Voregguks - Ghosting

Tumblr, Pinterest and Spotify are portals that lead me further inside my own head, to a world of my own making.

Having sex be one of your coping/defense mechanisms is so rough. Because the second you feel safe, the need for that coping/defense mechanism lessens.

Then it seems like you're not interested in sex at all, when, in fact, you feel the closest you ever been to that person without it🙃

Apparently this needs to be said so

Forgetting things is morally neutral! Memory issues are morally neutral!

You're not a bad person if you...

forget things quickly

forget people

can't remember entire stages of your life

can't remember important things

can remember some things very well and forget other things all the time

can't remember things (or anything!) about your interests

forget to eat, sleep, go to the bathroom, etc

forget to reply to texts

remember things and immediately forget them again

can't remember birthdays, events, etc

frequently answer 'I forgot' to questions

can't retain new information

forget things you used to know

only remember things when it's too late

have vague, distorted and/or unreliable memories

depend on others to know how an event you were in played out

have other symptoms that are worsened by memory issues and vice versa

... and anything else I might have missed!

shout out to this one interaction i had with my therapist yesterday

therapist: "the best part of being human is..."

me: *tilts head*

therapist: "...the best part of being somewhat human is..."

fucking love when I'm on a call with someone and they start to do a little errand or go somewhere else and they say "and you're coming with me" like. absolutely I am let's go on an adventure I've been spirited away

if you were the toriel cosplayer who gave me a blowjob at dragoncon, PLEASE inbox me. i think you took my wallet. it looks like an NES

what will it take for adults to realize that teens are going to have sex and be in relationships and watch porn no matter what you do. pretending that we won't do those things if you never tell us about them is just fucking stupid. what we WILL do if you don't tell us about that shit is have unsafe sex and be in unhealthy/abusive relationships. don't shelter us from any and all mentions of sex, give us comprehensive sex education. don't ban kids from the internet, teach us how to be safe on the internet. it is so fucking easy.

Not all heroes wear capes

i say "godspeed, soldier" way too much for someone who puts their faith in neither god nor the military

"holy shit is that kurt cobain" still one of the best pics on the internet