I Don't Smoke For The Obvious Reasons Of Not Wanting To Develop An Addiction To Nicotine But God Do I

sometimes I feel like discord is lacking emojis and so I make them myself. these ones in particular are my favorites

frog, toad, and soup!

Feel free to use them if you'd like!

every time someone talks about someone "faking disability to live on welfare" or anything to that effect i think about how my mom worked in law and directly knew of a case of a guy who had terminal brain cancer with an estimated few months to live and got rejected the first time he applied for disability income. like, he was 100% going to die and that wasn't disabled enough to not have to jump through a million hoops and get lawyers involved. non-disabled people "living off of welfare" is such a non issue because i cannot bring myself to care about the like, 3 people who maybe successfully do it compared to the thousands of people rejected who need aid

ask and you shall receive. also edit brobots shades bc i colored that wrong

heres the original poster lmao

me: chat what do we think

the angel and devil on my shoulders: can you not call us that please

Having sex be one of your coping/defense mechanisms is so rough. Because the second you feel safe, the need for that coping/defense mechanism lessens.

Then it seems like you're not interested in sex at all, when, in fact, you feel the closest you ever been to that person without it🙃

Reblog if I can spam you with boops

a little comic(?) about holding back & being trans online

The people who insist that you have to be anti-endo/cannot be pro-endo or even neutral in order to access CDD resources, be those informational posts or discord servers or communities or anything else, are part of the problem of making it really hard to even separate CDDs from plurality as a concept. The more you double down on making these resources inaccessible to others with a CDD who have a different opinion from you on endogenic plurality, the more you conflate that endogenic plurality and CDDs are tied to each other.

Like, if your point is to curate a space for *yourself* where *you* feel safe and comfortable, that's one thing. But if you're out there making "communities" and "resource posts" and the like for the wider public, these things absolutely should not be gatekept. If specific individuals are in these spaces spreading harm and misinformation, then sure I understand wanting to keep other safe from people like that. But someone having a pro-endo stance and not even necessarily advertising that or not even engaging in conversation about endogenic plurality shouldn't be kept from CDD spaces.

Microdosing polyamory by dating a system

what will it take for adults to realize that teens are going to have sex and be in relationships and watch porn no matter what you do. pretending that we won't do those things if you never tell us about them is just fucking stupid. what we WILL do if you don't tell us about that shit is have unsafe sex and be in unhealthy/abusive relationships. don't shelter us from any and all mentions of sex, give us comprehensive sex education. don't ban kids from the internet, teach us how to be safe on the internet. it is so fucking easy.