Hi, SFW Blog Here. We'd Prefer If NSFW Blogs Didn't Use The Extreme Cuddling Tag, Because It Was Created

Hi, SFW blog here. We'd prefer if NSFW blogs didn't use the extreme cuddling tag, because it was created to keep the two communities separate. Thanks

Hi!

Fun fact 1, theres no such thing as a SFW v0re. I'm sorry, there just isn't.

Fun fact 2. You can block me. I really don't care.

You wouldn't show your blog to someone at work, or in your family, because it's inherently part of the kink space.

Now, you can look at v0re and like it nonsexually personally, I have friends that like it on a nsx level and I respect that, but you can't argue with me that you'd show your blog to someone in your workspace or at home. Because it's in a community that was meant to be weird and odd to outsiders, and people ARE going to see it as sexual, whether you like it or not.

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It worries me in the tumblr space v0re community that theres so many children running these kinds of blogs, genuinely, it's not normal.

I can say this as someone who was part of the v0reblr space when I was 14 years old. Birbshame was my biggest accomplishment in getting an audience, and that's honestly fucking sad. I was groomed by 3 seperate adults in the community. That is genuinely why seeing children make these blogs for the public makes me kinda wanna cry for them. They don't know what they're getting themselves into, and that's not me trying to baby them, this is me being worried for their safety because you genuinely never know what could happen, and I don't want kids ending up the same way I did while vulnerable and psychologically unstable.

Promoting that this can be SFW is what gets kids in this position. I'm sorry, but you're genuinely part of the problem.

It's not right, and this kind of normalization is really sad. I've had to block so many underage accounts, it's insane.

Also, extreme cuddling was originally made due to the fact that the original tag for v0re was blacklisted in December 2017-2018(? can't fully remember), it wasn't created to seperate the "SFW from the NSFW", it was literally just there because the original tag was blacklisted because the tumblr devs are fucking stupid.

Again, I was there during the blacklist! At 14-15! Sure, my stuff was nsx at the time, but I thought everybody moved their stuff to the extreme cuddling tag purely because of the blacklist.