Small Sensitive Gf ‪♡ Big Strong Dada Bf Who Reassures Her

Learn what it means to be a real dom, as it goes much deeper than you think. Especially if you're trying to be a daddy/dom. Even if you think you're a good one, each sub/little has their own needs and wants, and it's up to you to learn what that is, and most importantly, be respectful of her; or you will lose her.

New little "rage dumping"

IF you are a Dom, I'm assuming you are in control. But you aren't only controlling me.

If you want to be a Dom, you need to learn how to control yourself first. Self-control and stability from a Dom are the most important things.

When your sub says they don't want to do something or feel uncomfortable, you have to respect it. Don't be pushy. Don't dominate them with exhausting. That's not dominating. That's abusing. If you **really** want to do it, find an alternative you both like and agree with.

You are in charge, and commanding is much harder than obeying, so you need to know how to behave and not hurt your sub as a "mistake".

Learn before trying. Study what you wanna do before.

Dreamed of an impossible thing, then every time I woke up, i knew it wasn't true, falling back asleep, only for the dream to grow more. Finally fully waking, still knowing the truth, looking at my phone with a shred of hope, only to see the truth that I already knew deep down.

exactlyyyy

my kindness is going to be the death of me

Where did I can find those doms? And what should I search for here on trumbl?

7 points and red flags to watch out for any new submissive

I am going to elaborate here as i am hearing horror stories from new, inexperienced submissives...On Tumblr...you are probably looking at just 30% are genuine Doms. So its all about being patient...the one issue is that new or inexperienced subs will be so eager and so excited to feel being dominated that they will just partner up with the first Sign of being wanted. You cannot do that. Remember these points and potential red flags

1, Do not just send pictures when they demand it (Genuine subs do not ask or demand )

2, Ask why they are not revealing who they are, with no signs of any identity you have no idea who you are talking too...how can you respect and trust someone you can't even see?

3, Whatever they want to know about you...you have the right to know about them..so do not be afraid to ask.

4, Are they online only certain times of the day? Any unexplained routine of this can possibly mean they have certain other commitments to others

5, In pre talks of becoming a submissive which can take from several days to several weeks, discussions should involve Aftercare, non sexual domination, safe words, your soft and hard limits with any boundaries...all with your participation and your requirements!

6, Not all Dom styles will be compatible with your submission...for instance..no matter what anyone says...DDLG does not pair up with sadism. So keep this in mind.

7, Always trust your gut instinct...not your head (brains overthink) not your heart (hearts are fragile and break easily) Always your gut instinct...if your gut says something feels wrong? It is!

Please reblog and share this info to make sure to protect submissives.

craving being babied rn

I bet you'd love my hand running through your hair as I'm in your mouth. Telling you how good you're doing for me as you look up with those big pretty eyes. Taking your lips off of me so I can bend closer to you and consume your lips with my own, deeply, thoroughly. Fuckk

You are not a bother. You are not a burden. You are not a waste of space. You are not annoying every person you talk to. Your existence matters. Your presence makes a good difference.

I wanna dm u but am nervous.. ૮₍ ˃ ⤙ ˂ ₎ა

You can message me, it's ok. I don't know who you are, and the only way I will know, is for you to say something, or at least follow me.