As A College Student They Are A Life Saver For Finals

Saying you’re proud of someone for doin’ their best really can make their day when things get rough for them :D

But yes Husker is getting better, and Angel is just trying his best to cover his overlord duties but sometimes it gets a little overwhelming ;0;

Y’all they’re just too dang cute I can’t 😭🩷

may i have this dance ?

Dude that is such a mood😫

HEY UH- sorry for dying on you all, college has been taking up a majority of my time but I WILL try to get my shit together so I have ample time to update stuff here. I d o have things planned that I wanna show you all. I am still doing the tadc shit don't worry, just motivation has been lacking for that-. Okay but as a sorry here take my hw lmfao

OKAY….SO APOLGY TOUR HAPPENED

I wouldn’t really consider myself a person to kin myself with anyone… but god I gotta put this one out there because god Stolas as a character cuts deep for me!

New kin unlocked… Ik what it’s like the feel that way Stolas

@marharheehee

STOP

KEEP MY DEMONDICE/ MR. KING DICE CRUCH PHASE BACK IN 2016 PLSSSS

I BEG OF YOU

YOUR FLOODING MY FEED, I'M TRYING TO BE CLEANNNNN

an extra trans king dice doodle I just found that goes alongside the comic i made a little while ago

AAAAAAAAAAAAAA

WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS UP SO LATE😭😭😭

sweet dreams

Now that the strike is over I can post this!

I may or may not be back into the stranger things universe and back obsessed with Eddie and Chrissy!

I’ll still post digital circus related art in the future but @itsdancingquen designs of clown-Heelcheer are the most detailed and well thought out I’ve ever seen! Her art is just amazing and I’d definitely follow her account!!

GANGLE

this right here is describing me in the fullest and that makes me realize why I personally kin her. My friend group literally call me Mom willing because I have such a caring nature when in reality… caring for people is a coping mechanism! Is that the best thing for me and my self love NO! But it’s so funny how it took me a good 5 years to realize what I was doing and another 3 years for me to attempt to even stop the cycle (fail miserably a good amount of time while trying to heal)

But over time I’ve learned that trauma can be lessons learned and/or be handle in a better way than just giving all your power away ya know

…thank you for coming to my ted talk

(regarding the momatha ask)

GIVE US THE UNFUN EMOTIONAL ONE ANSWER PLEASE 🙏🙏🙏 WE NEED IT

Wow that was fast. I mean like 20 of yall asked for it immediately. Congrats, you're the one I grabbed to answer it (but you're all winners in my eyes).

Ok you asked for it, my very long, actually serious, unfun answer.

Would ragatha be a good mom?

Unfun Answer: It's easy to confuse people pleasing/care taking trauma as 'good parent' material. But that isn't always the case and by default I don't think those qualities alone would make Ragatha or anyone a good parent. I think what actually makes someone a great parent is the ability to recognize their trauma and actively work to process and heal through it so they don't replicate their traumas with the people around them.

Everyone has emotional baggage and trauma in some form. And kids will eventually trigger you. They won't mean to, but they will. When that happens, you need the tools to give them empathy and understanding and structure, even through whatever you're dealing with at the time. Not just during the fun moments but during the times when they do unintentionally hurtful things too.

That's hard to do, and for a lot of people, they end up having kids before they even realize they have these unresolved traumas. To be clear, I don't think that makes them inherently bad parents in that case, it just makes being a parent that much more complicated when it's already one of the most difficult things a person can do.

There are a lot of parents out there who became parents because they thought it's what they were 'supposed' to do. And if they never learned how to set boundaries for themselves, or communicate their needs or wants, to hold space for themselves as a separate person not defined by what they do for others, they often unintentionally pass those habits off onto their kids. The cycle continues.

I know some truly incredible parents who come from trauma and have worked through it and the perspective it's given them is invaluable. But it's a choice. It's hard work. And it can only start when and if someone even recognizes there's something there to process to begin with.

All that is to say, I think we as humans all have the capacity to do that work. I think Ragatha as a character has the capacity to be a good parent. But I also think there is hard work involved, and it depends on if someone makes the choice to do that work. Or, to be stuck in their cycles.

ANOTHER PLAYER HAS JOINED

Name: Kinger

Class: Diamond

Overworld Card

Basic: King of Dimonds

Ultum: The Emperor

Bio:

One of the two kings of the Playful Kingdom, Kinger is one of the most questionable rulers the kingdom. Though his ways maybe … weird, but he’s a fair king non the less.