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There are moments in life when you are faced with decisions that feel impossible, where every choice seems to pull you in opposite directions. Often, one of these choices may involve letting go of something or someone you deeply care about, knowing that it will break your heart in the process. It can feel like an unbearable weight—like you’re choosing pain over comfort. Yet, within this heartache lies an unspoken truth: sometimes, the hardest choices are the ones that bring you the most peace. Letting go, though excruciating, can clear the path for healing, growth, and the space needed to breathe again. It may not be immediate, but peace often follows when we allow ourselves to step away from something or someone that no longer serves us.

It’s a bittersweet realization that peace isn't always the absence of pain, but rather the courage to embrace the discomfort of necessary change. It requires a kind of inner strength to make the choice that feels like it's unraveling your heart, yet trust that it is stitching back together something more aligned with who you are becoming. In the end, it’s not about avoiding hurt but about finding the freedom to live authentically and at peace with yourself. And though the road may be painful, it is through this heartache that we often find the clarity and resilience needed to step into a future where we are whole again.

‿ℒℴνℯ⁀💕 A͓̽b͓̽d͓̽u͓̽l͓̽l͓̽a͓̽h͓̽

A mistake is something done by accident, something that is not planned.

But cheating and lying are not mistakes; they are known choices. When someone cheats or lies, they have decided to break the trust and hurt the other. It's not accidental; it is intentional. Mistakes can be pardoned because they are done without any intention, but cheating and lying depict lack of respect and honesty.

If you really care for a person, you don't make decisions that will hurt them. Love is built on trust, and such intentional actions can destroy it. Choose honesty and loyalty always.

✍ Abdullah.

Is not enough.

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Don’t let someone treat you badly just because you care about them.

It doesn’t matter if they are a friend, family member, or partner.

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or how kind they’ve been in the past.

You have the right to call out their harmful behavior.

Set clear limits on what is and isn’t okay for you.

You can speak up about how their actions make you feel, and you’re allowed to share your experiences with others.

If needed, you also have the right to step back and create distance.

You have every right to say:

“I love you and I want you in my life, but I can’t keep allowing you to treat me this way. I won’t sacrifice my well-being to keep this relationship going.

If things don’t get better, I will have to end this relationship, not because I don’t care about you, but because I care about myself and deserve respect.”

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You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.

Light Always Wins.

Wish i was kissing you instead of thinking about you.

If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule: NEVER LIE TO YOURSELF.

You are lying to yourself because you seek comfort. Well comfort is overrated. You are lying to yourself because you are scared of the unknown. But you must stop. To continue lying will eat away at your soul, causing you untold amounts of future pain.

A lie is something that you make yourself believe in order to make life a little easier. A lie is a paradigm under which you operate to avoid pain. A lie will destroy you, inside and out. A lie is something you want to believe because to consider the opposite would hurt your ego.

Sometimes the difference between a lie and the truth can be subtle. Sometimes your brain will try to “logically” trick you into believing a lie.

You are lying to yourself when:

1. You try really hard to fit yourself into a mold that hurts.

2. You make that decision that is “logically” correct, but something feels off when you say it out loud.

3. You feel anxious all the time.

4. You seek something familiar, even though you can’t grow from there.

5. You deny your passions and fail to pursue what excites you, no matter what it is. This is a denial of your highest being and your truest self. This is unfair and disrespectful to yourself.

6. You think you can do this all alone.

7. You put someone else’s needs way above your own. You are lying to yourself when you neglect to take care of yourself.

8. You seek distraction to get away from the real stuff — the hard problems. You seek distraction instead of actually working to fix the problems that bother you to your deepest core.

9.You settle — for anything. You think you don’t deserve more than what’s handed to you.

10. You care intensely about what someone else thinks — and let their opinions color your actions.

11. You fail to produce quality work. You are entirely capable of trying your best. Perhaps failure to produce your best means you are in the wrong profession.

12. You ignore that gnawing feeling in your heart and gut.

13. You seek popularity and profits, instead of seeking authenticity.

14 You make rash decisions from a stressed state of mind instead of a place of calamity and rationale.

You can stop lying to yourself by:

1. Being courageous enough to make a definitive decision — going forward even though it is scary.

2. Taking responsibility of what has happened, what is happening, and what is going to happen.

3. Detaching yourself from the fantasy of reliving the past.

4. Moving — actively working to find a place that resonates with you. Take action.

Telling someone something hard. Tell someone that you have been lying to yourself and to them for some time now.

5. Doing something dramatic, in a good way. Take a risk.

6. Not doing something simply because you are told to do it or because everyone else is doing it. Think first if that action resonates with who you are. If not, then don’t do it, even if everyone else is.

7. Facing the music, even though it hurts.

8. Making a decision to stop lying to yourself. Today.

9. Forgiving yourself for hurting yourself for so long.

10. Focusing on what you know to be most important.

11. Meditating — getting still and observing yourself from a calm place.

Asking a trusted friend or mentor what he thinks of your future based on your present actions.

Refusing to associate with people who don’t share your values.

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I pray for people with lonely souls.

I pray for the hungry and the cold.

I pray for little orphans without homes.

I pray for those who are shut-in and all alone.

I pray that tensions in the world will ease.

I pray that we will find everlasting peace.

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5 Times To Be Quiet.

"Perhaps, somewhere, someday, at a less miserable time, we may see each other again"

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