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stop worrying about things you can’t control. stop stressing over that mistake you made, that’s in the past now. stop being so hard on yourself, you’re doing the best you can. stop thinking you’re not good enough, you’re amazing and i’m proud of you 🤍🎀✨

let’s be clear, intimacy isn’t just sex. it’s mental check in’s, date nights, conversations, forms of affirmations, the small simple things

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LIFE DOESN'T CREATE ITSELF:

HOW TO ENTER YOUR ASCENDANT ERA

Qualities of living an ascendant life:

You know your purpose

You take action

You plan strategically (you know what you're doing)

You network

You gain knowledge

You know what you need in life

You are disciplined

You live in peace (gratitude)

You do inner work

You have friends/surrounding people who encourage you

You are aware of energy vampires (both physical people and online)

Qualities of living a 'loser' life:

You don't take steps to know your needs

You do your research but you don't act

You don't do research at all (you don't know what you're doing)

You keep waiting for the 'perfect moment'

You lack discipline

You live in a state of agitation (always fighting, arguing, holding grudges, bringing up bad past memories)

You don't create space for yourself to grow (keeping bad people around you, being negative, listening to music that doesn't align, not experimenting)

Following cookie-cutter 'dream life' content instead of making it your own.

You haven't identified your problem areas (you don't do inner work)

You keep living the same lifestyle you have been living for years

You don't find money on the streets to become a millionaire, you make that money. You don't wake up with your perfect body and suddenly you are your dream self, you create that body.

Stop waiting for this dream life of yours to be handed to you, stop waiting and self-sabotaging yourself because you are not 'ready' enough. You will never be 'ready', you become 'ready' through actually taking action and gaining experience.

CREATE YOUR DREAM LIFE NOW.

Spend time writing down:

What are your values? (what is your moral code)

What do you want others to see you as?

What vibe/aesthetic do you want to present?

What do you want to achieve and how are you planning to do that? (what do you need to get there)

What do you want out of life?

What would you describe as your dream life/dream self? (be specific)

What are your dream things that you would like to own? (desired clothes, pets, dream car, etc)

Create a list of specific affirmations for yourself (remember you have to act, you can't just manifest let's say money out of nowhere. But you can create an abundant mindset and put yourself in situations/environments where money can easily find its way to you.)

Once you know what you want, you will know what to work for.

Spend time making your personal brand, how others will see you and how you present yourself to the world.

May I ask you why you don’t believe in astrology?

No particular reason. It just never stuck with me and I think that over time it’s become a way for people to justify stupid actions and bad behaviour. “Oh im such a Gemini I told the whole world about your issues with XYZ hehe” I can’t take such people seriously at all. i also feel that it’s a label that is absolutely unnecessary. A lot of the times I genuinely feel that your traits and your zodiac’s traits don’t line up but people want to be like their zodiac signs so badly that they’ll act like lunatics.

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What a healthy, secure relationship looks like

He communicates consistently and clearly. Replies promptly, doesn't leave you on seen, checks up on you throughout the day/week according to his schedule and in agreement with your needs as well.

He pays attention to your needs and desires and quirks, and makes your life better using said details. Ie. buys your favorite kind of flowers, makes your favorite tea in the morning, remembers your food allergies when having dinner dates, etc.

Disagreements may still appear even in health relationships, and it's ok, as communication is essentual for a healthy dynamic. However, his approach to disagreements is a secure one: each will share their perspective, and if feelings were hurt or mistakes were made, he takes accountability for his side, and makes genuine apologies followed by reparations and direct actions (ie. "I'm sorry I did x, I didn't mean to hurt you. I will be/do y in the future", and then does as he promised).

Promises are kept. His actions are in alignment with his words, and he keeps his words. If he says he'll call you after work, he does. If he says he needs to cool off during an argument and will reopen the conversation in 1h, he does indeed return in 1h to continue the topic.

If you're anxious, he will reassure you and work through it. He doesn't run away or avoid the topic (as an avoidantly attached person would).

If you come forward communicating your needs, or sharing complaints or grievances, he will hear you out and actively seek a way to improve things. He won't freak out, or get angry or run away in response to you having needs or communicating your thoughts; these are normal relationship things you're entitled to, and a securely attached man knows this.

A man that is well-rounded, with a secure attachment style, will have a rich life of his own: hobbies, interests, circles of friends, activities, etc. He will enjoy having his independence and space, and will respect your need for your own. He is not co-dependent, nor gets in the way of you having your own life outside of him. He knows having individually rich lives is important for a healthy relationship. To expand on this, he encourages you to enjoy your selfcare time, your girl's night out, or whatever other activities nourish you.

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