Coined By The Garden - Blog Posts

[ID: a square flag with 7 stripes. from top to bottom, the stripes are, from top to bottom: dark sea green, teal, seafoam green, very dark green, bright yellow-green, medium yellow-green, and moss green. there's also a grayish dark purple border around the flag. end ID]

recoin from old blog : cursegender

a gender related to curses. this can mean a lot of things, being cursed, being a curse, cursed objects, etc. we specifically made it for our introjects of cursed spirits from jujutsu kaisen, which is what inspired the colors in the flag.

handsymbolic: a gender/identity related to the symbolism of hands and imagery of hands in general, especially large clusters of hands

unsurprisingly this was made by and for lucifer, who is an introject of both tomura shigaraki from my hero academia and mahito from jujutsu kaisen

free to use, no credit necessary

[ID: two identical square flags with five stripes. the first and fifth stripe are much wider than the middle three. from top to bottom, the stripe colors are: blood red, dark burgundy, light peach, dusty brown, and black. the only difference between the two flags is that the first one has an overlay on it. the overlay is a red X in the middle with a black shadow. end ID]

system role : grudge holder

a grudge holder is an alter who holds a grudge against or resents someone or multiple people more so than the rest of the system. they may specifically hate someone who they feel wronged the system after everyone else has begun to forgive them. this could be because they don't think that person deserves forgiveness, that they think that person still poses a threat to them, or that they think the other alters were coerced or felt pressured to just get over it. in general, grudge holder alters do this to protect their system from being taken advantage of again by the same person.

coined on our old blog

aroborderline - an arospec identity affected by borderline personality disorder in some way. it could mean any number of things, such as that you experience romantic attraction primarily to FPs, an inability to experience romantic feelings when you're feeling emotionally numb, or anything else caused by bpd. anyone with bpd can use this label, professionally diagnosed, self diagnosed, suspected or otherwise.

flag colors come from the greens in the aromantic flag and the purples and blacks from the bpd flag

requested by @suparascal ♡ hope you like it!

[ID: a horizontal flag with 6 stripes. from top to bottom: light green, yellow-green, grayish green, violet, dark purple, and black. end ID]

coined on our old blog

edit: it occurs to me that we referred to people who believe in narc abuse as "truthers" in this post. we didn't know at the time, but we know now that that's a word with a pretty significant antisemitic connotation to it, so i want to apologize for the use of it in the past and make it clear that we won't be using language like that in the future.

narcaro - a romantic orientation on the aro spectrum where NPD affects how you experience romantic attraction. for example, you may only be attracted to people who prioritize you over others or praise you consistently, or people you view as an equal. it could also mean pursuing romantic interests as a way of seeking validation through being desired, without necessarily actually being in love. anyone with npd or who suspects they may have npd or its symptoms can use this label regardless of how they feel they identify with it

colors are the browns from the npd flag and the greens from the aro flag

[ID: a horizontal flag with 6 stripes. from top to bottom: dark reddish brown, light brown, dark mossy green, a medium yellow-green, light yellowish gray and eggshell. end ID]

narc abuse believers and anti-npd truthers PLEASE leave this post alone

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sixgender - with/without symbol

a gender related to the number six and its symbolism [in the western world afaik] as a sign of bad luck or evil

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coined on our old blog

behold, our host lucifer's main gender id that we had to coin OURSELVES!!!!! because no one else did it for us yet >:/

kingdemonic - a gender related to being a king and a demon, i.e. a ruler in hell, a demon who's a king in the human world, etc

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coined on our old blog

i was amazed to not see anyone coin this yet!

dollfluid - a gender that fluctuates between doll-related genders. this could mean between masculine and feminine dollgenders, different aesthetics of dollgenders, etc.

based on the original dollgender flag made by nebularomantic

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coined on our old blog

with / without flowers

vampiresunsongic - a gender related to the phrase "a vampire picking flowers out in the sun" from the song laplace's angel (hurt people? hurt people!) by will wood

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coined on our old blog

demonivesi: a vesility where most or all of your identity is affected by demons or being a demon. intended for demonic alterhumans and demon alters, but anyone with an identity related to demons can use it

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coined on our old blog

alternavesi: a vesility in which all or most of your identity is affected by being an alternate, or by the existence of alternates in general

alternates, here, are the the doppelganger-like demons from the youtube series the mandela catalogue. anyone who relates with the concept of alternates can use this label, though it's intended with alternate fictives from the mandela catalogue in mind

coined by us on our old blog

strawberryvesi - a vesility label where all or most of one's identity involves strawberries, whether it's in aesthetics, symbolism, etc.

ID under the cut

[ID: a horizontal flag with 5 stripes. the third stripe, in the middle, is much more narrow than the othet four stripes. in the middle of the flag is a white four sided star with a black outline. the stripes, from top to bottom are: bright red, light peach pink, light yellow, magenta, and bright red. there are light pink polka dots on the top and bottom stripes. end ID]

i coined this on my old blog, this is my new one!

pyritecrysic - a -crysic gender related to the crystal pyrite, or fools gold. part of the crystalline gender system coined by @crystaline-genders

[ID: a horizontal flag with 5 stripes and a brown diamond in the middle, with a simplified drawing of a crystal inside the brown diamond. stripe colors from top to middle: light yellow, dark orange, light brown. there's a gradient across the flag that starts lighter at the left and ends darker at the right. end ID]

[ID: a square flag with 9 stripes. the first, third, seventh and ninth stripes are thinner, while the second and eighth are wider than the middle three stripes. the stripes are, from top to bottom: cream, blood red, dark red, puce, cream, puce, dark red, blood red, cream. there's a dark red border around the flag. in the middle stripe are two triangles protruding down to look like fangs. end ID]

attraction label : mordant attraction

from the french word "mordre", meaning "bite", this is a specific type of bond between a vampire and someone they turned into a vampire. it can't be explained as exclusively sexual, platonic, romantic, familial, or any other traditional type of attraction. you would say you "feel mordant" towards someone.

mordeur/mordeuse are, respectively, the masculine and feminine form of "biter", meaning the vampire who turned the other. example: "my mordeuse saved my life when they turned me into a vampire."

mordu/mordue are, respectively, the masculine and feminine form of "bitten", meaning the vampire who was turned by the other. example: "my mordu is my greatest creation, and i love him more than anything."

this was made for a vampire alter in our system but anyone who identifies with vampirism can use this term!

[ID: two identical square flags, with five stripes each. the first and fifth stripe are much wider than the middle three. the colors are, in order from top to bottom, navy blue, cerulean, white, light blue, and gray-blue. the only difference between the two flags is that the first one has an overlay on it, which is a black silhouette of two hands outstretched, holding a simplified symbol of two larger people with a smaller person between them. end ID]

with / without symbol

system role : parental alter

a parental alter is an alter who takes on a parental role within the system. they may be older than most of the other alters, and may see the rest of the system as their own children. they care for the younger alters typically, giving advice and handling things that might scare them. they often split due to parental neglect in a child's life, giving that child a chance to have a parent who is there for them.

[ID: two identical square flags with five stripes. the first and fifth stripe are much wider than the middle three. the colors are, in order from top to bottom, a dark yellow-brown, dark orange, white, light yellow, and mustard yellow. the only difference between the two flags is that the first one has an overlay on it, which is a white silhouette of two hands outstretched upward. end ID]

with / without symbol

system role : devotee

a devotee is an alter who is particularly dedicated to the care and wellbeing of, typically, one other person. that person is often another alter in one's own system or an alter in another system. a devotee may see themselves as being made for this person, or living to care for or serve them, whether that emotional attachment is romantic, platonic, familial, or otherwise. a devotee may have other relationships, but they may also be an alter who struggles to maintain relationships with other people, sometimes only fronting if it allows them to interact with the object of their devotion.