Another Topic That I Have Been Thinking Of Lately.
Another topic that I have been thinking of lately.
I always see the reasoning for why a girl wants an older man, and it always points to daddy issues. But what about someone like me, who wants to take care of a younger girl?
Well, I think I figured it out, at least for what applies to me. And it's really not all that different, just a little harder. The answer? Years of neglect, and not wanting someone else to feel the same pain that I have felt. Having absent parents, one physically was never there because the other left him. And the other was so focused on herself that she neglected her kids. Then onto adulthood. Neglected by partners, tossed to the side, emotionally ignored for no reason at all. So to be able to help save someone from that same trauma, I think that is what has developed me into who I am today.
Sure, it's not the overly aggressive Dom that everyone imagines, but that's not all there is to this lifestyle. It should be more about genuine care for your little, not just about abusing them. All that will do is break them, and they will eventually leave you for someone that actually cares.
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Getting close to someone? Gotta start preparing for their departure in advance
Then why block me as soon as you say that?
I love this feeling, she needs to be held close, and maybe so much more
When I have that one special girl, she could expect this.
Goals
Weirdly accurate for my mindset lately
my new hobby is saying “sorry I’ve been in a weird place recently” like I’ve ever been in a normal place to begin with
I'll hate making her wait, but sometimes things need to be done. I'm sorry for making you wait, future little girl
unfortunately
Can't wait
this is exactly what i would do
trying to be happy
trying to be helpful
trying to make everyone proud
trying to live
trying to breathe
Going to try to be more positive here again. I feel like I'm finally, slowly coming out of this slump. Trying to be optimistic about a few things, and ignore the things that I cannot control. I will still keep myself guarded to some extent until I'm certain I have found the right one to care for (who knows, if you're reading this, you could be that one for all we know), as my heart probably can't take much more ache in such a short time. So bear with me as I find more positive content, and who knows, maybe new followers will come too.
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