Happy Birthday Noctis !

“Always got each other’s back”

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like dnd

like audrey hepburn

like fangoria

like harry houdini

like croquet

can't swim

can't dance

don't know karate

are never gonna make it

don't wanna make it

just wanna

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but please don’t break promises you make to yourself just because it’s you the promise is being made to. You told yourself you’d go on a walk with tomorrow morning? Do it. You said you’d set more consistent with your skincare routine? Make it happen. You promised yourself you would work on establishing boundaries regardless of who’s on the other side of them? Follow through with that. Don’t wake up the next day and go “well I don’t HAVE to do this” “it wouldn’t hurt to postpone this” “this isn’t a big deal” because it literally is. Every promise broken is another nail in the coffin of your self-actualization. It’s another major roadblock to developing healthy self-love and self-respect. Weigh promises you’ve made to yourself the same way you would weigh promises you’ve made to others.

disloyal order of water buffaloes // pavlove

the only way to be plural is to have others inside your head. it doesn't matter how they were formed. trauma, intentional, accidental, born with headmates. the only way is to have headmates and if youre doing that, origin doesn't matter. having headmates cannot be kept behind a gate by people who refuse to listen to science and twist science around to suit their needs. there is no wrong or cringe way to be plural.

every time someone talks about someone "faking disability to live on welfare" or anything to that effect i think about how my mom worked in law and directly knew of a case of a guy who had terminal brain cancer with an estimated few months to live and got rejected the first time he applied for disability income. like, he was 100% going to die and that wasn't disabled enough to not have to jump through a million hoops and get lawyers involved. non-disabled people "living off of welfare" is such a non issue because i cannot bring myself to care about the like, 3 people who maybe successfully do it compared to the thousands of people rejected who need aid

Having sex be one of your coping/defense mechanisms is so rough. Because the second you feel safe, the need for that coping/defense mechanism lessens.

Then it seems like you're not interested in sex at all, when, in fact, you feel the closest you ever been to that person without it🙃

People think being self aware cancels out mental illness. That when you realise your thoughts or behaviours are irrational you just stop having/doing them

Instead what happens if you're extremely self aware and mentally ill is that you just think in a resigned kind of way "I'm being really fucking crazy right now" while being very loudly mentally ill

Sometimes you are able to tell the people around you "oh, you can ignore me rn. I'm just being extremely mentally ill rn. It will eventually pass" and then continue your erratic behaviour. But mostly it's just privately thinking: "well this is embarrassing but I can't turn it off so just gotta deal with it I guess."

It's infuriating honestly

CG: I’M 6 SWEEPS OLD NOW, AND I CAN DO WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT!

he’s such an edgy teen…

(psst it’s transparent)

what will it take for adults to realize that teens are going to have sex and be in relationships and watch porn no matter what you do. pretending that we won't do those things if you never tell us about them is just fucking stupid. what we WILL do if you don't tell us about that shit is have unsafe sex and be in unhealthy/abusive relationships. don't shelter us from any and all mentions of sex, give us comprehensive sex education. don't ban kids from the internet, teach us how to be safe on the internet. it is so fucking easy.