I See This Conundrum All The Time, And I Just Want To Say That If They Are Anything Like Me, Then Your

I see this conundrum all the time, and I just want to say that if they are anything like me, then your sub is likely to be happy, loved, and satisfied by knowing that the DOMME is happy, loved, and satisfied. For me, that’s the ultimate goal: I did something that she wanted, and as a result she is happy.

In a world of meetings, deadlines, often thankless, and stressful work and parenting, it feels amazing to be appreciated for the things I do. To have clear goals and direction, and to be very obviously useful. All day every day I have to make decisions, factor in everyone else’s wants with my own, make judgement calls, and do all sorts of mental work. To be able to come home and just…. Let my Domme take over and tell what I need to be doing? And then tell me how good I did it??? Omg BLISS.

So to me, it’s not a conundrum at all. A continuous loop of happiness and satisfaction indeed. Tell me what YOU want, and let me know if I did it well. It feels to me like I’m the one being selfish, making Mistress do all the mental work and just following directions. Easy shit, AND it makes her cum? Holy fuck, it’s the best.

All of my kinks are superseded by what the domme wants. The biggest turn on about femdon to me is the woman being in control and doing my best to please her. What she wants comes first, and so does she.

So, I might have a whole bunch of kinks but being able to see her in pleasure is my biggest kink.