I recently started doing something that feels really dumb at first, but... it's totally changing the way I view myself, y'all.
It's called Belief Work and basically, it's taking your old shitty beliefs and turning them on their head 100%.
So instead of "I will never make it," I now tell myself intentionally "I will definitely make it."
The process is simple:
List out all the negative beliefs you have about yourself, whether about work, relationships, money, life, etc.
On a second sheet, list the exact opposite belief.
These are your new sets of beliefs. Repeat them as often as you can remember, preferably once per day.
I KNOW IT SOUNDS LIKE BULLSHIT BUT I PROMISE YOU IT'S WORKING FOR ME SO MAYBE IT'LL WORK FOR YOU???
We need a lesbian version of bear culture bc a lot of self labeled dykes still think fat ppl are gross and undesirable. We should have a community where if youre fat and hairy or warm and fuzzy wlw youre not the bottom of the barrel like weโve seen with the popular white cis wlw aesthetic.
Being fat and hairy isnt just normal its hot. And im tired of pretending otherwise ๐ค
once i master my adhd and stop believing that iโm waiting for my life to begin and accept what i cannot change and finish cleaning my room and stick to a productive schedule and drink enough water and meditate and organize all the important papers in the paper pile and start being consistent and say the nice things to myself and gain confidence its OVER for you bitches
happy girlsย โก
so what if lady d kept a maiden around longer than usual ๐ ๐ because what if the maiden was nice to her daughters on a matter of politeness and then accidentally endeared herself to alcina and she ends up keeping her around for company and the maiden certainly isnt against being kept as a hot water bottle and occasional snack by a giant vampire milf. i also love the idea of alcina's daughters gossiping about how long she's kept this one around now, they're normally gone in a matter of days or weeks, she doesn't play with her food for this long.....
In theory smoking is like unbelievably attractive. Damn shame about, like. The smell. And the cancer. Ah well, there's tattoos
Lady Dimitrescu
are you ok?
me, between tears: i just wanna make out
CEMETERY BOYS โ Aiden Thomas
No, it wasnโt the end. It was a better beginning.
i blog for girls who were deeply lonely in elementary school and stayed that way
In the middle of a fanfic and this shit happens
The world hates me