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One of my top fantasies: a partner who tells me in no uncertain terms to lick her.

Why Men Can’t Tell You What They Really Want...

Have you ever wanted something, like a bouquet of flowers, a present, or even a surprise night out? How do you go about telling someone that you want them to surprise you and, yet, it still be a surprise? Think about it for a moment. If you tell your hubby that you want him to surprise you with a bouquet of flowers and the very next night, low and behold, he brings home a beautiful bouquet. Be honest. Was it really the surprise you hoped it would be? Or was it more a let-down because you just told him what you wanted. The surprise was gone, wasn’t it? And the fun right along with it…

Well, there are things your partner would love for you to do, but… (And here’s the rub) he cannot tell you what they are. If he does, it would simply not be as much fun or exciting when you do it. It’s kind of a conundrum. If he doesn’t tell, you may never think of it on your own, or you might think he wouldn’t enjoy that sort of thing, so you won’t want to push him into it without asking first. But then, asking ruins it too…

So how can he tell you what he wants you to do to him, if he can’t come right out and say it? There is only one sure way I know of. Fantasies! You, as his Mistress (or whatever you call yourself), must pay close attention to the fantasies he tells you. Or, if it is you telling the fantasy, pay attention to the things he says he finds erotic. It’s really that simple…

But the main thing to remember is that you are the one who needs to pay attention when he tells you a fantasy and when you tell him one. Okay, maybe you are not big on telling fantasies, but you can certainly find a story or two for him to read, can’t you? That’s all it takes. Understanding what your subby-hubby enjoys is up to you. He can’t tell you…

My recommendation? Have him read a lot of stories and tell you what he likes best in them. Then you can surprise him sometime by doing one or more of those things.

Thanks to nemo

Wait, who is this present really for?

How to Get Your Guy Into a Chastity Cage

1. Tell him why you want to place him into a chastity cage.  For example ”I want you to always be your Horniest around me’ or “ I hear all the time from women how this will greatly improve our Sex Life” or “You Know I want total control of your erection my love.

2. Start Cheap. I recommend a cheap device from Ebay. Search for Male Polycarbonate Chastity.

3. Put it on for him. Be careful and extra gentle, the first time takes a while. If he has groin hair down there, leave it. He will discover he needs to shave on his own. Shaving himself will be his gift to you, if you want it. Tell Him that you Love it…

4. Put his clothes on and take him out somewhere (like to dinner or a walk on the beach) where you can both see how it feels while walking, sitting etc.

5. When you get back home he’ll want it off ASAP, Tell him you’ll take it off but only later. Visually tease him with lingerie & your sexiest clothing (purposefully bending over… ect…). Eventually Take it off of him and Have him jack off for you – following your precise instructions - Make sure he Cums Really Hard (and make it memorable), It’ll be the last time he Freely Explodes for quite a while.

5. Then have him put it back on himself. This is usually the time he will bring up shaving. If he wants to shave, have him do it right (as instructed). Downward strokes. And after have him put deodorant on it, Not lotion or oil as so many recommend. You want that freshly shaved area to remain dry to prevent razor bumps.

5. Tell him after he locks it and hands you the key, he will be in it for three days. That’s just enough time to drive him absolutely crazy with your lingerie & sexiest skimpy clothing. 

6. For the next three days, Introduce him to his nipples. Have him wear a T-Shirt and lightly play with them frequently. Not nipple torture, light pleasure. Explain to him (WHY), that the nipples are directly connected to his brain and prostate area, thus giving him much better Orgasms. With repetitive training he can eventually have an orgasm that feels great, but leaves him beautifully hornier. This will take the attention off of his inaccessible penis while giving him a new path to pleasure

7.  Monitor and inspect him not only daily but every few hours. Check for his comfort. This might not be the right cage for him. It can be too tight over time or too loose and pull out.

8. On day three he will really want sexual activity if you’ve been visually teasing him properly. It’s time you introduce him to his first ruined orgasm. Be sure to Tie his hands behind his back or to the bed first, then take the penis portion of the cage off Only, Leaving the ring on around his balls. As slowly and seductively as possible, suck, stroke or play with him until he is Fully Erect (the ring you left on him will mystically accelerate this process). Then just make sure to let go of his “Joystick” just as he is about to Erupt. Always remember, It’s Better to stop 15 seconds too early than 1 second too late. You can always stroke/edge him more if you need to. This will ensure that his ejection is not pleasant for him, and over time he will not want it any more. Anyhow when he’s finally deflated enough, Lock him back up (using a cold wash cloth with ice if necessary). This time WAIT for 7 days. 

9. Have him really practice / concentrate on using his nipples for pleasure. After some repetition he will be able to release some oozing boy juice into his cage relieving some pressure from his balls, but more importantly he’ll keep getting hornier and hornier.

10. On day 7, make sure you tie him up again before removing his lock and cage. Most likely He’ll spring to life almost instantaneously. Keep him as Hard as Possible - as Long as Possible, Strategically Prolonging his Desperate Erectile Situation with Frequent Sustaining Breaks. “Enjoy’ your escalating feminine power as you (most ardently) Edge Him for as long as your heart desires. Handle him “Delicately” until you’ve Eventually given him another perfect ruined orgasm. At this point both his Libido and Dopamine levels will be hyper peaked and His psyche will be Astonishingly Horny and Exploitable. This is the perfect opportunity to mount his eager face if you so desire. Keep in mind, His Manhood will stay Quite Erect for a good long while after a ruined orgasm. Needless to say, When you’ve had enough, lock him back up in his cock cage. Keep on this effective 7 day schedule until he’s utterly begging and promising to do (Anything) - whatever you ask of him, without delay, if you will only Let Him Cum Profusely. Upon the day of your choosing, After a Series of Exquisite Ruined Orgasms, Mount his “Empty” Traumatized (But Extremely Virile) Erection for the Ultimate Subjugating RIDE of a Lifetime - Whatever Duration You Choose - Trust me Ladies, It’ll be the Best Sex of your Life.

Now you have a Humble, Good Boy - that wants nothing more than to Please You ! ! !

A favorite fantasy of mine: make me cum in you, then make me eat you out.