Sex-trafficking Groomer Says What?

Today, my therapist was talking about how the smallest bits of self-care — even making yourself a mug of warm tea — are a way of recognizing your own worth, and how meaningful they are when you really dislike yourself. “After all,” she said, “I don’t know about you, but I don’t often make tea for people I hate.”

And that really hit me, especially because I’m an acts-of-service kind of person and tea is one of my go-to ways to show people that I’m thinking about them, care about them, and hope their day could be a little better. So maybe when I make tea for myself, I’m saying that to myself, too, that I’m thinking of my own needs, caring for myself, and trying to make my day a little better. 

And that’s really important to me because a lot of days I struggle to do basic things to keep myself going and just feel like I’m self-destructive, only ever making things worse… but most days I still manage to make myself a mug of tea or two. And it’s good to know that that matters. 

just a heads-up for those of you (like me) who have triggers surrounding animal harm/death, PETA has released a youtube ad with sounds of owls screaming in agony and goes into graphic descriptions of ‘mutilation’ and death. it’s unskippable. 

if you see a black screen with audiowaves on it or hear owls/johns hopkins, get out of there

#selfportrait I did last night. Did it in #blackandwhite. Hope you guys like it! #markers #markerlove #instart #instartist (at Tegucigalpa, Honduras)

anyway can't believe we went from

to

to finally end up here in under 20 years

I made too much hot tea and now I’m trying to chug it before bed so as not to be wasteful. Stupid Protestant upbringing

My brain when I saw this: I can be a ghost! Boo I’m scary

Hidden Duvivier, Fotocollage 2019 by Volker Hermes

Dusk Diva Collection

Embrace the enchanting allure of the night! 🌙 Say hello to DuskDiva! 🌠

Inspired by goth fashion, this collection brings a total of 6 additional items! 📦

Every item comes with several different swatches.

Which Dusk Diva look will you choose?

DOWLOAD (Public 28/Jun/23)

i truly believe nothing johnny ever said to a woman was funnier than this