I Miss His Annoying Ass

Everyone shut up shut up shut the fuck up it's positivity hours and YOU ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL.

"but I'm fat—" shut up, no, so am I and we're both beautiful, and anything we change about ourselves is for ourselves, not others.

"but I have acne—" and???? If it bothers YOU then there are medical treatments but either way it's not "gross" and you are beautiful

"but my chest is too small/saggy" no!!! Again, if it bothers YOU then there is nothing wrong with stuffing your bra or getting surgery or whatever but you're perfect no matter WHAT you do or if you do anything at all.

"but my skin—" "my legs—" "my eyes—" "my teeth—" IT. DOES. NOT. MATTER. It doesn't matter if the source of your insecurity is something you were born with, or a recent development. It doesn't matter if you can "control" it. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE WAY YOU LOOK TO BECOME "GOOD ENOUGH". DIETS/PRODUCTS FULL OF CHEMICALS/APPEARANCE MODIFIERS ARE NOT EVER "NECESSARY" JUST BECAUSE SOME OTHER DUMB FUCKERS PERCEIVE YOU AS "UGLY". YOU DO THOSE IF AND WHEN YOU WANT TO!!!

Fat people are not lazy or undisciplined if they aren't trying their best to lose weight by crash dieting and killing themselves at the gym. People with acne and pimples aren't obligated to have a 12-step skincare routine with ridiculously expensive products. People with small or "saggy" chests are not required to do anything about that!! You are all beautiful I don't care anymore!!! No matter what traits you have or do not have, no matter what you do or don't do to be "better", you are still worthy.

I feel like people have tried to make this point and fallen into the trap of saying "you can't control it", thus alienating anyone who can control it (or even just thinks they can). Bestie it does not matter if it's in your control. You have never hurt anyone by looking the way you do, and nobody who is worth keeping around will treat you differently for looking the way you do. So keep putting whatever amount of effort you want to/can into your appearance. None of it is an obligation. I'm sick of people pretending it is.

Love you all bye :))))

by the way I hope you guys know this isn't me saying bakugou has to be your favorite character or even that he's the best written character or whatever

like if you dislike him or have criticisms about the way he's written I completely understand that

but genuinely I've seen people saying he didn't have character development at all and I was just. baffled. like what do you MEAN he hasn't had a character arc IT'S LITERALLY RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU

drew this helpful diagram for mha fans who don't understand what a character arc is

Bakugou Katsuki (in my heart only)

He's genderfluid, he's a transman, he's transfem, he's actually cis and gnc, he's a transwoman but look the exact same as in canon, he's transmasc and wears feminine clothes, he's nonbinary

by dawn, promise me i read chezka’s new fic and felt compelled to draw something right away ,,, ;__; <3 i had never read a hanahaki fic before but i cannot stress enough how much i enjoyed reading this one! 

My dad had the right idea when he called me "Girl,,,, boy? Thing" Like damn I sure am a girlboything.

he smile :D

tHAT PONYTAIL I CAN'T

Could you do kiribaku as proheros doing an interview?

“What’s it like working with fellow pro hero Dynamight?”

I don’t have children so take this with a grain of salt but I hate when you can tell people like the concept of their children more than their well-being. Parents like the concept of an all-beige nursery that’s photogenic more than they care about the development of their kid’s brain. They like the concept of a cutely dressed kid in designer clothes more than they care about their comfort and personal desires. They like the concept of a child who never eats poorly more than they care about the happiness that can come from a child eating some candy now and then. People need to stop treating their kids like little dolls

I started reading some yaoi bc I wanted to live up to my url . And damn people weren’t lying. The anatomy is comically bad in some of these early 2000s yaoi

unpinning my nice fun positivity post because I want to talk a little about this space that I've created. I think a dni is stupid because people never listen anyways, which is why I haven't had one, but I still see the value in at least telling people who this little corner is for.

you are welcome here:

- ALL queers. trans men, trans women, nonbinary, intersex, xenogender, lesboy (omg it's me!!), slur reclaims, detransitioners who are not transphobic, mspec lesbians, aro/ace and all variations thereupon, unlabeled, questioning, etc. I love all of you. I love the community that we have. we are family, whether or not some of us want to be, and exclusionism is Not Funky Fresh!!

- pro Palestine!! I don't rb posts as much (I am scared of spreading misinformation) but I think I'll start doing that again! (don't forget your daily click guys)

- jewish people. I am specifically adding this one to say that because of the shitty Everything, I sincerely hope I have never spread any antisemitic rhetoric in support of Palestine, reblogs or otherwise. it is not your guys' job to educate me, but I hope it's clear that I'm operating in good faith.

- disabilities/cluster b disorders/systems/AAC users. I am not any of these things so if I say/do something out of line please tell me! but I love you guys and you're absolutely welcome here.

- proshippers (if this bothers you block and move on)

- furries. not personally one of y'all but I think you're neat :]

- literally, like, anyone, as long as you're not a dick

you are not welcome here:

- terfs, transphobes, exclusionists, anti-mspec, anti-lesboy, and people who think transandrophobia is "fake" or whatever. go away I don't like you (or at least be prepared to be blocked or yelled at)

- similarly to last, anyone who starts queer infighting or hates on less visible queers/strangers who don't "look" queer (I don't care if you think someone is cishet. you have no way of knowing that. let's stop hating people for immutable characteristics and start having thoughtful criticisms of people's actions thanks)

- ZIONISTS. BYE BYE

- (but also antisemites because come on now let's not do this. judiasm ≠ zionism)

- ableists, fatphobia, general dickheads. also if you're the kind of person who would tell me irl that I'm a failure for dropping out, I don't want you here!!! surprise!!!

- antis (again, either leave now or expect to be argued with)

other stuff under the cut bc this is already too long:

- I am autistic and VERY gullible. if I reblog a "bait" post, or something that's clearly fake or a joke with a genuine reaction, it's because I'm stupid. y'all I'm sorry I'm trying :\

- I don't rb nsfw. not as, like, a rule, I just don't see the value in doing so lol. if I ever did I'd tag it and probably update this

- I argue with people!! I enjoy arguing with people!! usually it's in replies and not reblogs but still. if you are allergic to discourse maybe don't follow me? I also rb "discourse" posts, mostly transmasc support stuff, general solidarity stuff with the trans community or lgbt community as a whole, politics, current events, that kinda thing.

- this is, shockingly, supposed to be a fandom blog (I got carried away). current fandoms include: Ace Attorney (the one this blog was supposed to be about), Doctor Who (childhood hyperfixation come back to bite my ass), and Splatoon (no excuse). I am still battling with my MHA addiction and you can find the records of my failing recovery at @oliver-is-losing-sleep-over-krbk /hj (I also shamelessly rb my own posts over there lol)

anyways, that's about it. love you all :]