Wifely-aspirations - A Domestic Goddess

a man who seeks to force a woman to submit to him via violence and manipulation is a weak man insecure in his masculinity beyond the surface. true loving submission is not forced but comes naturally when a woman feeling loved, protected, and allowed to live in her feminine energy

some women who are blessed with the ability to carry children are not deserving of motherhood

many women who unfortunately lack this ability are extremely deserving of motherhood.

i am always told how i'd make a wonderful mother. my husband reminds me ever day, but i know i can never give him biological children. and i can't help but feel lesser for that.

on the bright side though, i guess we can adopt kids into a loving and stable home.

Men and women have different roles in society, and different needs and desires. the feminine and masculine complement each other. One cannot discard the worth and necessity of the other. femininity is nothing without masculinity and masculinity is nothing without femininity.

No one “wins” an argument.

If you set out to win an argument with your partner, you will lose them.

Set out to solve the problem, together, and you will both come out of the situation stronger.

Femininity is not…

Wearing a dress, putting on lipstick and doing your nails... It's not talking softly... it’s not playing hard to get… Nor obey anyone just because he is a man

Femininity is internal beauty that reflects on the outside, Sweetness in the heart that reflects in the sweetness of speech, Zeal that preserves what has value, trust that allows you to be lead

The outside only makes sense when it comes from the inside…

I know you feel more feminine when you do your nails and put on a dress… (that's why I recommend it)

And this happens because a well-intentioned exterior has the effect of activating different parts of ourselves and that's great, but it's not everything!

True femininity comes from within…

It is necessary to cultivate within yourself care, attention, dedication, devotion, diligence, trust, among many other qualities of BEING and not just clothing.

The truth is that you don't become more feminine just because you put nail polish on your nails.

You need to understand this.

This thinking that is focused on the outside, on the material - is very far from being true femininity.

Authentic work is the inner polishing that will undoubtedly reflect on the outside.

It's inevitable!

Marry a man who wants to be a husband, not a man who just wants a wife. Read that again.

A man who WANTS to be a husband is a man who’s willing to provide, protect, & fulfill your rights. He is READY to do whatever he can to make things work. A man who JUST wants a wife is a man who's only thinking about what YOU can do for him, & not what HE needs to do for YOU.

it is a parent's job to love their children invariably, to encourage them to follow their dreams, to teach them to respect themselves and others. it is not a parent's job to shame their children for not meeting the expectations for their life that their parent had drawn up for them. children are a blessing, they are also their own person, not just an extension of their parent.

Traditional femininity is not equivalent to being a human doormat

When will people stop acting like femininity is about being useless and stupid

There should be housewife school where they teach women how to cook, clean, sew, budget, garden, take care of children, etiquette, fitness, fashion, and beauty. Not all girls have mothers and grandmothers to teach them. 🥞🧸