My Partner & I Recently Transitioned To Being Best Friend Platonic Partners And Romantically Separated

comic panel 1: lake driving with meg in passenger seat; speech bubble from lake says “So… i realized this year i’m more toward the boy side of the gender spectrum… so our genders and sexualities don’t fully line up…”
comic panel 2: meg in the passenger seat excitedly saying “what a coincidence! I realized this year i want to raise kids eventually and i know you don’t”
comic panel 3: a view from outside the car with lake and meg high fiving inside, confetti explodes around the car and two banners at the top and bottom read “BESTIES DIVORCE”
drawing of lake lit in a spotlight with a microphone jauntily gesturing at meg, in another spotlight, saying “ladies, my wife is SINGLE!!”. glowing neon signs point to meg that read “FUNNY”, “CLEVER”, “HOT” and “THOUGHTFUL”
sketch of lake saying “i am also single but ‘people of all genders, i’m single’ is not nearly as funny as ‘ladies, my wife is single’ and, like a hammerhead that stops swimming, if i stop being funny i’ll die. also my wife is a catch and you should date her”
sketch of lake and meg in cowboy outfits holding a banner that reads “JUST (several months ago) PARDNER’D (platonically)”

my partner & i recently transitioned to being best friend platonic partners and romantically separated (due to some simple romantic incompatibilities) - we're both very happy with and excited about this change and most importantly we think it is VERY funny and gay to continue doing everything together and living together as exes

(she wrote the first comic!)

More Posts from Witheredaster and Others

2 years ago

AYO THATS HORRIFYING AND FASCINATING??

witheredaster - sad and gay, keep moving
2 years ago

I hope every writer who sees this writes LOADS the next few months. Like freetime opens up, no writers block, the ability to focus, etc etc you're able to write loads & make lots of progress <3

2 years ago
@aquaquadrant Was Talking About Tango Flustering The Hell Out Of Jimmy While Asking Him To Help Out And
@aquaquadrant Was Talking About Tango Flustering The Hell Out Of Jimmy While Asking Him To Help Out And
@aquaquadrant Was Talking About Tango Flustering The Hell Out Of Jimmy While Asking Him To Help Out And

@aquaquadrant was talking about tango flustering the hell out of Jimmy while asking him to help out and I added the “AND THEN HE PUTS THE BUCKET ON HIS HEAD AND WALKS AWAY” bit

I believe in team rancher shenanigans at all times 💖

2 years ago
Hes My Guy Ever

hes my guy ever


Tags
2 years ago

Es el año de los árboles Sauron.

2 years ago
0 Days Since Last Hermitcraft Public Execution
0 Days Since Last Hermitcraft Public Execution

0 days since last hermitcraft public execution


Tags
2 years ago

Can’t wait for the next Life smp series “No Life”, where everyone spawns in and immediately dies

2 years ago

🥄Spoon Stop! 🥄

Take a spoon or two to complete any tasks you need to finish soon. Reblog to give your mutuals a spoon

🥄Spoon Stop! 🥄
2 years ago

hi vaguely serious messy post about hermitblr and new members and just. letting everyone know that we’ve had history with cc interaction on here before that i think would be useful for people to learn about

Trafficblr/Hermitblr has seen a lot of growth lately, largely in part from people migrating over here from the DSMP side of MCYTblr. This in of itself is completely fine! New people jumping onto the bus with us are always welcome, and the growth of the community as a whole is really nice to see.

However, I have noticed a lot of these newer blogs sharing the same very specific behaviours, and if possible, I’d like to just make a few things about the community and our history clear. Because this isn’t DSMP, and the CCs here handle content creation and their own fanbases very differently to them.

While I’m not going to go in-depth on 2019 since I don’t have nearly as much information about it as other people do, I would like to say that back then, Hermitblr was kind of an active war zone. It was comparable to how Hermittwt is now, with infighting about shipping and similar topics being the norm (however in Hermitblr’s case many of these argument were far more personal due to the smaller fandom size). What I want to point out specifically however, is when one of the CCs, Cleo, was thrown into the community infighting. I don’t remember the specifics of it, but she was sent an ask asking about shipping, and her opinions on it, and eventually dealt with so much backlash that she was forced to leave the site entirely (this post here has a slightly more comprehensive summary, if need be).

Hi Vaguely Serious Messy Post About Hermitblr And New Members And Just. Letting Everyone Know That We’ve

I’m just a little concerned, because there seems to have been a slight increase in that demographic of people recently. Specifically, members of the community who want to rely on CCs to dictate what happens in fan spaces; for them to give us bullet point lists of what their exact boundaries are for every single situation.

This rarely ends well. As in, it almost always just causes infighting and hostility. There will always be people making content that will “break boundaries”, regardless of any creator’s wishes. However, this is usually mitigated by the fact that many of these CCs aren’t on Tumblr (at least not anymore….mostly). The problem arises when members of the community attempt to act as Heroes Of Justice, and go out of their way to send asks to other blogs, informing them exactly of how they’ve broken the boundaries of some 40 year old adult. This is all despite the fact that said adult will….never see whatever post went against their wishes. It just encourages policing and this weird superiority….thing, where despite the lack of content creators, people are still fighting to make sure that the site is clean from any possibly upsetting posts.

I say this all while also acknowledging that many of the creators in this sphere also don’t have a very comprehensive understanding of how fandom interacts with their “characters”. To them, “shipping” has always been RPF, and there are so many other aspects of the community that simply can’t be explained easily, as they haven’t been immersed in this culture like we have. This is to say that asking for “boundaries” is likely to get you a very confused and unhelpful answer, as the Hermits have always had a very different way of interacting and viewing their fanbase than the DSMP creators do. There is no “c!” or “cc!” to them, to put it simply.

Essentially, the Hermits are adults. They’ve been doing content creation for years, and I can guarantee you they’ve seen worse things in their lives than art of their Minecraft character kissing another Minecraft character. They’ve dealt with this shit before, and if they wanted it to stop, they’re free to make a post about it whenever want. And yet, they haven’t. They leave fandom up to us. Boundaries and rules and infighting and just…all of that? Let’s leave it to the Twitter users, please. Post what you want, make sure to tag your posts correctly, and we’ll all be fine. 

Also, while I’m going to try not to rehash any discourse about inviting CCs to Tumblr, I also do just want to implore you guys to consider that the environment on Hermittwt is partially the way it is because of the active presence of the Hermits there, with people flocking for attention or a single notice, and obsessively checking posts to make sure they’re not potentially “boundary-breaking” and such. Please just consider that many people are here to avoid the dynamics of that site. Tumblr is a site for fans, not for the CCs. So we create content here for ourselves, and not for them. Having creators join almost always leads to the culture of their fanbase on here changing, with content posted in the maintags being catered more towards them rather than the fanbase. (This isn’t to say that they can’t join!! But at least keeping in mind why many of us are here in the first place and weighing that against potential CC interactions would mean a lot).

I fear that my point may have been lost a little bit, but I hope my explanation at least brings a little bit of light to why many members of the community here are wary of Creators coming over to the site, and also of how many newer blogs tend to treat the CCs. Hermitblr has had some really bad history in the past when it comes to this stuff, and seeing newer fans bring over similar ideas from DSMPblr just worries me a little bit.

TL:DR - Just…please treat the Hermits like the adults they are, and keep in mind they have a very different dynamic with their fanbases to the DSMP creators. Asking for “boundaries” and granting CCs control of the fanbase will likely lead you nowhere; attempting to police fanspaces here just brings up bad memories of times when Hermitblr was a much more miserable place to be in. Plus, if you want CC interactions, please just go to twitter. Nobody here wants to deal with an attempted “cleanse” of the site to make it more palatable to CCs.

  • sofarapterous
    sofarapterous liked this · 1 week ago
  • rosakai
    rosakai reblogged this · 1 week ago
  • mydnyteraven
    mydnyteraven liked this · 1 week ago
  • perksofbeingawallpotato
    perksofbeingawallpotato liked this · 1 week ago
  • slothelephant
    slothelephant liked this · 1 week ago
  • dogmantra
    dogmantra liked this · 1 week ago
  • lilredghost
    lilredghost liked this · 1 week ago
  • karcatgirl-vantas
    karcatgirl-vantas liked this · 1 week ago
  • sunjinjo
    sunjinjo liked this · 1 week ago
  • rai-knightshade
    rai-knightshade reblogged this · 1 week ago
  • jadenameless-blog
    jadenameless-blog liked this · 1 week ago
  • tuesdayisfordancing
    tuesdayisfordancing reblogged this · 1 week ago
  • sexh8r
    sexh8r liked this · 2 weeks ago
  • metaphorical-noodle
    metaphorical-noodle liked this · 2 weeks ago
  • elliesicknasty
    elliesicknasty liked this · 2 weeks ago
  • pendragon-fruit
    pendragon-fruit liked this · 2 weeks ago
  • bellziebub
    bellziebub liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • zoot-marimba
    zoot-marimba liked this · 3 weeks ago
  • corruptedremnant
    corruptedremnant reblogged this · 3 weeks ago
  • drag0nalias0
    drag0nalias0 liked this · 1 month ago
  • ihaveyourleftsock
    ihaveyourleftsock liked this · 1 month ago
  • mar1066
    mar1066 reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • mar1066
    mar1066 liked this · 1 month ago
  • yamatenzo
    yamatenzo liked this · 1 month ago
  • ucrh
    ucrh reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • ucrh
    ucrh liked this · 1 month ago
  • superstarryr
    superstarryr liked this · 1 month ago
  • mosquito-man-man
    mosquito-man-man reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • dumbbitchjuicesworld
    dumbbitchjuicesworld liked this · 1 month ago
  • folk-melody
    folk-melody reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • yenoodlethings
    yenoodlethings liked this · 1 month ago
  • zomb-ak
    zomb-ak liked this · 1 month ago
  • kris-side
    kris-side liked this · 1 month ago
  • orgath
    orgath liked this · 1 month ago
  • wereviolet
    wereviolet liked this · 1 month ago
  • lildandi
    lildandi liked this · 1 month ago
  • busy-dadzawa-fish
    busy-dadzawa-fish liked this · 1 month ago
  • busy-dadzawa-fish
    busy-dadzawa-fish reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • arboreal-bombardment
    arboreal-bombardment reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • sedanleystanley
    sedanleystanley liked this · 1 month ago
  • swirlspill
    swirlspill reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • vivitalks
    vivitalks reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • futureempressoftheuniverse
    futureempressoftheuniverse reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • separatebswithbs
    separatebswithbs liked this · 1 month ago
  • lemoni301
    lemoni301 liked this · 1 month ago
  • domesticated-chaos-uwu
    domesticated-chaos-uwu reblogged this · 1 month ago
  • themonkeyking3
    themonkeyking3 liked this · 1 month ago
  • kawaiicryptids
    kawaiicryptids liked this · 1 month ago
  • screamgull
    screamgull liked this · 1 month ago
  • livinginthebasement
    livinginthebasement reblogged this · 1 month ago
witheredaster - sad and gay, keep moving
sad and gay, keep moving

just here to fuck around

115 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags