i don't actually give a fuck whether fatness is an indicator of health because health shouldn't indicate a moral high ground. being healthy isn't some pinnacle of human achievement, it's not morally superior. and being unhealthy isn't a moral failing and shouldn't mean you're less worthy of kindness, justice, and a good life. signed, a chronically ill person who will never be "healthy" at any weight.
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She had curves in all the wrong places - some of them cast a 3-dimensional shadows, still others hummed a low, discordant note as they flitted about like flies. She was nothing like other girls - she was an abomination from the 6th plane of torment
Wild things I have learnt in therapy:
When a child cries, parents are supposed to comfort them, not punish them
Parents are, in fact, supposed to want to spend time with their children
Children too have a right to privacy, meaning parents are not allowed to read their diaries etc and then punish them for the thoughts they found about
Children are allowed to be upset and cry
Children don't have to earn the love and attention from their parents by performing various things
Children are not supposed to be scared of going home and/or their parents
Children are not supposed to be physically abused and even a little bit of hitting is actually physical abuse
Parents are not supposed to expect that children are mentally as mature as other adults
Children are not supposed to be told that they're an accident, a burden, or something the parents regret
Children are not supposed to be scared and ashamed of themselves or feel like failures because of their parents
Favorite high school memory?
Leaving
i miss them (fictional characters iโm actively reading fanfic about)
7/100 days of park jimin โ cr. dwellingsouls
i want you carnally *shoves a knife into your abdomen*
One of the most frustrating things about ADHD is just the way that you absolutely cannot trust future you.
Like, I look at something and think "Oh, I'll deal with that later" like, no I won't. I absolutely won't. I should just do it now while I'm there. I should make plans to do something... Oh wait, will I have the energy to do that??? I was talking with a friend who told me I should come over for tea sometime, which I absolutely would love to do, but I said I was too tired. "Too tired for tea?" she asks. Like, no, I would love tea, but I'm too tired to know that I'll have the energy to get to the place and the only thing I hate worse than not doing things is being flaky on my friends.
so what if lady d kept a maiden around longer than usual ๐ ๐ because what if the maiden was nice to her daughters on a matter of politeness and then accidentally endeared herself to alcina and she ends up keeping her around for company and the maiden certainly isnt against being kept as a hot water bottle and occasional snack by a giant vampire milf. i also love the idea of alcina's daughters gossiping about how long she's kept this one around now, they're normally gone in a matter of days or weeks, she doesn't play with her food for this long.....
**I am capable and resilient, even when faced with challenges.
I embrace my unique way of thinking and processing information.
My worth is not determined by productivity or external achievements.
I am deserving of understanding and support from myself and others.
I acknowledge my strengths and celebrate my accomplishments, big and small.
I am more than my ADHD; I am a complex and valuable individual.
I deserve self-compassion, especially during difficult moments.
I am constantly learning and growing, and that is a significant achievement.
My worth is inherent, and I do not need to prove it to anyone.
I am not defined by my challenges; I am defined by how I overcome them.
I choose to focus on what I can control and let go of what I cannot.
My self-worth is independent of external judgments or opinions.
I am worthy of taking breaks and practicing self-care without guilt.
I have the power to create positive change in my life.
My journey is unique, and I honor the progress I've made.
**I am deserving of love and acceptance just as I am.
My journey with ADHD is an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
I release the need for perfection and embrace my authentic self.
I am not defined by my mistakes; I learn and move forward.
My worth is not determined by the pace at which I accomplish tasks.
I choose to focus on my strengths and use them to my advantage.
I am a valuable and important part of my community and relationships.
My creativity and unique perspective bring value to the world.
I am resilient, and I have the strength to overcome obstacles.
I am worthy of setting boundaries that prioritize my well-being.