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Fine art photographer Julia SH

i officially claim this summer FOR THE FAT HOTTIES!

We need to talk about tumblr's systematic fatphobia.

Posts of fat people are being marked as "sexual content" even more frequently than they used to, but now we have this fun little addition as brought to my attention by a friend;

That's right. Not just blatant kink-shaming, but now, if you make posts about or with fat people, you can now be flagged as "promoting disordered eating"! Multiple completely innocent posts of fat people literally just existing in their own bodies have already been flagged this way.

Raise hell about it. Reblog and share fat content more than ever. Don't let this shitty website tell you that your bodies are "wrong" or that you aren't allowed to exist publicly.

Tumblr staff, if you care about eating disorders (you fucking don't), stop promoting this sense of shame and fear and disgust towards the idea of weight gain. Stop shaming and censoring people for posting about their own bodies and experiences. Fatphobia kills. Fatphobia causes disordered eating. Fatphobia is the disease you should be worried about.

This has also been disproportionately affecting fat trans people, because of course it has.

Don't stop talking about it. Don't let this bullshit ceo silence you.

shoutout to blob girlz and their fat round faces 😚👍💕

how do people make papers for traditional painting and calligraphy in the past by chinese artist 山白shan bai

Fall Feeder Things:

The way cuties sweaters/sweatshirts have gotten tight during a Summer of loose tanktops and ice cream.

"It's the holidays" becoming an excuse for indulgence earlier and earlier

C u d d l e weather

Hearty, heavy foods are back in season

Football food making big boys bigger

Loading up your cutie with seasonal sweets and donuts.

Kisses that taste like cinnamon sugar

I’ve seen a lot of posts like this recently, and I just wanted to say in our community—your partners deserve to be seen. Large partners deserve respect! If you love your partner, you don’t hide them. Full stop. 🗣️

I work a very big corporate job, have for years—and guess what? Biggie comes to every event, every game, every dinner. Arm in arm, we walk in together, and I’m never shy about saying, “Yep. That’s my man.” And you know what? No one questions it anymore. Because I don’t leave any room for that.

I have a super strict, honestly pretty harsh father—and before Biggie, I’d only ever introduced one person to him. But Biggie? He met him right away. He comes to every holiday, every event, and even though I’m often uncomfortable around my own family, I bring him proudly every time—because he deserves to be there. My discomfort will never be more important than making sure he feels seen, loved, and included. That’s what it means to show up for your partner.

When I was younger, people used to question me or make comments about my partner’s size. But now? I command the room. I love him fiercely, treat him like my equal, and show him off with pride—and I dare anyone to challenge that. I’m just as loving (and yes, just as demanding) as I would be with any partner. His size doesn’t change his worth, or how seriously I take him.

And honestly? If you’re leaving room for your friends or family to question why you’re dating a larger person, then you’re not advocating for them enough. Period. Your partner isn’t just their body—people should know all the incredible things about them, and if you’re not making that loud and clear, it’s time to reflect. They deserve to be loved out loud.

So if you’re out here loving someone big? Don’t shrink them. Don’t hide. Be loud. Be proud. Be a good partner. They deserve nothing less.