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hi yes i was calling to see if someone could get on their knees and kiss my stretch marks? yeah sure i’ll hold

Bao (2018) dir. Domee Shi

The people who can't separate their degradation kink from feedism, for one. Also the depressing number of feedists (usually cishet male feeder identified) who are fat-phobic and unsupportive of fat liberation.

does anyone have things about the feedist community that give you the ick?

for me it’s when ppl refer to weight gain as “ruining their body”

I want 0 responsibilities and a lot of lingerie

feeling cute and chubby

my whole life i hid from fat

my first introduction to fat was to not dare speak its name. it was something to hide it was something to eliminate it was something to be ashamed of

and as i grew up it only got more complicated cause i liked fat. despite everything everyone ever told me deep within myself i liked fat and its an integral core desire of my body i could not change.

it’d be easier to fall within the status quo but i’d be going against what is deep deep inside of me

so yeah i am obsessed with fatness i want to be fat i want to honour that little voice in my centre and make it heard and not to let it feel it needs to be hidden away that i can be fat want to be fatter and be obsessed with all things fatness cause we’re all told that that’s a sensitive subject or something to feel ashamed for

be obsessed with fatness love fatness get fatter cause no one else will

Let’s lay in bed and grope each other’s fat while we wait for pizza to get here 🥺

Yeah that's not happening

Yo can we get some green flags for feeders 😭

Green Flags for Feeders 💚

🟢UNDERSTANDS AND EMPHASIZES THE IMPORTANCE OF CONSENT.

🟢 Knows the difference between “feedism” and “feederism”

🟢 Understands and respects boundaries and hard limits. Will not (without consent) push you further than you are truly comfortable with and will not get mad/angry when you use safe words during play

🟢 Has a willingness to establish safe words and other protocols to ensure you stay comfortable and safe during play

🟢 Has done research and understands the complexity of size discrimination and fat politics

🟢 Is a vocal advocate for the rights and equality of fat folks and other marginalized groups

🟢 When planning dates and outings, they take the time to plan the most comfortable route and accommodations for their larger partner. (restaurants with space and no booths, travel accommodations like taking uber instead of walking, buying extra seats on airplanes, etc)

🟢 Worships your growing body but also adores you and your body outside of the context of kink.

🟢 Sees you as a person first and not a sex toy. Values your opinions, hobbies, perspective. Appreciates your humanity and makes you YOU.

🟢 Constantly shows you how appreciative they are of your choice to participate in this kink

🟢 Values and protects the trust you have placed in them. (not sharing private photos, not using language that makes you self conscious, etc)

🟢 Occasionally pays for meals/stuffing sessions. And/or contributes to your meals and gain when possible.

🟢 Understands that being an online feeder/encourager does not by default offer the same privilege and authority as being an irl feeder/encourager. (There’s only so much you can realistically demand for through a screen)

🟢 Is aware of trendy plus size brands and clothing options that will accommodate their partner’s size

🟢 Follows fat people on social media (not to fetishize but to have a diverse social media experience)

🟢 HAS IRL FAT FRIENDS

🟢 Respects the limits to your gain and will not pressure you to gain more (without consent)

🟢 Stays aware and respectful of teasing and comments made about your gain in relation to your gender expression. Avoids triggering language and gender based teasing when there is no consent

🟢 Respects sex workers

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There’s tons more so please feel free to add folks!