst because she treats Ira horribly!

Honestly, it’s giving yall just want an excuse to hate on Black girls. I feel like I didn’t see this opinion until after episode six, soooooooo, the math ain’t mathin if yall are just really defensive of Ira.

Episode 5 is told from Ira’s perspective. Ira is Taylor’s imaginative little brother who accompanies Taylor at softball meets (probably due to her parents just dropping him off with Taylor). Taylor is left to look after him while playing the game. Despite her slight annoyance (which I think is justified), she still cares deeply about her brother (i.e. replying to Ira’s complaints and announcements during the game). 

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)
It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

In a move reminiscent to Nico and Bianca Di Angelo (but, you know, without the total abandonment and death), Taylor starts hanging out with Yuwen, which doesn’t bode well with Ira. In Ira’s eyes, Taylor is the only one who gets him. So he decided to roll with the “Bleacher Creatures” after they show interest in him. 

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

Taylor voices her concern with that fact and pulls their mom into it when Ira shows disinterest in her warnings. Taylor is justifiably worried about her brother hanging around the kids that obviously cause some trouble. She even tells Yuwen about it, and he agrees to talk to Ira. The timing is a bit unclear, but I assume that the movie date had happened just before that (with Ira spilling about Taylor’s boyfriend happening before that — whew, work with me here!). So the next morning on the school bus, Yuwen’s attempt to fist bump Ira (Ira chooses to lick Yuwen’s fist instead ) was also Yuwen’s attempt at bonding with Ira at Taylor’s request.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

But before yall come with the: “but she yelled at Ira before the game!” 

She is upset with Yuwen and Ira chose to interrupt… what did yall think was gonna happen?

Taylor is frustrated. She has been put in the position of having to read between the lines and make decisions for people and she’s tired.

Ira was able to come to terms that what he did with the Bleacher Creatures was wrong by himself. When you have an older sis calling all the shots, it can be difficult to decide on your own. It’s a moment of growth for Ira.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

I’m not dismissing that Ira’s feelings got hurt about his sister distancing from him, but Taylor is her own person as well. 

In conclusion, Taylor’s actions are justified and she is also a victim in this scenario, not just Yuwen. Insecurity should not be an excuse to hurt your partner. I hope Yuwen talks to Taylor and they make up, but yall better recognize that Yuwen hurt Taylor too. 

And that Taylor deserves just as much love.

It’s Time To Defend Taylor From Win Or Lose (2025)

1968

i miss my dad. i know hes out saving the country and all but i miss him. petes always crawling under my covers every other day, cant seem to get this bed bug out of my bed. i know he doesnt hear it but i can hear the things he mumbles. he mumbles for you dad.

are you there? are you still fighting? i hope you are. mama and pete and me are counting on you.

--

you liar. you stupid lIAR——

(the rest is scratched out, Mav realizes. The entire page is a bunch of seemingly random scribbles, but behind it are words. Lots of words.)


Tags
2 years ago
‘Stay Still, Lt.’
‘Stay Still, Lt.’

‘Stay still, Lt.’

2 years ago
Kwazii: *puts On Tweak's Heat-vision Goggles*

Kwazii: *puts on Tweak's heat-vision goggles*

Kwazii: *looks at Barnacles*

Barnacles:

Kwazii, taking the goggles off: Captain... are you dead?

Barnacles: wha—

OKAY I NEED SUGGESTIONS FOR A FIC

The fic is gonna be 5 + 1 featuring Pete & Carole siblings hc!!! It's gonna be around birthdays so its bout to be angsty but i have two ideas:

1. mav and carole having the same birthday, the five times they celebrated seperated it apart and the one time mav celebrated it truly alone.

(they dont necessarily have to be twins— could just be a coincidence that caroles baby bro was born on her birthday!)

2. 5 times mav surprised carole on her birthday and the 1 time she managed to surprised him.

(they have seperate bdays in this one)

3. kind of a take from option 1: five letters from Mav and Carole of when they couldnt attend eachothers birthdays but still wished them a happy birthday and the time after caroles death where he writes her a final letter.


Tags

if i cant find any..

ill make one myself...

AVATAR FANFOM!!

do u guys have fics where neytiri and jake switch roles pls pls pls pls PLEASEEEEE

2 years ago

Hi luv your art can you draw Captain Barnacles doing a puppet show for the Vegimals and the kids please???

Hi Luv Your Art Can You Draw Captain Barnacles Doing A Puppet Show For The Vegimals And The Kids Please???
Hi Luv Your Art Can You Draw Captain Barnacles Doing A Puppet Show For The Vegimals And The Kids Please???

Sorry Captain didn’t show up :P

5 months ago

our pastor said that “Isaac and Jesus are alike in so many ways— both their fathers wanted to sacrifice them” like okay. im going to cry in the middle of church service now.


Tags

Okay Top Gun fandom, I have a serious question…

Can Ice dance? Not ballroom, but like club dancing. Can he serve on the dance floor? Because — I don't think he can.

Now, Mav yes, absolutely.

Ice, no way in Hell.

Opinions?


Tags
  • ivorymorning
    ivorymorning liked this · 1 month ago
  • sunsetsandpretty-faces
    sunsetsandpretty-faces reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • a-faekindagirl
    a-faekindagirl reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • irate-queer
    irate-queer reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • irate-queer
    irate-queer liked this · 1 month ago
  • a-faekindagirl
    a-faekindagirl liked this · 1 month ago
  • motherofdogs23
    motherofdogs23 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • sleeplingsupernova
    sleeplingsupernova reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • medusas-cub
    medusas-cub reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • medusas-cub
    medusas-cub reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • spacedoutfakeboy
    spacedoutfakeboy liked this · 1 month ago
  • nialpi
    nialpi liked this · 1 month ago
  • youjustneedtostaystrong
    youjustneedtostaystrong reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • beguiled-baby
    beguiled-baby reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • beguiled-baby
    beguiled-baby liked this · 1 month ago
  • lost-mimikyu
    lost-mimikyu reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • dadsdaugther
    dadsdaugther reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • lusshhorror
    lusshhorror reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • holyastra
    holyastra reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • cameoutstruggling93
    cameoutstruggling93 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • figure-u-out
    figure-u-out liked this · 1 month ago
  • msufi3002
    msufi3002 liked this · 1 month ago
  • myblackistoodark
    myblackistoodark liked this · 1 month ago
  • you-wanna-know
    you-wanna-know reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • tarajudellee
    tarajudellee liked this · 1 month ago
  • moofinjoji
    moofinjoji liked this · 1 month ago
  • the-tatted-scientist-v
    the-tatted-scientist-v liked this · 1 month ago
  • joji-yeahright
    joji-yeahright reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • astro-j4y
    astro-j4y liked this · 1 month ago
  • nessuna--paura
    nessuna--paura reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • vampxfemme
    vampxfemme liked this · 1 month ago
  • scp116
    scp116 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • darth-jaeder
    darth-jaeder liked this · 1 month ago
  • flap-n-flop
    flap-n-flop liked this · 1 month ago
  • aspiring-sunshine
    aspiring-sunshine reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • foulcatduckie
    foulcatduckie reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • foulcatduckie
    foulcatduckie liked this · 1 month ago
  • bi-moonchild
    bi-moonchild reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • atributetolife
    atributetolife liked this · 1 month ago
  • lostineverythingndnout
    lostineverythingndnout reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • sick-whittington
    sick-whittington reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • sick-whittington
    sick-whittington liked this · 1 month ago
  • autumnlover33
    autumnlover33 liked this · 1 month ago
  • tigersink
    tigersink reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • skidaddle-skid00dle
    skidaddle-skid00dle reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • anotherinsanel0ver
    anotherinsanel0ver reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • puppygirltitties
    puppygirltitties liked this · 1 month ago
  • moonlovingbutch
    moonlovingbutch reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • redheadedwarrior
    redheadedwarrior reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • philosophiessss
    philosophiessss reblogged this · 1 month ago
unhealthy-obsesionss - easilyaddicted
easilyaddicted

i love a lot of things

262 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags