IDGAFFF
can we stop using physical/sexual abuse for general system traumas?
physical/sexual abuse = trauma
trauma ≠ physical/sexual abuse
in fact, most systems around the world were developed because of these types of abuse, but indirectly people often end up invalidating other systems that have suffered other types of trauma by portraying it only as the physical or sexual ones.
here’s the meaning of trauma:
parents fighting each other every single day can be traumatic for a child.
humiliation, bullying, social exclusion and/or prejudice can be traumatic for a child.
religious issues (occurs when an individual struggles with leaving a religion or a set of beliefs that has led to their indoctrination. it often involves the trauma of breaking away from a controlling environment, lifestyle, or religious figure. font) can be traumatic for a child (ex.: a child forced by their parents to believe only in a certain religion and facing punishment if they question its beliefs or the parents’ attitude).
daily verbal abuse/emotional instability from parents can be traumatic for a child (yelling, insults).
and other types of intense, prolongated trauma!
any trauma is valid.
Fusions!
We have the Demus fusion: Chaos. He love to make as much chaos as he can Logicality fusion: Reason. He’s like the overprotective dad And Dream!
the first God who ever answers your prayers is a man who bares his neck for you.
he answers your plea for blood in a foolish show of unearned trust you find yourself unable to betray.
the taste burns on your tongue like sunlight should on your skin.
and yet for the first time in two hundred years, you are fed.
the first God who ever answers your prayers is a man willing to die of his devotion.
the curse in his chest, the promise of forgiveness, your teeth in his neck.
as you drink your fill, you wonder what will get him first.
the first God who ever answers your prayers is not yet a God at all.
but you are the first to pray to him.
About this confession: https://www.tumblr.com/tsams-confessions/749502326618898432/i-wish-i-had-the-detective-skills-to-figure-out?source=share
I don't know why people got defensive in the reblogs. It just said that they wish they knew how to tell which people are aphobes. But someone dragged solarmoon in it and then the anon who made the confession got accused of saying that aromantics can't feel love. Anon never even said that people can't have aus or headcanons. Is it so hard to understand that romance-favorable/sex-favorable aspecs are more accepted in fandoms and lgbt spaces in general? Why do you feel the need to remind repulsed aspecs that "aspecs can love/have a sex life"? They know. The very same concept is used to shut them up all the time, and worst, to invalidate them. I believe this has been said by others before but let me reiterate: If you are an aspec that isn't a repulsed aspec, stop talking over repulsed aspecs. Stop invalidating them for being repulsed of romance/intimacy/sex. Let them be upset that they don't have a repulsed aspec character that represents them. Stop alienating them from their own community.
No more of this "But I'm aspec but [says something to talk over or invalidate repulsed aspecs]" Stop it. Let repulsed aspecs speak.
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Not a ship!
Eclipse picking up Moon from the bar after hours of searching for him expecting the worst. He decides to stay the night to make sure he doesn't do anything stupid since Sun is exhausted from work.
Monty: Ya know, at least my family is straightforward. You guys all have weird issues.
Moon: What?
Monty, pointing to Sun: Anxiety.
Monty, pointing to Lunar: PTSD.
Monty, pointing to Blood Moon: Neglect.
Monty, pointing to KC: Twink.
Monty, pointing to Jigsaw Eclipse: Sociopath.
Monty, pointing to Eclipse: Disowned.
Monty, pointing to Solar: Unspecified Trauma.
Monty, pointing to New Blood Moon: Manipulated.
Monty, poking Moon in the forehead: Self-Worth.
IT’S NOT FINISHED OR COMPLETELY POLISHED YET BUT I’M TIRED SO—
Eh, host made this a while back. So welcome to our hellish, and empty, tumblr page. Mainly used for liking stuff or talking to people, but we might post stuff. This blog may end up becoming 18+ only but we aren’t sure yet. Have a lovely day and stay safe, dewdrops :)
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