"Perhaps, Somewhere, Someday, At A Less Miserable Time, We May See Each Other Again"

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A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.

"The most important thing is to enjoy your life - to be happy - it's all that matters."

--Abdullah.

Most Men Don't Understand.

Most Men Don't Understand Its Not About Giving Her The World, But It's Actually About Making Her Feel Like She's A Priority In Yours.

It's About Surprising Her With A Sweet Text Throughout The Day To Remind Her You're Thinking About Her.

It's About Coming Home From Work & Asking About Her Day Because You Genuinely Care About The Answer.

It's About Going To The Refrigerator To Get Yourself A Drink, And You Get Her One Without Even Asking.

It's About Driving Down A Backroad & You Pull Off To The Side To Pick Her Some Beautiful Wild Flowers.

It's About Cuddling On The Couch In Sweatpants & Binge Watching Your Favorite Show On Netflix Together.

It's About Taking Her To Her Favorite Restaurant Unannounced.

It's About Slow Dancing With Her In The Rain To A Song That Was Written By George Strait.

It's About Calling Her Randomly & Asking How She Is Doing Because You Care About Her Mental Health.

It's About Laying Her Favorite Dress On The Bed With A Note That Says "Put This On & Be Ready By 7pm".

It's About Knowing The Smallest Details About Her, Like The Way She Likes Her Coffee In The Morning, Or Her Favorite Smell, Or What Movies Make Her Cry.

It's About Going To A Local Ice Cream Parlor On A Saturday Afternoon To Talk About Your Life Goals Together Over A Couple Hot Fudge Sundaes.

Take My Advice And Remember… It Doesn't Always Have To Cost Much Money, It Just Needs To Catch Her Off Guard.

#Abdullah

‿ℒℴνℯ⁀💕 Abdullah

Your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul.

Being faithful in a relationship isn't just about staying out of someone else's bed.

It's way deeper than that.

It's the texts you don't send, the flirty conversations you don't entertain, and the decisions you make when no one's watching.

Being faithful isn't just about avoiding the act of cheating. It's about consciously removing yourself from any situation that could potentially blur the lines. It's about not seeking validation or attention from anyone outside the relationship. It's about not having anything on your phone that you wouldn't want your partner to see.

Being truly faithful is not just about physical monogamy. It's about emotional integrity.

Almost. It’s a big word for me. I feel it everywhere. Almost home. Almost happy. Almost changed. Almost, but not quite. not yet. Soon, maybe.

A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.

Not every person you meet will understand your value, so never try to convince someone of your worth. It will never end well you will spend your precious energy trying to change the opinion of another person which is most often impossible.

Spend time with people who respect, value, and care for you and your life unconditionally.

If they don't see the value of having you, don't try to convince them.

#Abdullah

When did she feel the safest? The most secure? When she was with him. Yes, she was always a strong willed girl, taking no crap, being the strong one for everyone.

That was the role she took on all her life happily. It was part of her makeup.

She knew no other way to be.

Yet, what was behind all that strong exterior?

A fragile delicate soul that questioned everything, over-thought what someone said and how they said it.

She was smart and confident, yet not full of herself. Confident, but had so many dancing insecurities within her.

Insecurities that were unfounded, but needed reassuring every once in awhile.

Trauma does that to a person. There were times he initiated saying things to reassure her and make her smile. Sometimes out of the blue which just made her beam. Other times, she just outright asked him. Not because she didn't know the answer, but simply because she just wanted to hear it.

Hearing him say how he felt about her and things within the confines of their relationship made her smile, feel loved, and secure.

She can be feeling insecure and uneasy because of her own over-thinking one minute, and then totally reassured and at ease in the next- just from a few simple words from him.

Sometimes he even felt it from afar while he was at work. He just felt something. He knew. She didn't even have to say a word. Other times, she asked for that little reassurance by asking 'Miss me?

How much? Love me immensely? What will you do to me next time you see me?'

Answers he happily gave her quickly and easily because they were all true. All deep within him.

She knew that. She knew his feelings, emotions, wants and desires.

But to a woman, knowing and feeling it is one thing. Hearing the spoken words is another. Every now and then we need to hear it. Some girls, like her, need to hear things more often due to traumatic events and losses in life that broke her.

Those things really take a toll on your thoughts and emotions, and you need more reassuring than the average girl. And that's okay. She thought it made her weak asking certain questions for reassurance from him.

But she's learning it's not weak. It's strong because you know what you need emotionally and asking for it. You know yourself and you're respecting your emotional needs. You're self aware. That's strength through all the trauma. Asking for help, asking for reassurance from the one you love with everything you encompass- is raw honest communication.

He doesn't view her as weak at all when she asks him. He views her as the strong woman he loves and adores, going through something emotionally hard, and will always pull her out of her dark spots when she asks or not. He's her safe place of no judgments, just love.

"Abdullah" - A story doesn't exist unless it's Told.